YBP Yxngcel
Neurodivergent
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Listen to me brocels. Because I learnt this from actual raw life experience that changed my mindset for life. Never EVER, befriend someone physically stronger, smarter, more social status etc than you.
Not out of insecurity but for these reasons:
They will most likely not help you, give you any meaningful advice (unless it's the same old, this worked for me so it must work for you). They will instead find out sooner or later that you have nothing and have a prey drive against you. They will dominate and drain you of your time and resources. And most likely manipulate you. You would think having friends in high places would help you in life. Which it can, but only if they like you or are impressed by you. If they find out your have nothing and aren't even close to the same level. They will lose respect for you and only keep your around for jesters, Dominate you and use you when your needed. They will chew you up like a bubble gum, drain you of all the flavours and spit you out.
They is absolutely no point in being in a social circle if you can't fight, or at the weakest in the group. Not just in physical strength but just if they mog In you in life in general. You would rather be lonely than the omega of a group. Trust me.
Stay within your own incel group. This why real friendship only happens between those who happen to live a similar lifestyle and share the same values.
Story time:
I used to have a chadlite friend who I used to think was a genuine friend I would keep around for years. Taught me how to fight and brought me to his local boxing club. Introduced me to many new people and giving me a social circle. And even tried getting me laid. Even found me a way to make money. Stood up to bullies. Tried giving me advice on how to be more NT Etc
However, time went by and I realized he would talk down on me whenever he was around higher status elders (older cooler kids) or around females. And would mock
[UWSL]and use me as a jester to impress them and get more rep.[/UWSL]
He would also act unusually friendly and nice to me around females aswell to make it seem like he was a kindhearted, empathetic person to get a better Impression Infront of foids. So females can be like "Aww he's so sweet and kind".
He started becoming more disrespectful and treating me like shit in general. I was coping by telling myself "This is what happens when people are friends for along time, they get into fight and arguements, its only natural".
Started filming me to put on his Snapchat and make fun of.
He started randomly telling people I'm autistic,even though that was like my biggest insecurity at the time and didn't want many people knowing. I don't know why he did this. Maybe to stop people from taking me as seriously. And people started assuming I was a retard after that point.
I thought he was a close friend I could tell secrets and deep thoughts too(biggest mistake I ever made) But he just leaked Information about me to other normies. Only for them to further see me as a weirdo. .
I kept hanging around him, in hopes of socially ascending and getting laid. Like the fat ugly girl hanging out with the cute popular girl scenario in the high school movies.
He came to my house when he's dad was abroad and no one was at his house to snack on the foods in my fridge and play on my PS4. He also used my card to transfer his dirty money into. When he was card scamming or whatever. He was basically using me for my time and resources. And I thought, since he was a popular guy, it would get me somewhere and I would become popular myself.
Oh boy how cucked and naive I was.
[UWSL]One day I confronted him about all of this. And tried fighting him. Only to get brutally beaten. Battered badly ngl. I atleast had the balls to try fighting with him[/UWSL]
I later found out when going to a youth center, that he has been arrested numerous times, beaten up staff members of the youth club, been to a detention center. I also watched him beat up his own sister really badly first hand. Beat up a McDonald's crew member, beat up many grown men twice his age, I knew staying mates with him wouldn't end well for me. Because he would most likely end up trying to make me his bitch. Like he did with other smaller friends he had, he had many friends that operated like his little bitches and would serve him. Which is one of the top 10 biggest forms of cuckoldry imo, (second to having a daughter).
And I knew I couldn't end up like that.
Anyway, you see the thing I noticed about my short lived friendship with this guy. Is that at the very start. He had assumptions about me and that was that he assumed I was just as normie as him. That I got laid, that I had a social circle, that I was tough etc. But only later in the friendship, he realized I was different and took advantage of me. This is the same pattern with most friendships I've had with other normies.
They want to hangout with other Normies or even higher status people to get them somewhere in life. That's why they initially treat you well when you start becoming friends with them because they assume your a normie, just like them. And once they find out your slightly weird and have nothing. They will use those weaknesses of yours to manipulate you and drain you of your time and resources, use you for jesters and a quick laugh.
This is why I say real friendship can only happen between those who share a similar lifestyle.
TL;DR. Never become friends with someone that mogs you in all aspects of life, unless you can get a good impression on them and easily manipulate them into helping you in life. Which no incel can do anyways.
Not out of insecurity but for these reasons:
They will most likely not help you, give you any meaningful advice (unless it's the same old, this worked for me so it must work for you). They will instead find out sooner or later that you have nothing and have a prey drive against you. They will dominate and drain you of your time and resources. And most likely manipulate you. You would think having friends in high places would help you in life. Which it can, but only if they like you or are impressed by you. If they find out your have nothing and aren't even close to the same level. They will lose respect for you and only keep your around for jesters, Dominate you and use you when your needed. They will chew you up like a bubble gum, drain you of all the flavours and spit you out.
They is absolutely no point in being in a social circle if you can't fight, or at the weakest in the group. Not just in physical strength but just if they mog In you in life in general. You would rather be lonely than the omega of a group. Trust me.
Stay within your own incel group. This why real friendship only happens between those who happen to live a similar lifestyle and share the same values.
Story time:
I used to have a chadlite friend who I used to think was a genuine friend I would keep around for years. Taught me how to fight and brought me to his local boxing club. Introduced me to many new people and giving me a social circle. And even tried getting me laid. Even found me a way to make money. Stood up to bullies. Tried giving me advice on how to be more NT Etc
However, time went by and I realized he would talk down on me whenever he was around higher status elders (older cooler kids) or around females. And would mock
[UWSL]and use me as a jester to impress them and get more rep.[/UWSL]
He would also act unusually friendly and nice to me around females aswell to make it seem like he was a kindhearted, empathetic person to get a better Impression Infront of foids. So females can be like "Aww he's so sweet and kind".
He started becoming more disrespectful and treating me like shit in general. I was coping by telling myself "This is what happens when people are friends for along time, they get into fight and arguements, its only natural".
Started filming me to put on his Snapchat and make fun of.
He started randomly telling people I'm autistic,even though that was like my biggest insecurity at the time and didn't want many people knowing. I don't know why he did this. Maybe to stop people from taking me as seriously. And people started assuming I was a retard after that point.
I thought he was a close friend I could tell secrets and deep thoughts too(biggest mistake I ever made) But he just leaked Information about me to other normies. Only for them to further see me as a weirdo. .
I kept hanging around him, in hopes of socially ascending and getting laid. Like the fat ugly girl hanging out with the cute popular girl scenario in the high school movies.
He came to my house when he's dad was abroad and no one was at his house to snack on the foods in my fridge and play on my PS4. He also used my card to transfer his dirty money into. When he was card scamming or whatever. He was basically using me for my time and resources. And I thought, since he was a popular guy, it would get me somewhere and I would become popular myself.
Oh boy how cucked and naive I was.
[UWSL]One day I confronted him about all of this. And tried fighting him. Only to get brutally beaten. Battered badly ngl. I atleast had the balls to try fighting with him[/UWSL]
I later found out when going to a youth center, that he has been arrested numerous times, beaten up staff members of the youth club, been to a detention center. I also watched him beat up his own sister really badly first hand. Beat up a McDonald's crew member, beat up many grown men twice his age, I knew staying mates with him wouldn't end well for me. Because he would most likely end up trying to make me his bitch. Like he did with other smaller friends he had, he had many friends that operated like his little bitches and would serve him. Which is one of the top 10 biggest forms of cuckoldry imo, (second to having a daughter).
And I knew I couldn't end up like that.
Anyway, you see the thing I noticed about my short lived friendship with this guy. Is that at the very start. He had assumptions about me and that was that he assumed I was just as normie as him. That I got laid, that I had a social circle, that I was tough etc. But only later in the friendship, he realized I was different and took advantage of me. This is the same pattern with most friendships I've had with other normies.
They want to hangout with other Normies or even higher status people to get them somewhere in life. That's why they initially treat you well when you start becoming friends with them because they assume your a normie, just like them. And once they find out your slightly weird and have nothing. They will use those weaknesses of yours to manipulate you and drain you of your time and resources, use you for jesters and a quick laugh.
This is why I say real friendship can only happen between those who share a similar lifestyle.
TL;DR. Never become friends with someone that mogs you in all aspects of life, unless you can get a good impression on them and easily manipulate them into helping you in life. Which no incel can do anyways.
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