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Experiment None of the normie advice has a success condition

RopeMaXXer

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I am willing to listen to any realistic advice with a success condition. This is obviously more of a thought exercise as I don't think there's a magical maneuver that will overcome my bones.
Any time I hear advice it's either too vague or not correctly setting up a goal for me to fulfill only for me to prove the blackpill right.
More often than not the "advice" is usually the end goal
"put yourself out there" is not advice, certainly not "worked for me" as follow up.
"talk to more women by doing X" That's advice.
"I did X, no women want to talk to me, forcing the interaction takes me nowhere"
"not like THAT inkel"

What does a friendless loser in mid 20s do? Serious question. I don't have 3 women hitting up my DMs daily that can hook me up. I don't get weekly party invites. My mom is the only person that texts me regularly. Dating sites are laughable at this point. Do I just walk up to strangers or what?(I actually do this lmfao). I am a normal person with mediocre looks. I have a good job, car and a mortgage. Where's the women that complain about fuckboys with none of those things?
Oh right, I don't cause pussy tingles.
 
They never work tbh
 
I am willing to listen to any realistic advice with a success condition. This is obviously more of a thought exercise as I don't think there's a magical maneuver that will overcome my bones.
Any time I hear advice it's either too vague or not correctly setting up a goal for me to fulfill only for me to prove the blackpill right.
More often than not the "advice" is usually the end goal
"put yourself out there" is not advice, certainly not "worked for me" as follow up.
"talk to more women by doing X" That's advice.
"I did X, no women want to talk to me, forcing the interaction takes me nowhere"
"not like THAT inkel"

What does a friendless loser in mid 20s do? Serious question. I don't have 3 women hitting up my DMs daily that can hook me up. I don't get weekly party invites. My mom is the only person that texts me regularly. Dating sites are laughable at this point. Do I just walk up to strangers or what?(I actually do this lmfao). I am a normal person with mediocre looks. I have a good job, car and a mortgage. Where's the women that complain about fuckboys with none of those things?
Oh right, I don't cause pussy tingles.
I don't know man, these huge faults have showed up in society, splitting people apart, and the women make sure to cluster only in the especially "good" faults, leaving as much behind in the dust as they can.

Literally the only thing that I know worked is what one friend did who changed his workplace and found a desperate woman there, and what a relative did who said he just went alone to clubs over and over until he got friends and a gf for being tall and good looking and in the same expensive club most nights.
 
Its over if you dont have a social circle tbh. I know few of my friends (some even uglier than me ) got foids through their friends or friends of friends. Meanwhile, i have no clue how what to do @ 32.
 
Holy fuck, mogs me.
I almost fucked up my life, but I pulled through. Did it matter?
Literally the only thing that I know worked is what one friend did who changed his workplace and found a desperate woman there, and what a relative did who said he just went alone to clubs over and over until he got friends and a gf for being tall and good looking and in the same expensive club most nights.
I'm most likely going back to college simply because of this. I don't even need it, I already put down enough time on my resume to be hired based on experience elsewhere. The way women disassociate and create natural cabals is almost evil. If you have nothing people want they just don't talk to you. It would be hilarious if it wasn't my life
 
They know that they are giving bs advice, they just want to look helpful.
 
Well of course not, the point is to get unattractive men on the eternal "self improvement" treadmill of bending backwards to appease the whims of everyone around them. Of course your real problem is the way everyone around you acts, not you yourself.

It's like those video games that offer you the ability to pay money to skip the grind that the devs themselves created in the first place.
There's two basic limitations for everyone. Time and amount of women you can talk to.
You obviously cannot spend 24/7 talking to women even if you had a rotating selection and could skip the moment you saw lack of interest.
Then there's the availability. I have none of these things, but let's say I could be placed in a neverending speeddating carousel. How many broads do I have to go through?
Now extrapolate that onto real life. How many women are you going to meet going at your pace?
This shit just depresses me
 
Ofcourse it doesn't.Normie advice is the first thing that comes into their heads,without thought of there being any nuance to the issue.
They know that they are giving bs advice, they just want to look helpful.
Exactly.It's all about virute signaling
 
All the advice you need to hear is just™.
I do believe ones demeanor plays a role. True confidence in one self and masculine personality traits are important to the male female dynamic. However if your looks are shit and your aura isnt there you can forget about it.
 
I almost fucked up my life, but I pulled through. Did it matter?
I guess not, but I'm trying to motivate myself to fix my life tbh. Probably pointless though.
True confidence in one self and masculine personality traits are important to the male female dynamic.
:feelsrope:
 
I guess not, but I'm trying to motivate myself to fix my life tbh. Probably pointless though.
You become well adjusted so you don't have to rope at 30. Not because it will cause any improvement in life quality.
 
Well of course not, the point is to get unattractive men on the eternal "self improvement" treadmill of bending backwards to appease the whims of everyone around them. Of course your real problem is the way everyone around you acts, not you yourself.

It's like those video games that offer you the ability to pay money to skip the grind that the devs themselves created in the first place.
There's a saying. "If you smell shit everywhere you go, look under your shoe." Which definitely applies to our situation, except we don't have the option to wash our shoes.
 
Oh right, I don't cause pussy tingles.
Foids are so fucking one dimensional and fickle when it comes to attraction. Fucking shithead faggots.
 
You're mistaken in thinking that normies give advice because they want to help you. They give you advice because they want to feel better about themselves, and to also feel smug that they have it better than you in regards to the dating department.
 
The success conditions are being Chad or being filthy rich.
 

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