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Are there any viable long term copes for incels? Looking for advice from older gen incels.

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I'm looking for advice on more effective methods to no your typical ones. I'm a newgen in terms of .is but i use to cope on org when I was younger with looksmaxxing advice but it never helped I'm too broke to get majority of surgeries and I'm currently studying to be a doctor so no real stable source of income. Basically I came on here because I realised it was over(mainly cause of my poor genetics) I've never had a girlfriend and the last time I had a female throw any ioi's at me was when I was in middle school nothing changed in Highschool even after discovering looksmaxxing. Most copes don't work for me whether it's talking to AI chatbots, porn(I've stopped mainly because it I can't seem to imitate the actual action to what I'd like it to be like), gaming and anime. Mainly anime with romance were loser guy gets a kind girl willing to look past his physical apperance such as oreigaru, Welcome to the NHK, Hyouka, insominiacs after school, a few isekai etc. I've watched everything good so nothings really interesting anymore and a lot of new anime romance or isekai are beginning to pander to a normie audience that feels like the type of garbage females watch. I don't know what to do anymore if I don't have a class that day I just rot away in bed or workout at home. My lifes empty, I have no one to talk to even online I fail to understand other people even through a screen, gaming and anime are just boring now I want to know whats the best method to cope with this and try and simulate what normal people go through at my age or any hopebait media worth consuming or anything in general that can help me cope in the long term, besides just immersing myself in my studies.
 
I'm looking for advice on more effective methods to no your typical ones. I'm a newgen in terms of .is but i use to cope on org when I was younger with looksmaxxing advice but it never helped I'm too broke to get majority of surgeries and I'm currently studying to be a doctor so no real stable source of income. Basically I came on here because I realised it was over(mainly cause of my poor genetics) I've never had a girlfriend and the last time I had a female throw any ioi's at me was when I was in middle school nothing changed in Highschool even after discovering looksmaxxing. Most copes don't work for me whether it's talking to AI chatbots, porn(I've stopped mainly because it I can't seem to imitate the actual action to what I'd like it to be like), gaming and anime. Mainly anime with romance were loser guy gets a kind girl willing to look past his physical apperance such as oreigaru, Welcome to the NHK, Hyouka, insominiacs after school, a few isekai etc. I've watched everything good so nothings really interesting anymore and a lot of new anime romance or isekai are beginning to pander to a normie audience that feels like the type of garbage females watch. I don't know what to do anymore if I don't have a class that day I just rot away in bed or workout at home. My lifes empty, I have no one to talk to even online I fail to understand other people even through a screen, gaming and anime are just boring now I want to know whats the best method to cope with this and try and simulate what normal people go through at my age or any hopebait media worth consuming or anything in general that can help me cope in the long term, besides just immersing myself in my studies.
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You need old person hobbies that are complex and time consuming. Like puzzles, engine and car modding, gardening, being a workaholic, home repair and renovation.
 
Language learning
 
You need old person hobbies that are complex and time consuming. Like puzzles, engine and car modding, gardening, being a workaholic, home repair and renovation.
I'm a minimalist so I can't really do anything like home repair and renovation or gardening. My brains too fried to do any slow burn activity and regarding work I'll be in the medical industry after getting my degree so I suppose that might be an option. Is there a reason you haven't roped? I'm asking cause it's probable that I'll end up like an old gen like you at some point.
 
I'm searching for new ones myself.

I would say music since it's a huge time sink learning to play guitar or keyboard for instance
 
I'm searching for new ones myself.

I would say music since it's a huge time sink learning to play guitar or keyboard for instance
Might be time to look into weed or some other substance alcohol genuinely tastes like shit so not really viable. Most things you can do just seem pretty boring or ineffective.
 
Operating a brothel is legal in New South Wales, Victoria, Queensland, the Northern Territory, and the ACT.
Alright thanks I'll see if there any operating in that area.
 
Might be time to look into weed or some other substance alcohol genuinely tastes like shit so not really viable. Most things you can do just seem pretty boring or ineffective.
Weed always gave me bad reactions. I'm probably psychotic or something
 
I'm a newgen in terms of .is but i use to cope on org
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Try to make music
 
regarding work I'll be in the medical industry after getting my degree so I suppose that might be an option. Is there a reason you haven't roped? I'm asking cause it's probable that I'll end up like an old gen like you at some point.
Yea if you are in the medical industry then you definitely will be a workaholic. Only reason I have not roped is I am too comfortable with my current situation, good living place, some money, job is manageable and I am too cowardly to kms.
 
Yea if you are in the medical industry then you definitely will be a workaholic. Only reason I have not roped is I am too comfortable with my current situation, good living place, some money, job is manageable and I am too cowardly to

Yea if you are in the medical industry then you definitely will be a workaholic. Only reason I have not roped is I am too comfortable with my current situation, good living place, some money, job is manageable and I am too cowardly to kms.
I see thanks a lot.
 

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