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Serious my therapist told me i need to leave this forum if i want to get well.

He is lying do you dont listen to the brainwashing
 
well maybe some of you have noticed in the last week im barely here and theres a reason..

after rotting in my home for more than 6 months my mental health is pretty much destroyed.
the stuff that i believe fuck me the most:
*the blackpill ofcourse. ugly and manlet. i cant ignore the amount of things im denied in this life only cuz of that.
*living with my shitty toxic family.
*rotting in my room for like 6-7 months already i think. i had a good job before but depression got me and i quitted after fighting with my boss. that was a huge mistake because i made decent money there, and the isolation from rotting in my room is killing my mental health. when i worked i talked to alot of people and even had some "work buddies". i also went NC on the few friends i had, now i got only like 2 i go out with every 2-3 months. bottom line, isolation isolation isolation....
*scars from the verbal abuse i suffered in HS.

anyway i felt like im loosing my mind so last week i went for the first time in my life to a therapist. honestly i just hoped for some 'happy pills' but we talked and shit and i told him about this site (didnt said the name tho, so he cant follow me here.)

anyway ofcourse he started saying normies shit and how such forum is bad for my mental health etc... he also was outraged when i told him some of the things i post here. but i told him that when i post lifefuels about dead foids it mostly cuz i know theres tons of cucks guests here so i love knowing the fact that i make them rage hard. he gave a tiny smile.
he accepted parts of the blackpill things i said which is nice and it gave me hope in him.... i just want to fix some of my problems and maybe feel normal somehow idk.....

anyway he told me i must leave this forum if i want to make progress cuz its a toxic place etc etc and it fucks my brain. that most of the things we know are "misguided thinking because of bad mentality", something like that.
i told him this forum is the closest thing i got to "talking to friends".
he tried to convince me even 10 minutes after out meeting ended, i told him idk ill think about it...

thats it tbh idk what im doing.

i really wants to fix some of my mental problems so maybe i can at least have a "fine" life... couple of friends, job, go to uni etc...
It’s bullshit dude. Stay here. This is clearly where we fucking belong. The people who don’t belong here haven’t ever heard of it. After r/incels got shut down I stayed away from this mentality a bit and it got me literally nowhere. If your a truecel leaving this place isn’t gonna fix you
 
Dont listen him he is lying OP he is jealous of us
 
yep the money interest from the therapist is a problem.... thats why its hard af to trust them i guess
and all of them are cuckpilled thats the fact

Dont listen him he is lying OP he is jealous of us
jealous of what? lmao.
 
If you leave this forum you’ll just waste your time on another thing that isn’t productive.
 
So he basically wants you to leave a forum that discusses what happens in real life?


LOL.
 
If you leave this forum what will happen next? The problems are still there, you are still surrounded by it. If you go outside, you will be always confronted with it, even at home... There is no escape.
 
All my therapists tried this at first... and then they realized socialization is hopeless.

He's testing to see if you're truly mentally fucked by seeing if you can make friends simply by trying. Despite what you told him about here, he probably doesn't fully understand what an incel board is, and why we're here. Thus, he doesn't realize that you're already a few steps ahead of where he is in the process.

Hang in there, and don't get caught up into what your therapist is telling you. Remember that you're 1 of his like 100 patients. He doesn't really care about you. He's doing what he needs to get paid.
 
Hey brother!

I think it is incredibly brave that you want to improve yourself.

I think your therapist is right, particularly since most of the people here have not taken the blackpill.
They have preconceptions about society built through suffering that they wish to be validated by a pill that doesn't exist.
Just because the blackpill is bitter does not mean that all things bitter are truth, that's a fallacy.

In other words, they aren't trained social scientists or psychologists or psychiatrists. You aren't going to find a truthful way out from normies that dish out platitudes, neither are you going to find it here, where people also dish out platitudes, just reactionary platitudes.

If you're afraid of social isolation, feel free to PM me, I can give you company in your journey to mental health. Fuck anyone that thinks you can never be happy, despite the bitter truths of life.
 
Of course he'd say that.

It wont be long until OP is told to take up female dominated supports and join a female society.
Dont let ((them)) win.

That's why I'm not going to a therapist, they want us to live in a world of lies.

Fuck that.
 
yep the money interest from the therapist is a problem.... thats why its hard af to trust them i guess
and all of them are cuckpilled thats the fact


jealous of what? lmao.
our friendship
 
He’s right. An Internet forum will ruin your life. Because going onto a website changes who you are and makes you both repulsive to girls and unsuccessful at life.
 
I deal with alot of annoying shit in my life that includes people. Both my home and outside of it are filled with never ending annoying bullshit scenarios. This forum is by far the best place to vent with other like minded people who know what it's like to be this low in the heichary of this cucked society. Fuck a therapist.
 
AVOID THE MENTAL HEALTHCARE SYSTEM AT ALL COSTS

Psychiatrists are not your friend, do not understand or care about your problems, and will not help you. Psychiatrists have an ideological agenda that completely undermines your autonomy, freedom, and health. Psychiatrists have legal powers that exceed those of law enforcement and can have you involuntarily committed to a mental institution even if you don't threaten suicide or violence.

My advice is to stop seeing your therapist immediately, and never again give out any personal information to anyone even remotely involved with mental healthcare, including counselors and social workers.

If you can just avoid suicide, your depression can bottom out and soft-reset your mind all by itself, no matter how unlikely this may seem to you right now. What you're feeling right now could seem like a mere fuzzy memory or a bad dream in as little as three months without requiring any psychiatric intervention. Focus on putting your life back together and taking back control. Put out job applications and try to rebuild what you had. Your subconscious, your soul, is sorting things out for you right now in ways you might not understand, you just have to have faith in the inevitability of change and adaptation. Best of luck to you.
What’s the worst that could happen?
 
Gonna play the devil's advocate here. Your therapist is probably right about the part where the bp makes you feel bad...Maybe you should take a break from it.
 
JFL at your therapist's 'advice'.

Let me put it this way: would you rather stay on the forum and interact with like-minded people who genuinely understand and can relate to your issues, or would you rather be judged as some sort of social pariah and fobbed off with the worthless platitudes you've no doubt already heard countless times?
 
He’s right. An Internet forum will ruin your life. Because going onto a website changes who you are and makes you both repulsive to girls and unsuccessful at life.

It's almost as if it's an echo-chamber :soy:
 
What’s the worst that could happen?
Not sure about non-UScels, but any encounter with a shrink for americancels can end up in involuntary commitment which in turn will lead to some of the constitutional rights lost. Mainly I'm talking about 2A rights now as you can't legally own a gun if you have a nuthouse in your past.
Certainly not the worst thing, but still something to consider.
 
well maybe some of you have noticed in the last week im barely here and theres a reason..

after rotting in my home for more than 6 months my mental health is pretty much destroyed.
the stuff that i believe fuck me the most:
*the blackpill ofcourse. ugly and manlet. i cant ignore the amount of things im denied in this life only cuz of that.
*living with my shitty toxic family.
*rotting in my room for like 6-7 months already i think. i had a good job before but depression got me and i quitted after fighting with my boss. that was a huge mistake because i made decent money there, and the isolation from rotting in my room is killing my mental health. when i worked i talked to alot of people and even had some "work buddies". i also went NC on the few friends i had, now i got only like 2 i go out with every 2-3 months. bottom line, isolation isolation isolation....
*scars from the verbal abuse i suffered in HS.

anyway i felt like im loosing my mind so last week i went for the first time in my life to a therapist. honestly i just hoped for some 'happy pills' but we talked and shit and i told him about this site (didnt said the name tho, so he cant follow me here.)

anyway ofcourse he started saying normies shit and how such forum is bad for my mental health etc... he also was outraged when i told him some of the things i post here. but i told him that when i post lifefuels about dead foids it mostly cuz i know theres tons of cucks guests here so i love knowing the fact that i make them rage hard. he gave a tiny smile.
he accepted parts of the blackpill things i said which is nice and it gave me hope in him.... i just want to fix some of my problems and maybe feel normal somehow idk.....

anyway he told me i must leave this forum if i want to make progress cuz its a toxic place etc etc and it fucks my brain. that most of the things we know are "misguided thinking because of bad mentality", something like that.
i told him this forum is the closest thing i got to "talking to friends".
he tried to convince me even 10 minutes after out meeting ended, i told him idk ill think about it...

thats it tbh idk what im doing.

i really wants to fix some of my mental problems so maybe i can at least have a "fine" life... couple of friends, job, go to uni etc...
Therapist can't help you, your problems are your looks you better expend your money on an stylist and shoes with extra height that would be more effective lmao
 
Hey brother!

I think it is incredibly brave that you want to improve yourself.

I think your therapist is right, particularly since most of the people here have not taken the blackpill.
They have preconceptions about society built through suffering that they wish to be validated by a pill that doesn't exist.
Just because the blackpill is bitter does not mean that all things bitter are truth, that's a fallacy.

In other words, they aren't trained social scientists or psychologists or psychiatrists. You aren't going to find a truthful way out from normies that dish out platitudes, neither are you going to find it here, where people also dish out platitudes, just reactionary platitudes.

If you're afraid of social isolation, feel free to PM me, I can give you company in your journey to mental health. Fuck anyone that thinks you can never be happy, despite the bitter truths of life.
LARPer? JFL I am 27 and I have just started recently interacting with incels. The only thing that changed is that now I have some people I can relate to and vent together, it's not like this site has made my life any worse. Women did, and still do.
 
I hate playing devil's advicate,but I would
listen to your therapist if I was you,the reward of becoming menally stable far outweighs the negatives.
 
fuck that therapist. therapy can be extremely good but you have to be selective with finding the right person. a therapist needs to empathize with you and be supportive. this guy sounds terrible. good on you for trying, just keep going and find another who isn't such a dumbshit that he thinks incels.is is your problem.
 
at least take a break from the forum (around a month) and see what happens, back when i was in a similar situation i took a break and i didn't really do much, just made me more depressed (i post on other forums) but it's worth a shot.
 
Jfl at you going to terapist
well maybe some of you have noticed in the last week im barely here and theres a reason..

after rotting in my home for more than 6 months my mental health is pretty much destroyed.
the stuff that i believe fuck me the most:
*the blackpill ofcourse. ugly and manlet. i cant ignore the amount of things im denied in this life only cuz of that.
*living with my shitty toxic family.
*rotting in my room for like 6-7 months already i think. i had a good job before but depression got me and i quitted after fighting with my boss. that was a huge mistake because i made decent money there, and the isolation from rotting in my room is killing my mental health. when i worked i talked to alot of people and even had some "work buddies". i also went NC on the few friends i had, now i got only like 2 i go out with every 2-3 months. bottom line, isolation isolation isolation....
*scars from the verbal abuse i suffered in HS.

anyway i felt like im loosing my mind so last week i went for the first time in my life to a therapist. honestly i just hoped for some 'happy pills' but we talked and shit and i told him about this site (didnt said the name tho, so he cant follow me here.)

anyway ofcourse he started saying normies shit and how such forum is bad for my mental health etc... he also was outraged when i told him some of the things i post here. but i told him that when i post lifefuels about dead foids it mostly cuz i know theres tons of cucks guests here so i love knowing the fact that i make them rage hard. he gave a tiny smile.
he accepted parts of the blackpill things i said which is nice and it gave me hope in him.... i just want to fix some of my problems and maybe feel normal somehow idk.....

anyway he told me i must leave this forum if i want to make progress cuz its a toxic place etc etc and it fucks my brain. that most of the things we know are "misguided thinking because of bad mentality", something like that.
i told him this forum is the closest thing i got to "talking to friends".
he tried to convince me even 10 minutes after out meeting ended, i told him idk ill think about it...

thats it tbh idk what im doing.

i really wants to fix some of my mental problems so maybe i can at least have a "fine" life... couple of friends, job, go to uni etc...
 
They say that people need social connections, purpose, etc. in order to combat depression, yes? Well, this forum and others like it serve those needs for many of us. Before there was an online incel community (not that Alana BS), I was just killing time and isolating myself from the world. While I’m still pretty isolated, that’s mostly due to others rejecting me as I found the confidence to expand my comfort zone and try new things. Whereas before I had no direction, now I focus on helping others avoid getting caught in the normie trap and waking people up to what’s going on.

Do I expect a mass awakening? No, but if I can help a few people out then I feel I’ve made some sort of impact. Therapists are usually somewhat disturbed themselves and if they’re older especially, they operate on a completely different wavelength than us. We came here with negative thoughts, if you’re secure in yourself, you have no reason to be here. Leaving this place won’t change your situation unless you had your bad memories and physiological responses to them erased along with a Hemsworth body transplant. If anything, you’ll probably end up worse off at least in the short term due to a void in your life.
 
Therapists just tell you what you want to hear so that you fill their pockets with cash from their ridiculous rates.
 
Your therapist is a virtue signaling cuck. He only cares about his paycheck.

Stay with us here bro. Don’t listen to him.
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Your therapist is a fucking scammer. I'm a medical student and I took psychology classes and have done a lot of research outside of them. Listen to me, it's all bullshit. It's all a big fucking pile of useless conjecture-based bullshit. Therapy is a fucking scam, your problems are not your fault, you didn't decide to be a low SMV male in a degenerate hypergamous society. You didn't choose your position in society, your position was predetermined by the society with no involvement whatsoever from you. Stop wasting money, time and energy on these fucking scammers who would be in jail for being frauds they are had we lived in a just society. Fuck therapists
 
He’s right. An Internet forum will ruin your life. Because going onto a website changes who you are and makes you both repulsive to girls and unsuccessful at life.
lmao it is pure cope
 
LARPer? JFL I am 27 and I have just started recently interacting with incels. The only thing that changed is that now I have some people I can relate to and vent together, it's not like this site has made my life any worse. Women did, and still do.

Not LARPer, just someone with educational qualifications in fields related to pschology in some sense (full disclosure though, it is still incorrect to describe me as a psychologist or psychiatrist).

The reason this place will influence you is that they interpret research with a pessimistic confirmation bias (when I say interpret I mean just interpret, most of them dont regularly read, really people here just largely theorise as if theyre the greatest intellectuals of the 21st century).

It's tempting to seek refuge here for the company, the sad part is it comes with falsehood and harmful lies. If you had to choose between normie platitudes and the typical incel.is versions of reality the .is posters are more correct. Luckily you don't have to make this choice between two devils.

Its better to come back here for the company when you're a bit better mentally, when you have the ability to take the .is generalisations with the required amount of salt.
Your therapist is a fucking scammer. I'm a medical student and I took psychology classes and have done a lot of research outside of them. Listen to me, it's all bullshit. It's all a big fucking pile of useless conjecture-based bullshit. Therapy is a fucking scam, your problems are not your fault, you didn't decide to be a low SMV male in a degenerate hypergamous society. You didn't choose your position in society, your position was predetermined by the society with no involvement whatsoever from you. Stop wasting money, time and energy on these fucking scammers who would be in jail for being frauds they are had we lived in a just society. Fuck therapists

If you really did your research youd know that most lit reviews will show that therapy is beneficial on average. The only question is if its worth the cost in time and money for you given your financial situation and whether you really need it. But if you take it, on average, it improves well being.

If you're a truecel its not going to get your degenerate ass laid, but it positively affects your wellbeing.
 
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well maybe some of you have noticed in the last week im barely here and theres a reason..

after rotting in my home for more than 6 months my mental health is pretty much destroyed.
the stuff that i believe fuck me the most:
*the blackpill ofcourse. ugly and manlet. i cant ignore the amount of things im denied in this life only cuz of that.
*living with my shitty toxic family.
*rotting in my room for like 6-7 months already i think. i had a good job before but depression got me and i quitted after fighting with my boss. that was a huge mistake because i made decent money there, and the isolation from rotting in my room is killing my mental health. when i worked i talked to alot of people and even had some "work buddies". i also went NC on the few friends i had, now i got only like 2 i go out with every 2-3 months. bottom line, isolation isolation isolation....
*scars from the verbal abuse i suffered in HS.

anyway i felt like im loosing my mind so last week i went for the first time in my life to a therapist. honestly i just hoped for some 'happy pills' but we talked and shit and i told him about this site (didnt said the name tho, so he cant follow me here.)

anyway ofcourse he started saying normies shit and how such forum is bad for my mental health etc... he also was outraged when i told him some of the things i post here. but i told him that when i post lifefuels about dead foids it mostly cuz i know theres tons of cucks guests here so i love knowing the fact that i make them rage hard. he gave a tiny smile.
he accepted parts of the blackpill things i said which is nice and it gave me hope in him.... i just want to fix some of my problems and maybe feel normal somehow idk.....

anyway he told me i must leave this forum if i want to make progress cuz its a toxic place etc etc and it fucks my brain. that most of the things we know are "misguided thinking because of bad mentality", something like that.
i told him this forum is the closest thing i got to "talking to friends".
he tried to convince me even 10 minutes after out meeting ended, i told him idk ill think about it...

thats it tbh idk what im doing.

i really wants to fix some of my mental problems so maybe i can at least have a "fine" life... couple of friends, job, go to uni etc...

dont listen to that jew he just wants your money, you will never have a nice life in the west , if you go to uni you will either be accused of racism and hate speech or rape, you have three options that i can think of 1. go to a third world shithole where you can rape to your hearts content, 2. continue to neet and hope the pain will fade overtime 3. go ER
 
Not LARPer, just someone with educational qualifications in fields related to pschology in some sense (full disclosure though, it is still incorrect to describe me as a psychologist or psychiatrist).

The reason this place will influence you is that they interpret research with a pessimistic confirmation bias (when I say interpret I mean just interpret, most of them dont regularly read, really people here just largely theorise as if theyre the greatest intellectuals of the 21st century).

It's tempting to seek refuge here for the company, the sad part is it comes with falsehood and harmful lies. If you had to choose between normie platitudes and the typical incel.is versions of reality the .is posters are more correct. Luckily you don't have to make this choice between two devils.

Its better to come back here for the company when you're a bit better mentally, when you have the ability to take the .is generalisations with the required amount of salt.
I already know that some people exaggerate things a bit here sometimes to seem edgy, but most of the time it's not so wrong anyway.
As I have told you I find that this place only affects me positively with companionship and understanding, other people are generally completely oblivious and uncaring of our situation to the point that they all feel like sociopaths, often they even use it to demonize and mock us. Friends rub their success to our faces, women try to use us and also will tell us openly how they sucked Chad's cock the night before and where have all the good men gone, especially if they know we like them. The problem is with the real world and especially women, they want to squeeze out of us whatever little happiness we have left.

What are you anyway, some psychology student who came here to analyze us for his thesis?
 
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I already know that some people exaggerate things a bit here sometimes to seem edgy, but most of the time it's not so wrong anyway.
As I have told you I find that this place only affects me positively with companionship and understanding, other people are generally completely oblivious and uncaring of our situation to the point that they all feel like sociopaths, often they even use it to demonize and mock us. Friends rub their success to our faces, women try to use us and also will tell us openly how they sucked Chad's cock the night before and where have all the good men gone, especially if they know we like them. The problem is with the real world and especially women, they want to squeeze out of us whatever little happiness we have left.

What are you anyway, some psychology student who came here to analyze us for his thesis?

Naw, just a looks truecel.
 
Let me know how that works out for you? If you are correct and this forum is the issue then you should notice your life getting better.


I tried leaving this place for months and guess what? I was still ugly and ppl still treated me like shit
 
you need to go emergency room bro.
 
My thearpist said the same thing, then again she's a foid and also suggested I should wear something that identifies me as an autsist JFL if she thinks I'm that low inhib :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
lmao man is that true? what kind of thing you supposed to wear
 
lmao man is that true? what kind of thing you supposed to wear
I sometimes yell and talk loudly in public without meaning to. this is what she wants.
97345
 
I want to trust therapists and the psych care. But I can't since I know it's just a job for them and they see us as a walking bag of money. I was depressed before I even found out what an incel is, even before I learned about the blackpill I knew from experience how true it is.
This forum and the blackpill in general have made me more angry at both myself and society in general but I know that even if I left I would still know the truth about things. There is no going back to the positive bluepill mindset for be tbh. Even if I could I'm not sure if I even want to, fatalism have become a big part of me. I hate the situation but at the same time I am content with coping with you guys.
Forever with the crew, forever with the ship.
 

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