In response to https://incels.is/threads/i-wish-i-were-nt.129825/
Thought I'd put this in a thread on it's own as opposed to a reply that won't get looked at.
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Being non-NT isn't the problem. It's due to NT ppl vastly outnumbering us we're expected to adapt & behave like they do (majority rule/mob mentality). When we cannot we're targeted negativity & when we can camouflage & act we're not being true to ourselves (surpressing our natural nature); this causes an inner conflict of interests; thus anxiety.
If we were good looking we could get away with others controlling most of the conversation but we'd still be second fiddle to a nt chad.
Average looking or ugly guys that are NT can at least utilize social skills & not have shortcomings in those respects so while it won't attract women from a physiological sense at least you fit in & ppl accept you as "normal".
Being deficient in an area ppl take for granted is fucked though, we either mimic or emulate a behaviour that resulted in the least discomfort previously but it's not like a computer game where you can predict the ai instructions ahead of time & manipulate the game due to the limitations of the code. Irl you're expected to adapt on the fly so when we do something that worked previously but does not this time (different result) or come across a new set of circumstances that we cannot consult a previous instance of for guidance we either shut down or sperg out.
So many autists have a difficult time with interactions or holding down a job because the truth is we're prime targets for bullying & NT's love to bully those they perceive as less than themselves to establish group ranking & artificially feel good about themselves for having power over another briefly.
Introverted types are usually slow to anger & don't stick up for themselves like a tortoise so a jackass loves messing with someone that presents little challenge, fight v flight response.
Now on the other hand if you sperg out everyone thinks you're the one in the wrong due to behaving in such a manner, we're not sneaky & manipulative enough to be good at deceiving others & being a complete cunt within' the confines of socially acceptable behaviour/rules.
If employers would make exceptions for non-nt, not expecting them to just up & switch their routine on the whim of a boss/manager but allow them a steady/solid unchanging routine there would be a way higher employment rate in this demoraphic.
If introverts were not held to the standards of loud extraverts & all the negativity that comes from the average person for being "different" we'd be a hell of a lot more sociable & actually attempt to interact with others, to a lesser extent than most ppl yes but more than is the current norm.
It starts at school, if your interactions with others are horrible it's setting a precadent of what's to come later & so you develop these "skills" slower than others & nothing you do is ever right as far as ppl are concerned.
They cannot understand that you do not enjoy what they do & the things you do enjoy they think of as boring. The message is clear, how dare you be different, conform or there'll be consequences, different man bad.
Of course they'll then pretend to give a shit if a news story breaks about an autistic child bullied & driven to suicide or the high depression rate amongst autistic ppl, like they even really give a shit lol; no one cares about nothing until they're affected personally.
Thought I'd put this in a thread on it's own as opposed to a reply that won't get looked at.
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Being non-NT isn't the problem. It's due to NT ppl vastly outnumbering us we're expected to adapt & behave like they do (majority rule/mob mentality). When we cannot we're targeted negativity & when we can camouflage & act we're not being true to ourselves (surpressing our natural nature); this causes an inner conflict of interests; thus anxiety.
If we were good looking we could get away with others controlling most of the conversation but we'd still be second fiddle to a nt chad.
Average looking or ugly guys that are NT can at least utilize social skills & not have shortcomings in those respects so while it won't attract women from a physiological sense at least you fit in & ppl accept you as "normal".
Being deficient in an area ppl take for granted is fucked though, we either mimic or emulate a behaviour that resulted in the least discomfort previously but it's not like a computer game where you can predict the ai instructions ahead of time & manipulate the game due to the limitations of the code. Irl you're expected to adapt on the fly so when we do something that worked previously but does not this time (different result) or come across a new set of circumstances that we cannot consult a previous instance of for guidance we either shut down or sperg out.
So many autists have a difficult time with interactions or holding down a job because the truth is we're prime targets for bullying & NT's love to bully those they perceive as less than themselves to establish group ranking & artificially feel good about themselves for having power over another briefly.
Introverted types are usually slow to anger & don't stick up for themselves like a tortoise so a jackass loves messing with someone that presents little challenge, fight v flight response.
Now on the other hand if you sperg out everyone thinks you're the one in the wrong due to behaving in such a manner, we're not sneaky & manipulative enough to be good at deceiving others & being a complete cunt within' the confines of socially acceptable behaviour/rules.
If employers would make exceptions for non-nt, not expecting them to just up & switch their routine on the whim of a boss/manager but allow them a steady/solid unchanging routine there would be a way higher employment rate in this demoraphic.
If introverts were not held to the standards of loud extraverts & all the negativity that comes from the average person for being "different" we'd be a hell of a lot more sociable & actually attempt to interact with others, to a lesser extent than most ppl yes but more than is the current norm.
It starts at school, if your interactions with others are horrible it's setting a precadent of what's to come later & so you develop these "skills" slower than others & nothing you do is ever right as far as ppl are concerned.
They cannot understand that you do not enjoy what they do & the things you do enjoy they think of as boring. The message is clear, how dare you be different, conform or there'll be consequences, different man bad.
Of course they'll then pretend to give a shit if a news story breaks about an autistic child bullied & driven to suicide or the high depression rate amongst autistic ppl, like they even really give a shit lol; no one cares about nothing until they're affected personally.
