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Listen to me brocels. Because I learnt this from actual raw life experience that changed my mindset for life. Never EVER, befriend someone physically stronger, smarter, more social status etc than you.
Not out of insecurity but for these reasons:

They will most likely not help you, give you any meaningful advice (unless it's the same old, this worked for me so it must work for you). They will instead find out sooner or later that you have nothing and have a prey drive against you. They will dominate and drain you of your time and resources. And most likely manipulate you. You would think having friends in high places would help you in life. Which it can, but only if they like you or are impressed by you. If they find out your have nothing and aren't even close to the same level. They will lose respect for you and only keep your around for jesters, Dominate you and use you when your needed. They will chew you up like a bubble gum, drain you of all the flavours and spit you out.

They is absolutely no point in being in a social circle if you can't fight, or at the weakest in the group. Not just in physical strength but just if they mog In you in life in general. You would rather be lonely than the omega of a group. Trust me.

Stay within your own incel group. This why real friendship only happens between those who happen to live a similar lifestyle and share the same values.

Story time:

I used to have a chadlite friend who I used to think was a genuine friend I would keep around for years. Taught me how to fight and brought me to his local boxing club. Introduced me to many new people and giving me a social circle. And even tried getting me laid. Even found me a way to make money. Stood up to bullies. Tried giving me advice on how to be more NT Etc

However, time went by and I realized he would talk down on me whenever he was around higher status elders (older cooler kids) or around females. And would mock
[UWSL]and use me as a jester to impress them and get more rep.[/UWSL]

He would also act unusually friendly and nice to me around females aswell to make it seem like he was a kindhearted, empathetic person to get a better Impression Infront of foids. So females can be like "Aww he's so sweet and kind".

He started becoming more disrespectful and treating me like shit in general. I was coping by telling myself "This is what happens when people are friends for along time, they get into fight and arguements, its only natural".

Started filming me to put on his Snapchat and make fun of.

He started randomly telling people I'm autistic,even though that was like my biggest insecurity at the time and didn't want many people knowing. I don't know why he did this. Maybe to stop people from taking me as seriously. And people started assuming I was a retard after that point.

I thought he was a close friend I could tell secrets and deep thoughts too(biggest mistake I ever made) But he just leaked Information about me to other normies. Only for them to further see me as a weirdo. .
I kept hanging around him, in hopes of socially ascending and getting laid. Like the fat ugly girl hanging out with the cute popular girl scenario in the high school movies.

He came to my house when he's dad was abroad and no one was at his house to snack on the foods in my fridge and play on my PS4. He also used my card to transfer his dirty money into. When he was card scamming or whatever. He was basically using me for my time and resources. And I thought, since he was a popular guy, it would get me somewhere and I would become popular myself.


Oh boy how cucked and naive I was.

[UWSL]One day I confronted him about all of this. And tried fighting him. Only to get brutally beaten. Battered badly ngl. I atleast had the balls to try fighting with him[/UWSL]

I later found out when going to a youth center, that he has been arrested numerous times, beaten up staff members of the youth club, been to a detention center. I also watched him beat up his own sister really badly first hand. Beat up a McDonald's crew member, beat up many grown men twice his age, I knew staying mates with him wouldn't end well for me. Because he would most likely end up trying to make me his bitch. Like he did with other smaller friends he had, he had many friends that operated like his little bitches and would serve him. Which is one of the top 10 biggest forms of cuckoldry imo, (second to having a daughter).

And I knew I couldn't end up like that.

Anyway, you see the thing I noticed about my short lived friendship with this guy. Is that at the very start. He had assumptions about me and that was that he assumed I was just as normie as him. That I got laid, that I had a social circle, that I was tough etc. But only later in the friendship, he realized I was different and took advantage of me. This is the same pattern with most friendships I've had with other normies.
They want to hangout with other Normies or even higher status people to get them somewhere in life. That's why they initially treat you well when you start becoming friends with them because they assume your a normie, just like them. And once they find out your slightly weird and have nothing. They will use those weaknesses of yours to manipulate you and drain you of your time and resources, use you for jesters and a quick laugh.

This is why I say real friendship can only happen between those who share a similar lifestyle.

TL;DR. Never become friends with someone that mogs you in all aspects of life, unless you can get a good impression on them and easily manipulate them into helping you in life. Which no incel can do anyways.
 
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yeah, that was the strategy when i choose my school friends
 
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just don't trust anyone is the #1 rule. other incels are probably the most dangerous since many of them will change and backstab you if they luck out and manage to land a foid, while normies and chads are predictable in their behaviour.
 
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I disagree with basically everything you said. I advice the exact opposite:
ONLY befriend people who are better than you.



They will most likely not help you, give you any meaningful advice (unless it's the same old, this worked for me so it must work for you).
Their presence alone should be help enough.
You can observe and learn.
They don't have to go out of their way and be like a teacher or parent to you, you're a grown ass man you stupid fuck, you should learn by observing them and talking to them. Ask them how they do things etc.

They will dominate and drain you of your time and resources. And most likely manipulate you.
They aren't your friend then.
We're talking about beFRIENDING people here, right?

They is absolutely no point in being in a social circle if you can't fight, or at the weakest in the group. Not just in physical strength but just if they mog In you in life in general. You would rather be lonely than the omega of a group. Trust me.
The point is that you put yourself into situations which make you uncomfortable and show you your flaws so that you can work on them.
It's much better to be the weakest in a group, get uncomfortable and then work on yourself to get stronger instead of being a pathetic fuck for the rest of your life only spending time with other pathetic fucks.


Story time:

I used to have a chadlite friend who I used to think was a genuine friend I would keep around for years. Taught me how to fight and brought me to his local boxing club. Introduced me to many new people and giving me a social circle. And even tried getting me laid. Even found me a way to make money. Stood up to bullies. Tried giving me advice on how to be more NT Etc
What a good guy. Respect.
But he probably got tired of your pathetic ass because you didn't improve and he realised what a bitch you are.

Anyways, you base your advice on 1 guy who was even nice to you but later turned around on you for unknown reasons?
Are you stupid?
 
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OP, I fully endorse your reasoning and I've been through a very similar experience (this friend of mine also helped me to learn how to fight). In the end, he was using me all along. It's better to be alone and have your own center of reasoning.
 
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I disagree with basically everything you said. I advice the exact opposite:
ONLY befriend people who are better than you.




Their presence alone should be help enough.
You can observe and learn.
They don't have to go out of their way and be like a teacher or parent to you, you're a grown ass man you stupid fuck, you should learn by observing them and talking to them. Ask them how they do things etc.


They aren't your friend then.
We're talking about beFRIENDING people here, right?


The point is that you put yourself into situations which make you uncomfortable and show you your flaws so that you can work on them.
It's much better to be the weakest in a group, get uncomfortable and then work on yourself to get stronger instead of being a pathetic fuck for the rest of your life only spending time with other pathetic fucks.



What a good guy. Respect.
But he probably got tired of your pathetic ass because you didn't improve and he realised what a bitch you are.

Anyways, you base your advice on 1 guy who was even nice to you but later turned around on you for unknown reasons?
Are you stupid?
I mean I was pretty young when this happened and it all happened within a year. I did try and improve. I did try and copy them. But the guy wasn't a good guy. I observed how he and his friends acted and tried to NTmaxx. But regardless of all my efforts, they still treated me like the little man there. They always had the newest NT clothes, tracksuits, trainers etc. These guys were drug dealers and card scammers. I wasn't making much money to afford designer clothing. So no I wasn't some guy who failed to improve. I was always trying. It's just that this jackass told everyone I was autistic and that changed their view on me and after that everyone mistreated me even more and I was even more of a joke.

Your making it seem like it's my fault. Which it is not. The guy turned on me for no reason at all. I had the balls to try fighting him for doing so. On about "what a good guy, respect" wtf.

[UWSL]Although, I have gotten better at being NT And do better with socialising with normies as of now. [/UWSL]

But yeah your right, befriending people who are better than you is necessary especially at a better age. So you can learn from your own flaws and work on them to become more NT and likeable. Which will help you to be socially successful and have many connections as you get older.

Not hanging out with the same losers. But I guess for people who have no hope of ascending socially or no interest in it whatsoever. Hanging out with moggers isn't the best idea. And yes I admit one guy shouldn't change your entire mindset on things. But this same pattern happened with numerous normies, they assume I'm NT and I'm initially good friends with them, and alot of the time it stays that way.

But sometimes they find out I'm not as NT as they thought I would be when they somehow find out I'm a virgin and learn from old friends about embarrassing moments from the past.
 
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yeah, that was the strategy when i choose my school friends
I only have friends that look and heightmatch me as all the tall chadlites think Im weird and ostracise me
 
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never trust anyone

incel/normie/chad - doesn't matter.

when there's pussy in the room all males default to caveman mode:feelskek:
 
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OP, I fully endorse your reasoning and I've been through a very similar experience (this friend of mine also helped me to learn how to fight). In the end, he was using me all along. It's better to be alone and have your own center of reasoning.
Preciate it, you are what your bio says.
 
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My last ‘friend’ was my cousin.
While we did seem to have similar likes and hobbies. And a very similar upbringing, though I was poorer.
There was always something off while we talked. He never gave a in-depth chat to any topic, I drove the conversation, which is strange, I am very antisocial.

Long story short this friendship lasted 3-4 years before eventually he stopped contacting me, I didn’t feel the need to always start the chat, just seemed like I was forcing myself into chatting with him, while it just seemed he only responded.

I think if we had more childhood memories together it may have worked out possibly. The only friends people seem to ever keep in their lives seem to come from their childhood, it’s really hard to build a friendship once your in your 20s.
 
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Friendships and I think all relationships are built on how well and far your memory can recall someone. If you have enough ‘points’ in that persons life people will find you more fondly.
 
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Listen to me brocels. Because I learnt this from actual raw life experience that changed my mindset for life. Never EVER, befriend someone physically stronger, smarter, more social status etc than you.
Not out of insecurity but for these reasons:

They will most likely not help you, give you any meaningful advice (unless it's the same old, this worked for me so it must work for you). They will instead find out sooner or later that you have nothing and have a prey drive against you. They will dominate and drain you of your time and resources. And most likely manipulate you. You would think having friends in high places would help you in life. Which it can, but only if they like you or are impressed by you. If they find out your have nothing and aren't even close to the same level. They will lose respect for you and only keep your around for jesters, Dominate you and use you when your needed. They will chew you up like a bubble gum, drain you of all the flavours and spit you out.

They is absolutely no point in being in a social circle if you can't fight, or at the weakest in the group. Not just in physical strength but just if they mog In you in life in general. You would rather be lonely than the omega of a group. Trust me.

Stay within your own incel group. This why real friendship only happens between those who happen to live a similar lifestyle and share the same values.

Story time:

I used to have a chadlite friend who I used to think was a genuine friend I would keep around for years. Taught me how to fight and brought me to his local boxing club. Introduced me to many new people and giving me a social circle. And even tried getting me laid. Even found me a way to make money. Stood up to bullies. Tried giving me advice on how to be more NT Etc

However, time went by and I realized he would talk down on me whenever he was around higher status elders (older cooler kids) or around females. And would mock
[UWSL]and use me as a jester to impress them and get more rep.[/UWSL]

He would also act unusually friendly and nice to me around females aswell to make it seem like he was a kindhearted, empathetic person to get a better Impression Infront of foids. So females can be like "Aww he's so sweet and kind".

He started becoming more disrespectful and treating me like shit in general. I was coping by telling myself "This is what happens when people are friends for along time, they get into fight and arguements, its only natural".

Started filming me to put on his Snapchat and make fun of.

He started randomly telling people I'm autistic,even though that was like my biggest insecurity at the time and didn't want many people knowing. I don't know why he did this. Maybe to stop people from taking me as seriously. And people started assuming I was a retard after that point.

I thought he was a close friend I could tell secrets and deep thoughts too(biggest mistake I ever made) But he just leaked Information about me to other normies. Only for them to further see me as a weirdo. .
I kept hanging around him, in hopes of socially ascending and getting laid. Like the fat ugly girl hanging out with the cute popular girl scenario in the high school movies.

He came to my house when he's dad was abroad and no one was at his house to snack on the foods in my fridge and play on my PS4. He also used my card to transfer his dirty money into. When he was card scamming or whatever. He was basically using me for my time and resources. And I thought, since he was a popular guy, it would get me somewhere and I would become popular myself.


Oh boy how cucked and naive I was.

[UWSL]One day I confronted him about all of this. And tried fighting him. Only to get brutally beaten. Battered badly ngl. I atleast had the balls to try fighting with him[/UWSL]

I later found out when going to a youth center, that he has been arrested numerous times, beaten up staff members of the youth club, been to a detention center. I also watched him beat up his own sister really badly first hand. Beat up a McDonald's crew member, beat up many grown men twice his age, I knew staying mates with him wouldn't end well for me. Because he would most likely end up trying to make me his bitch. Like he did with other smaller friends he had, he had many friends that operated like his little bitches and would serve him. Which is one of the top 10 biggest forms of cuckoldry imo, (second to having a daughter).

And I knew I couldn't end up like that.

Anyway, you see the thing I noticed about my short lived friendship with this guy. Is that at the very start. He had assumptions about me and that was that he assumed I was just as normie as him. That I got laid, that I had a social circle, that I was tough etc. But only later in the friendship, he realized I was different and took advantage of me. This is the same pattern with most friendships I've had with other normies.
They want to hangout with other Normies or even higher status people to get them somewhere in life. That's why they initially treat you well when you start becoming friends with them because they assume your a normie, just like them. And once they find out your slightly weird and have nothing. They will use those weaknesses of yours to manipulate you and drain you of your time and resources, use you for jesters and a quick laugh.

This is why I say real friendship can only happen between those who share a similar lifestyle.

TL;DR. Never become friends with someone that mogs you in all aspects of life, unless you can get a good impression on them and easily manipulate them into helping you in life. Which no incel can do anyways.
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@YBP Yxngcel @nice_try

I agree with both of you guys. My conclusions is that we should get along with people superior than us. Enough to leech something but not enough to be in uncomfortable situations in order to be mogged and mocked.
 
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You are the average of the 4-5 people closest to you.

Befriending highly motivated entrepreneurs is better than befriending a bunch of meth heads and drunks.

As for me, I have no friends but I am trying my best.:cryfeels:
 
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Mogs me for even having a fren!
 
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@YBP Yxngcel @nice_try

I agree with both of you guys. My conclusions is that we should get along with people superior than us. Enough to leech something but not enough to be in uncomfortable situations in order to be mogged and mocked.
Agreed. @nice_try you had some valid points and made me realize some of the flaws in my post. The rudeness wasn't necessary thout
 
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Listen to me brocels. Because I learnt this from actual raw life experience that changed my mindset for life. Never EVER, befriend someone physically stronger, smarter, more social status etc than you.
Not out of insecurity but for these reasons:

They will most likely not help you, give you any meaningful advice (unless it's the same old, this worked for me so it must work for you). They will instead find out sooner or later that you have nothing and have a prey drive against you. They will dominate and drain you of your time and resources. And most likely manipulate you. You would think having friends in high places would help you in life. Which it can, but only if they like you or are impressed by you. If they find out your have nothing and aren't even close to the same level. They will lose respect for you and only keep your around for jesters, Dominate you and use you when your needed. They will chew you up like a bubble gum, drain you of all the flavours and spit you out.

They is absolutely no point in being in a social circle if you can't fight, or at the weakest in the group. Not just in physical strength but just if they mog In you in life in general. You would rather be lonely than the omega of a group. Trust me.

Stay within your own incel group. This why real friendship only happens between those who happen to live a similar lifestyle and share the same values.

Story time:

I used to have a chadlite friend who I used to think was a genuine friend I would keep around for years. Taught me how to fight and brought me to his local boxing club. Introduced me to many new people and giving me a social circle. And even tried getting me laid. Even found me a way to make money. Stood up to bullies. Tried giving me advice on how to be more NT Etc

However, time went by and I realized he would talk down on me whenever he was around higher status elders (older cooler kids) or around females. And would mock
[UWSL]and use me as a jester to impress them and get more rep.[/UWSL]

He would also act unusually friendly and nice to me around females aswell to make it seem like he was a kindhearted, empathetic person to get a better Impression Infront of foids. So females can be like "Aww he's so sweet and kind".

He started becoming more disrespectful and treating me like shit in general. I was coping by telling myself "This is what happens when people are friends for along time, they get into fight and arguements, its only natural".

Started filming me to put on his Snapchat and make fun of.

He started randomly telling people I'm autistic,even though that was like my biggest insecurity at the time and didn't want many people knowing. I don't know why he did this. Maybe to stop people from taking me as seriously. And people started assuming I was a retard after that point.

I thought he was a close friend I could tell secrets and deep thoughts too(biggest mistake I ever made) But he just leaked Information about me to other normies. Only for them to further see me as a weirdo. .
I kept hanging around him, in hopes of socially ascending and getting laid. Like the fat ugly girl hanging out with the cute popular girl scenario in the high school movies.

He came to my house when he's dad was abroad and no one was at his house to snack on the foods in my fridge and play on my PS4. He also used my card to transfer his dirty money into. When he was card scamming or whatever. He was basically using me for my time and resources. And I thought, since he was a popular guy, it would get me somewhere and I would become popular myself.


Oh boy how cucked and naive I was.

[UWSL]One day I confronted him about all of this. And tried fighting him. Only to get brutally beaten. Battered badly ngl. I atleast had the balls to try fighting with him[/UWSL]

I later found out when going to a youth center, that he has been arrested numerous times, beaten up staff members of the youth club, been to a detention center. I also watched him beat up his own sister really badly first hand. Beat up a McDonald's crew member, beat up many grown men twice his age, I knew staying mates with him wouldn't end well for me. Because he would most likely end up trying to make me his bitch. Like he did with other smaller friends he had, he had many friends that operated like his little bitches and would serve him. Which is one of the top 10 biggest forms of cuckoldry imo, (second to having a daughter).

And I knew I couldn't end up like that.

Anyway, you see the thing I noticed about my short lived friendship with this guy. Is that at the very start. He had assumptions about me and that was that he assumed I was just as normie as him. That I got laid, that I had a social circle, that I was tough etc. But only later in the friendship, he realized I was different and took advantage of me. This is the same pattern with most friendships I've had with other normies.
They want to hangout with other Normies or even higher status people to get them somewhere in life. That's why they initially treat you well when you start becoming friends with them because they assume your a normie, just like them. And once they find out your slightly weird and have nothing. They will use those weaknesses of yours to manipulate you and drain you of your time and resources, use you for jesters and a quick laugh.

This is why I say real friendship can only happen between those who share a similar lifestyle.

TL;DR. Never become friends with someone that mogs you in all aspects of life, unless you can get a good impression on them and easily manipulate them into helping you in life. Which no incel can do anyways.
Not like I can befriend them in the first place, they usually ignore me and brush me off
 
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Listen to me brocels. Because I learnt this from actual raw life experience that changed my mindset for life. Never EVER, befriend someone physically stronger, smarter, more social status etc than you.
Not out of insecurity but for these reasons:

They will most likely not help you, give you any meaningful advice (unless it's the same old, this worked for me so it must work for you). They will instead find out sooner or later that you have nothing and have a prey drive against you. They will dominate and drain you of your time and resources. And most likely manipulate you. You would think having friends in high places would help you in life. Which it can, but only if they like you or are impressed by you. If they find out your have nothing and aren't even close to the same level. They will lose respect for you and only keep your around for jesters, Dominate you and use you when your needed. They will chew you up like a bubble gum, drain you of all the flavours and spit you out.

They is absolutely no point in being in a social circle if you can't fight, or at the weakest in the group. Not just in physical strength but just if they mog In you in life in general. You would rather be lonely than the omega of a group. Trust me.

Stay within your own incel group. This why real friendship only happens between those who happen to live a similar lifestyle and share the same values.

Story time:

I used to have a chadlite friend who I used to think was a genuine friend I would keep around for years. Taught me how to fight and brought me to his local boxing club. Introduced me to many new people and giving me a social circle. And even tried getting me laid. Even found me a way to make money. Stood up to bullies. Tried giving me advice on how to be more NT Etc

However, time went by and I realized he would talk down on me whenever he was around higher status elders (older cooler kids) or around females. And would mock
[UWSL]and use me as a jester to impress them and get more rep.[/UWSL]

He would also act unusually friendly and nice to me around females aswell to make it seem like he was a kindhearted, empathetic person to get a better Impression Infront of foids. So females can be like "Aww he's so sweet and kind".

He started becoming more disrespectful and treating me like shit in general. I was coping by telling myself "This is what happens when people are friends for along time, they get into fight and arguements, its only natural".

Started filming me to put on his Snapchat and make fun of.

He started randomly telling people I'm autistic,even though that was like my biggest insecurity at the time and didn't want many people knowing. I don't know why he did this. Maybe to stop people from taking me as seriously. And people started assuming I was a retard after that point.

I thought he was a close friend I could tell secrets and deep thoughts too(biggest mistake I ever made) But he just leaked Information about me to other normies. Only for them to further see me as a weirdo. .
I kept hanging around him, in hopes of socially ascending and getting laid. Like the fat ugly girl hanging out with the cute popular girl scenario in the high school movies.

He came to my house when he's dad was abroad and no one was at his house to snack on the foods in my fridge and play on my PS4. He also used my card to transfer his dirty money into. When he was card scamming or whatever. He was basically using me for my time and resources. And I thought, since he was a popular guy, it would get me somewhere and I would become popular myself.


Oh boy how cucked and naive I was.

[UWSL]One day I confronted him about all of this. And tried fighting him. Only to get brutally beaten. Battered badly ngl. I atleast had the balls to try fighting with him[/UWSL]

I later found out when going to a youth center, that he has been arrested numerous times, beaten up staff members of the youth club, been to a detention center. I also watched him beat up his own sister really badly first hand. Beat up a McDonald's crew member, beat up many grown men twice his age, I knew staying mates with him wouldn't end well for me. Because he would most likely end up trying to make me his bitch. Like he did with other smaller friends he had, he had many friends that operated like his little bitches and would serve him. Which is one of the top 10 biggest forms of cuckoldry imo, (second to having a daughter).

And I knew I couldn't end up like that.

Anyway, you see the thing I noticed about my short lived friendship with this guy. Is that at the very start. He had assumptions about me and that was that he assumed I was just as normie as him. That I got laid, that I had a social circle, that I was tough etc. But only later in the friendship, he realized I was different and took advantage of me. This is the same pattern with most friendships I've had with other normies.
They want to hangout with other Normies or even higher status people to get them somewhere in life. That's why they initially treat you well when you start becoming friends with them because they assume your a normie, just like them. And once they find out your slightly weird and have nothing. They will use those weaknesses of yours to manipulate you and drain you of your time and resources, use you for jesters and a quick laugh.

This is why I say real friendship can only happen between those who share a similar lifestyle.

TL;DR. Never become friends with someone that mogs you in all aspects of life, unless you can get a good impression on them and easily manipulate them into helping you in life. Which no incel can do anyways.
I has similar scheme, pattern with my old "friend", with whom I once argued and he made entire class in school bully me for entire year which fucked with my mental health real much
 
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@Revolution Needed 2 I dont have friends. I avoid it because of reasons stated by OP. Its a battlefield, people constantly trying to find ways to appear better, superior or more high-value than each other.

Friendship is larp. There's only the dominant and the dominated. The conqueror and the conquered. The superior and the inferior. The oppressor and the oppressed.
 
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Listen to me brocels. Because I learnt this from actual raw life experience that changed my mindset for life. Never EVER, befriend someone physically stronger, smarter, more social status etc than you.
Not out of insecurity but for these reasons:

They will most likely not help you, give you any meaningful advice (unless it's the same old, this worked for me so it must work for you). They will instead find out sooner or later that you have nothing and have a prey drive against you. They will dominate and drain you of your time and resources. And most likely manipulate you. You would think having friends in high places would help you in life. Which it can, but only if they like you or are impressed by you. If they find out your have nothing and aren't even close to the same level. They will lose respect for you and only keep your around for jesters, Dominate you and use you when your needed. They will chew you up like a bubble gum, drain you of all the flavours and spit you out.

They is absolutely no point in being in a social circle if you can't fight, or at the weakest in the group. Not just in physical strength but just if they mog In you in life in general. You would rather be lonely than the omega of a group. Trust me.

Stay within your own incel group. This why real friendship only happens between those who happen to live a similar lifestyle and share the same values.

Story time:

I used to have a chadlite friend who I used to think was a genuine friend I would keep around for years. Taught me how to fight and brought me to his local boxing club. Introduced me to many new people and giving me a social circle. And even tried getting me laid. Even found me a way to make money. Stood up to bullies. Tried giving me advice on how to be more NT Etc

However, time went by and I realized he would talk down on me whenever he was around higher status elders (older cooler kids) or around females. And would mock
[UWSL]and use me as a jester to impress them and get more rep.[/UWSL]

He would also act unusually friendly and nice to me around females aswell to make it seem like he was a kindhearted, empathetic person to get a better Impression Infront of foids. So females can be like "Aww he's so sweet and kind".

He started becoming more disrespectful and treating me like shit in general. I was coping by telling myself "This is what happens when people are friends for along time, they get into fight and arguements, its only natural".

Started filming me to put on his Snapchat and make fun of.

He started randomly telling people I'm autistic,even though that was like my biggest insecurity at the time and didn't want many people knowing. I don't know why he did this. Maybe to stop people from taking me as seriously. And people started assuming I was a retard after that point.

I thought he was a close friend I could tell secrets and deep thoughts too(biggest mistake I ever made) But he just leaked Information about me to other normies. Only for them to further see me as a weirdo. .
I kept hanging around him, in hopes of socially ascending and getting laid. Like the fat ugly girl hanging out with the cute popular girl scenario in the high school movies.

He came to my house when he's dad was abroad and no one was at his house to snack on the foods in my fridge and play on my PS4. He also used my card to transfer his dirty money into. When he was card scamming or whatever. He was basically using me for my time and resources. And I thought, since he was a popular guy, it would get me somewhere and I would become popular myself.


Oh boy how cucked and naive I was.

[UWSL]One day I confronted him about all of this. And tried fighting him. Only to get brutally beaten. Battered badly ngl. I atleast had the balls to try fighting with him[/UWSL]

I later found out when going to a youth center, that he has been arrested numerous times, beaten up staff members of the youth club, been to a detention center. I also watched him beat up his own sister really badly first hand. Beat up a McDonald's crew member, beat up many grown men twice his age, I knew staying mates with him wouldn't end well for me. Because he would most likely end up trying to make me his bitch. Like he did with other smaller friends he had, he had many friends that operated like his little bitches and would serve him. Which is one of the top 10 biggest forms of cuckoldry imo, (second to having a daughter).

And I knew I couldn't end up like that.

Anyway, you see the thing I noticed about my short lived friendship with this guy. Is that at the very start. He had assumptions about me and that was that he assumed I was just as normie as him. That I got laid, that I had a social circle, that I was tough etc. But only later in the friendship, he realized I was different and took advantage of me. This is the same pattern with most friendships I've had with other normies.
They want to hangout with other Normies or even higher status people to get them somewhere in life. That's why they initially treat you well when you start becoming friends with them because they assume your a normie, just like them. And once they find out your slightly weird and have nothing. They will use those weaknesses of yours to manipulate you and drain you of your time and resources, use you for jesters and a quick laugh.

This is why I say real friendship can only happen between those who share a similar lifestyle.

TL;DR. Never become friends with someone that mogs you in all aspects of life, unless you can get a good impression on them and easily manipulate them into helping you in life. Which no incel can do anyways.
Read every single word
This happened to me as well in the past, so I think what you wrote is mostly true
When you experience shit like this first hand you really start to realise just how easy the lives of Chadlites/Chads are and how much stupid idiotic shit they can get away with because everybody loves them and always takes their side
And guys like us aren't even allowed to point out how unfair it is because the existence of "starving children in Africa" means that we're not allowed to point out injustices and hypocrisies in the society that we inhabit
The world has never been a kind place or a fair place but giving women rights was a huge mistake because it enables Chadlites/Chads to live like kings and forces pretty much every other dude into cuckoldry or insanity
 
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big truth and I agree. Although disagree about smarter rthan you per a say. many smart people are trucels/low tier normies who you can get help from at least in tech relatively easily.
 
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every single piece of shit friend has turned their back on me except the really ugly ones.

BLACKPILL FACTS!
 
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OP straight up described all my friendships as well.

At first they treat you with respect but once they realize things about you, their behavior changes for the worse with you.

They make fun of you and laugh behind you back and sometimes in your face.
 
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when there's pussy in the room all males default to caveman mode:feelskek:

If only he knew the secrets of group therapy. That is, that Shannon was flirting(Which includes chatting with him over text and Facebook) with a tall White male daily and had an autistic boy telling her about fishing. Another autistic boy had an obvious crush on her, similar to the crush non-autistic Marcus had on Shannon three years prior.

("Chris started hitting on Shannon. I had to tell the two of them to cut it out. Like, hey, that's not appropriate.")

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(I've seen him in person)

Indeed, Shannon wore this for Chris daily:

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No one can be smarter than me.
 

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