JFL "Just found out my husband of 8 years had a baby with someone else"

[NIGGA BANBAN]

Broken personality detector strikes again.

Okay, title is a little bit click baity. We’ve been separated 7 years, only reason we aren’t divorced is because he refused to cooperate because he didn’t want to pay child support, and I was just happy he was staying far away from us, so I didn’t want to remind him that me and his son existed by pushing the divorce. (I’m 30, he’s 32)

So Oofy doofy lol.

He asked for a divorce when our son was a few weeks old because it wasn’t fair to him that I wasn’t trying harder to look good for him, he literally said that if I loved him I would have started working out my now. Mind you, I had an emergency c-section. He was financially and psychologically abusive, and I felt like it was a matter of time before the physical abuse started too. I was extremely grateful when he ended things with me. I was already planning how I’d leave, but I was scared of how he would react.

"Muh personality"

He was getting BAH for being married to me and having a kid, and he didn’t want to lose that and he ordered to pay child support, so he dodged the papers every time I tried to serve him. It wasn’t worth the hassle so I just stopped trying. Child support wasn’t worth having to interact with him, and I didn’t want him anywhere near our son. He saw him once when he was 6 months old and then never tried to see him again after that. Our son is 7 now.

He's gonna turn out fucked up and become a future .is member you dumb bitch.

I just found out from a relative that still has him on Facebook that he has another baby now. To add another layer of fucked up to the whole situation, he insisted that we named our son after him (he’s a third, so our son is a fourth), I’m not 100% on it, but I’m pretty sure he named his new son the same thing.

I feel sorry for his new kid, I feel sorry for his new “wife”, but most of all, I feel sorry for my son who is going to have to unpack all of this in therapy one day. Like not only did his dad abandon him, but then he started a new family, decided to keep that one, and gave the new baby his same name. Absolutely insane.

Therapy....jfl. Pray to God he doesn't unpack this all in a manifesto one day when he grows up and starts to resent both of you fags.

 

[UndeadDeadMan]

Next time someone tries to tease me for being in my 30's with no wife and kids, I'll reply with:

 

[nequitia veneris]

Good for him, pump and dump like a chad, there is a reason for why chads do it, women are like stepping blocks, you put to much weight on them they fall, use them like the objects they are

 

[TooSomething]

Another personality detector malfunctioning.
It happens more often that we think.

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

Watermelon people moment.