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JFL Our dating preferences change because we grow and mature. That's not a bad thing

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I just read a post in another sub where a guy said he felt cynical about relationships because in his early 20s, the "tall, attractive" guys got all the attention and he didn't. But when he grew a successful business in his 30s, women who rejected him in his 20s suddenly were more interested.

There's nothing wrong with that.

In the circles I grew up in, we were largely supported by our parents when we were young.

Real life hadn't hit us yet. We didn't know it (oh, the wonderful, carefree ignorance of youth!), but we didn't feel the 9-5 grind.

We hooked up with those tall, attractive guys because we were just having fun, just like how men always talk about hooking up and having fun with the hot, attractive girls.

But as we get older, real life hits us. We battle stagnating wages, an ever-increasing cost of living and housing, and the 9-5 grind, just like how men do.

And quite frankly, we learn through experience that those tall, attractive guys aren't always the best partners.

So different things become more important. Many of us want a stable relationship with a good man, and we want to be in this for the long run.

Now, we're in this for life. We're not hooking up anymore, we want to be faithful to the right guy.

Isn't that a positive?

The human brain doesn't stop developing until 25 or even later. We all grow and change, and different things will be important to us at different stages of our lives.

That's natural, expected, and a good thing.

I'm not saying OOP is an incel. I don't think he is, he obviously made it big and should be very proud of his company and his success.

But a lot of incels and some men in general do think this way. Not only is it immature, but it also dehumanizes us. We grow and change too, just like how most humans grow and change.

To expect us to be the same people we were in our early 20s in unrealistic because no one is.

So to lurking men who blast us for "not dating you in your early 20s," I would say you should recognize that everyone learns and changes as they grow up.

Just like how OOP went from a frustrated young man to a successful CEO.

To recognize change in others and accept them for who they are now shows true maturity, and once OOP realizes that and fully accepts people who who they are right now, I'm sure he will find a wonderful, loving partner to build a beautiful life with.

And I can only wish the same for the rest of you.

Straight from the whore's mouth :lul:
 
holy shit that is literally identical to the blackpill: women fuck chads in their 20s and when they become a 30 year old roastie they settle down for a betabuxx. there's no fucking way :feelshaha:
 
Women's brains cease any major mental development at 12. Her basic female survival instincts just kicked in
 

even other Redditards see right thru her
 
Woman are primal and uncivilized and should be beaten and *****
 
I lost braincells reading that
 
I hope she dies slowly.
 
total femshit death and also dnr
 
Foids brains stop developing at age 13 as we can clearly see by this dumb cunts post she has just proven another Blackpill foids get pumped and dumped by Chad in their teens and 20s then early 30s she realises she`s gonna need a stable provider so look no further than a betabuxxer who she will walk all over the roastie who made that post should be dismembered with a Chainsaw
 
"But as we get older, real life hits us. We battle stagnating wages, an ever-increasing cost of living and housing, and the 9-5 grind, just like how men do."
Lmao,nice way to deny the fact that chads dont want women when they turn 25,30
 
Women are so fucking disgusting.
 
This adds to the confirmation about the realities of betaxbuxxing
 
They can't refute it so they must admit and try to plead that it isn't all that bad.
 
Women's brains cease any major mental development at 12. Her basic female survival instincts just kicked in
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paint it orange
 
This adds to the confirmation about the realities of betaxbuxxing
JFL exactly, the stupid bitch is too retarded to see just confirmed to the man that his view point is real
 
*Our dating preferences change because we're lazy old wrinkled fucks who need a meal ticket.
 
Never settle for 30+ roast beef flaps. Don’t enable them
 
literal whores
 

idk i feel like responding hahaha. "In the circles i grew up in, we were. largely supported by our parents when we were young." Being young is no excuse to do what you want. Why do you think juvenile prisons exist? You are not excused just because you are younger, you also have a brain and as individuals you are capable of thinking about the consequences of your actions, if you are not ""trained on how to behave"" then it is also the parents' fault (in addition).
"Real life had not hit us yet. We did not know it (oh, the wonderful, carefree ignorance of youth!), but we did not feel the routine of the 9-5." It is okay, I do not expect 100% but as far as I am concerned I would never be with a girl who abandons me just because during adolescence I did not fit her standards of beauty, perhaps trying my best to be nice to her, and then abandons me as if I were an object to be exchanged and used. From my experience I have been in contact with more girls who turned out to be false and manipulative despite my good intentions and if I could understand that this thing (rejecting a boy just because he doesn't respect the standards etc.) was injustice I STRONGLY doubt that she would think of this thing as if it were just a stupid mistake of adolescence, especially if it involves hurting the feelings of others. "He who does it expects it" if you ever had to come back to me I would behave accordingly, to err is human, but using people for your own purposes is evil and immoral. "We hooked up with those tall and attractive boys because we were just having fun, just like men always talk about hooking up and having fun with attractive and sexy girls." yes but it's easy to say that when you're a woman and you have an advantage right? do you really think all people are lucky enough to consider themselves "normal" according to socially accepted standards of beauty? You could say that to Chad, which I think is fair enough, but it doesn't work for everyone. "But as we get older, real life hits us. We struggle with stagnant wages, an ever-increasing cost of living and housing, and the 9-5 grind, just like men do." And I love it. You think it doesn't work that way for us? You think it's easier for us (and me) after your teenage rejections and after you've had your fun? Easy to talk when you're the one with the gun, right?
"And frankly, we learn through experience that those tall, attractive guys aren't always the best partners." At this point I can tell you that I can easily learn through experience that if I throw myself off the balcony I can bleed to death. But are we serious? Everything else is bluepill (as if these were nothing more than excuses to forgive themselves, even though they knew what they were doing lucidly lmao).
 
They keep making the same mistakes even though they know what will happen in the future knowingly and willingly
 
Strip their rights away.. repeal the 19th. Ted Bundy and Ted Kaczynski were heroes.
 
tldr; women are children and shouldnt have the right to choose as they are dumb
 

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