Serious my therapist told me i need to leave this forum if i want to get well.

[nxdismycope]

well maybe some of you have noticed in the last week im barely here and theres a reason..

after rotting in my home for more than 6 months my mental health is pretty much destroyed.
the stuff that i believe fuck me the most:
*the blackpill ofcourse. ugly and manlet. i cant ignore the amount of things im denied in this life only cuz of that.
*living with my shitty toxic family.
*rotting in my room for like 6-7 months already i think. i had a good job before but depression got me and i quitted after fighting with my boss. that was a huge mistake because i made decent money there, and the isolation from rotting in my room is killing my mental health. when i worked i talked to alot of people and even had some "work buddies". i also went NC on the few friends i had, now i got only like 2 i go out with every 2-3 months. bottom line, isolation isolation isolation....
*scars from the verbal abuse i suffered in HS.

anyway i felt like im loosing my mind so last week i went for the first time in my life to a therapist. honestly i just hoped for some 'happy pills' but we talked and shit and i told him about this site (didnt said the name tho, so he cant follow me here.)

anyway ofcourse he started saying normies shit and how such forum is bad for my mental health etc... he also was outraged when i told him some of the things i post here. but i told him that when i post lifefuels about dead foids it mostly cuz i know theres tons of cucks guests here so i love knowing the fact that i make them rage hard. he gave a tiny smile.
he accepted parts of the blackpill things i said which is nice and it gave me hope in him.... i just want to fix some of my problems and maybe feel normal somehow idk.....

anyway he told me i must leave this forum if i want to make progress cuz its a toxic place etc etc and it fucks my brain. that most of the things we know are "misguided thinking because of bad mentality", something like that.
i told him this forum is the closest thing i got to "talking to friends".
he tried to convince me even 10 minutes after out meeting ended, i told him idk ill think about it...

thats it tbh idk what im doing.

i really wants to fix some of my mental problems so maybe i can at least have a "fine" life... couple of friends, job, go to uni etc...

 

[Deleted member 15752]

The forum isnt the issue. People here just post the things they see IN REAL LIFE.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I'm in a similar situation, but fuck that. JFL if you take his advice

 

[Insomniac]

Your therapist is a virtue signaling cuck. He only cares about his paycheck.

Stay with us here bro. Don’t listen to him.

 

[universallyabhorret]

Why not get another job. Save up. Then MAke a difference? Also at least you have real life friends I have literally no friends or acquaintances.

 

[Sgtpinkie]

My thearpist said the same thing, then again she's a foid and also suggested I should wear something that identifies me as an autsist JFL if she thinks I'm that low inhib

 

[Deleted member 60]

Your therapist is right, we should all leave this forum for the sake of our mental health. We won't though... because mental health is overrated.

no, it's impossible to survive the blackpill alone. Trust me, you will feel even more isolated and miserable. I know this from experience. I almost ended up in the hospital every time I tried to quit this forum.

 

[Insomniac]

no, it's impossible to survive the blackpill alone. Trust me, you will feel even more isolated and miserable. I know this from experience. I almost ended up in the hospital every time I tried to quit this forum.

My thoughts exactly.

It’s comforting to interact with people in a similar situation to you. It makes me feel less lonely in my struggle.

 

[Smallondick]

I'm almost going for pills.

 

[IncelGenocide]

Your therapist is right.

Look at it objectively. There are only 3 routes you can take:

1. Maxx out (moneymaxx, looksmaxx, statusmaxx, mentalmaxx). Do you need this forum for that? No, there are better forums and groups for this.
2. LDAR. In this case, if this is your choice, feel free to remain here and whine, but you will feel SHIT and you wont start feeling better until you stop visiting this forum and you know it.
3. ROPE. In that case, why the fuck would you visit the forum? Just do it.

 

[HighTGymcel]

no, it's impossible to survive the blackpill alone. Trust me, you will feel even more isolated and miserable. I know this from experience. I almost ended up in the hospital every time I tried to quit this forum.

tbh. I cant imagine to live alone with the blackpill I would just rope

 

[Smallondick]

Tbh this forum brings me down a lot, but that's just of its nature; it's a bunch of suicidal people getting together to vent about the unfairness of the world.

Idk what to say man. I find it hard to stay away from here since my life is garbage and this is the only place that recognizes the nature of one of my biggest problems. Also fixing my life feels basically impossible as of now so it's hard not to ldar here.

Have you tried the pills?

 

[Deleted member 6599]

I'm taking meds. Seeing a psychiatrist. I chose to hang out here and read stuff.
I don't think it effects me. I actually feel a sense of relief from it. I feel physical pain when I go outside and see the world.
Anyways... Do whatever feels right, spend time looking for another job or whatever.
Claiming that this forum is toxic is too generalized. It's subjective to how you perceive it.
What you focus on / obsess about can mess you up. I enjoy the distraction I get from here tbh.
I lived with a complete asshole, drunk, abusive father and his cunt girlfriend for a while.
That was fucking toxic.

 

[Sgtpinkie]

no, it's impossible to survive the blackpill alone. Trust me, you will feel even more isolated and miserable. I know this from experience. I almost ended up in the hospital every time I tried to quit this forum.

This is why I came back, holy shit the ultimate blackpill is knowing you can no longer turn back.

 

[YungCell]

Idk your situation but I dont think it's ever a good idea to go see a jew tharapist, if you feel you need to leave that's fine but the blackpills aren't ever gonna stay behind. Weather you like it or not this forum stays with you.

 

[Smallondick]

Yes, never again.

Because?

 

[mentalcel]

Your therapist is bluepilling you back.

 

[ihaveno1]

damn i wouldn't have admitted that I post on incel forums to outsiders but leaving this place wont magically make things better, it will just make u feel even more lonely.

 

[rahultmnt]

you're gonna give up interacting with people here and then what ? go full isolation mode ?

 

[LastGerman]

tbh. I cant imagine to live alone with the blackpill I would just rope

Like this:

 

[micropenis29]

anyway ofcourse he started saying normies shit and how such forum is bad for my mental health etc... he also was outraged when i told him some of the things i post here. but i told him that when i post lifefuels about dead foids it mostly cuz i know theres tons of cucks guests here so i love knowing the fact that i make them rage hard. he gave a tiny smile.

lmfao...deep, deep down this guy is blackpilled af

 

[Cybersex is our hope]

well maybe some of you have noticed in the last week im barely here and theres a reason..

after rotting in my home for more than 6 months my mental health is pretty much destroyed.
the stuff that i believe fuck me the most:
*the blackpill ofcourse. ugly and manlet. i cant ignore the amount of things im denied in this life only cuz of that.
*living with my shitty toxic family.
*rotting in my room for like 6-7 months already i think. i had a good job before but depression got me and i quitted after fighting with my boss. that was a huge mistake because i made decent money there, and the isolation from rotting in my room is killing my mental health. when i worked i talked to alot of people and even had some "work buddies". i also went NC on the few friends i had, now i got only like 2 i go out with every 2-3 months. bottom line, isolation isolation isolation....
*scars from the verbal abuse i suffered in HS.

anyway i felt like im loosing my mind so last week i went for the first time in my life to a therapist. honestly i just hoped for some 'happy pills' but we talked and shit and i told him about this site (didnt said the name tho, so he cant follow me here.)

anyway ofcourse he started saying normies shit and how such forum is bad for my mental health etc... he also was outraged when i told him some of the things i post here. but i told him that when i post lifefuels about dead foids it mostly cuz i know theres tons of cucks guests here so i love knowing the fact that i make them rage hard. he gave a tiny smile.
he accepted parts of the blackpill things i said which is nice and it gave me hope in him.... i just want to fix some of my problems and maybe feel normal somehow idk.....

anyway he told me i must leave this forum if i want to make progress cuz its a toxic place etc etc and it fucks my brain. that most of the things we know are "misguided thinking because of bad mentality", something like that.
i told him this forum is the closest thing i got to "talking to friends".
he tried to convince me even 10 minutes after out meeting ended, i told him idk ill think about it...

thats it tbh idk what im doing.

i really wants to fix some of my mental problems so maybe i can at least have a "fine" life... couple of friends, job, go to uni etc...

Beat the crap out of that jewish money master. Scream loud and cry while you beat him to give lean to every bad emotion. THAT will help you a lot, not leaving this HOLY FORUM

 

[LastGerman]

Wtf is that from

I do not know. Some user before used this gif as profile picture as well. I cannot remember his name though.

 

[IncelGenocide]

You don't seem to like it here

I will be honest. This forum is just procrastination in negativity, but it is dopamine inducing. I am weening myself off and migrating to better forums that concentrate on actionable things instead of whining.

 

[Smallondick]

Because antidepressants don't work and make the problem worse/chronic

I must go soon, I need to level up for a while at least. You only resolve when the problem that afflicts you some.

 

[Deleted member 6599]

lmfao...deep, deep down this guy is blackpilled af

The trouble with therapists, counselors, and psychologists is that they can't encourage blackpilled theory. If word got out they were blackpilling clients they would be under attack, liable for any wrong and soon lose their licence to practice.

 

[IncelGenocide]

Procrastination? I don't see how. Negativity, definitely though. Though as I said in my first comment in this thread that comes from the nature of the userbase, and must be expected.

I personally continue to use this forum because it is the only space that recognizes females do not factor personality as a deciding factor in choosing partners, despite the negativity.

Herein lies a major problem with modern psychology.

I'm sorry, I don't understand what you were trying to say

Procrastination because there is nothing to gain from these threads. There were only a few useful threads here that I found, everything else is regurgitating black pill.

 

[Michael15651]

I said that I hated women once a few years back and they just asked me how true this was.

 

[Deleted member 6470]

This place is very bad for their business.
Did you do well when you didn't know about "incels" in general? At best you were lonely and miserable.
Do you know what they hate very much? That there is a platform to talk about taboos in our shitty society.
One of the reason they nuked the subreddit, the userbases was growing constantly.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

Your therapist is right.

Look at it objectively. There are only 3 routes you can take:

1. Maxx out (moneymaxx, looksmaxx, statusmaxx, mentalmaxx). Do you need this forum for that? No, there are better forums and groups for this.
2. LDAR. In this case, if this is your choice, feel free to remain here and whine, but you will feel SHIT and you wont start feeling better until you stop visiting this forum and you know it.
3. ROPE. In that case, why the fuck would you visit the forum? Just do it.

No man. Option 1 is exhausting and low yield. Even if you commit to it 90% of the time you're just grinding it out waiting for gains to happen or treatments to work and money takes forever to earn.

You will still need somewhere to vent. Most of us can't ascend enough either. So you will keep getting rejected and it hurts. This is the only place you can be honest about it.

I'm option 1 birth to death and i still can't cope without the forum.

 

[IncelGenocide]

No man. Option 1 is exhausting and low yield. Even if you commit to it 90% of the time you're just grinding it out waiting for gains to happen or treatments to work and money takes forever to earn.

You will still need somewhere to vent. Most of us can't ascend enough either. So you will keep getting rejected and it hurts. This is the only place you can be honest about it.

I'm option 1 birth to death and i still can't cope without the forum.

yeah this place is good for venting I guess

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I wouldnt mind leaving this forum. but these are the only group of people that sympathize with us curries. normies and liberals and women constantly make fun of us

 

[micropenis29]

The trouble with therapists, counselors, and psychologists is that they can't encourage blackpilled theory. If word got out they were blackpilling clients they would be under attack, liable for any wrong and soon lose their licence to practice.

Lol how cucked has society become ffs

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I've recently visited another therapist as well, or rather I finally agreed to it so my father would stop bothering me about it. The therapist thinks there is hope for me, but I have to wonder, hope to do what exactly? I didn't ask him, and he wasn't specific. Perhaps next time I'll tell him that I'm a nearly 25 year old khhv, but then I suppose it's obvious given what I've already mentioned to him, nevermind my appearance.

There's certainly not hope for what I actually want.

 

[Deleted member 6470]

A homeless man still thinks there is hope too.

 

[Blackpincel]

Therapy is a bluepilled cope that won't fix the life issues of being an Incel.
It won't fix your face and won't magically increase your SMV and help you getting laid or getting a girlfriend (thus stop being Incel).
When the therapist notices you are fucked for life, he/she'll try to "whitepill" you into stopping pursuing sex and relationships and "doing things simply to obtain happiness", and sex will suddenly be not be considered a basic need for them exclusively when you (Incel) are the patient. Either that, or they'll suggest you to "lower your standards", to not care about looks at all and date a 1/10 landwhale below even to the looksmatch of an average Incel (meanwhile our looksmatch is fucking legit Chads).

You can find a better cope in gymcelling or sportscelling.

 

[CreepElite]

AVOID THE MENTAL HEALTHCARE SYSTEM AT ALL COSTS

Psychiatrists are not your friend, do not understand or care about your problems, and will not help you. Psychiatrists have an ideological agenda that completely undermines your autonomy, freedom, and health. Psychiatrists have legal powers that exceed those of law enforcement and can have you involuntarily committed to a mental institution even if you don't threaten suicide or violence.

My advice is to stop seeing your therapist immediately, and never again give out any personal information to anyone even remotely involved with mental healthcare, including counselors and social workers.

If you can just avoid suicide, your depression can bottom out and soft-reset your mind all by itself, no matter how unlikely this may seem to you right now. What you're feeling right now could seem like a mere fuzzy memory or a bad dream in as little as three months without requiring any psychiatric intervention. Focus on putting your life back together and taking back control. Put out job applications and try to rebuild what you had. Your subconscious, your soul, is sorting things out for you right now in ways you might not understand, you just have to have faith in the inevitability of change and adaptation. Best of luck to you.

 

[StaroRavager]

It’s comforting to interact with people in a similar situation to you. It makes me feel less lonely in my struggle.

 

[BrettyBoy]

Having no one to relate to will just make you feel more shitty.

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

youre a fucking cuck, you know that? listening to his bluepilled bullshit and clearly can't see hes toying you by agreeing with some of your blackpills to get you to keep giving him your shekels. pathetic little cuck, keep seeing your soy boy therapist.

 

[micropenis29]

Therapy is a bluepilled cope that won't fix the life issues of being an Incel.
It won't fix your face and won't magically increase your SMV and help you getting laid or getting a girlfriend (thus stop being Incel).
When the therapist notices you are fucked for life, he/she'll try to "whitepill" you into stopping pursuing sex and relationships and "doing things simply to obtain happiness", and sex will suddenly be not be considered a basic need for them exclusively when you (Incel) are the patient. Either that, or they'll suggest you to "lower your standards", to not care about looks at all and date a 1/10 landwhale below even to the looksmatch of an average Incel (meanwhile our looksmatch is fucking legit Chads).

You can find a better cope in gymcelling or sportscelling.

Based af ngl

AVOID THE MENTAL HEALTHCARE SYSTEM AT ALL COSTS

Psychiatrists are not your friend, do not understand or care about your problems, and will not help you. Psychiatrists have an ideological agenda that completely undermines your autonomy, freedom, and health. Psychiatrists have legal powers that exceed those of law enforcement and can have you involuntarily committed to a mental institution even if you don't threaten suicide or violence.

My advice is to stop seeing your therapist immediately, and never again give out any personal information to anyone even remotely involved with mental healthcare, including counselors and social workers.

If you can just avoid suicide, your depression can bottom out and soft-reset your mind all by itself, no matter how unlikely this may seem to you right now. What you're feeling right now could seem like a mere fuzzy memory or a bad dream in as little as three months without requiring any psychiatric intervention. Focus on putting your life back together and taking back control. Put out job applications and try to rebuild what you had. Your subconscious, your soul, is sorting things out for you right now in ways you might not understand, you just have to have faith in the inevitability of change and adaptation. Best of luck to you.

Brutal therapypill right here

 

[Fuckcel]

OP, work on yourself first. Try what the therapist says since you are paying for them or you'll be wasting your money. If your life gets better, good. If it doesnt you can always come back. Same as druggies and alcoholics, this place might be bringing you down. You dont owe anyone shit, you could literally say fuck you to everyone here, wont get bothered about it since I honestly feel no loyalty to anyone.

 

[Captain Funny]

He doesn’t want you to get better. He doesn’t care if you do at least. You’re just pennies in his pocket, just like everyone else desperate enough to eats that shit up. Stay strong homie.

 

[FIVETHREEBALDCEL]

This site points out all the unfair treatment we got for being ugly, all the things we were denied of, and how truly over it is for ugly males. That is not good for mental health, but it is the truth and will help to navigate through the world better in the long run, only if you survive this knowledge though, i somewhat agree with the virtuesignalling cunt of a the-rapist, simply because ignorance is bliss, not because he gives a shit about you he only cares about the paycheck, couldn't care less about the problems of a subhuman
You have a choice at this point

1. Leave this forum and try to relapse into bluepill thinking(this will help your mental health but you will also get cucked in the long run
2. Take the bitter blackpill, digest it, be miserable but this way you won't get cucked, won't get used and abused.

Either way you're somewhat fucked
Choose your poison

 

[Vorbei]

I was on jewpills (citalopram > sertraline > prozac) for 6 months and I don't recommend it. I stopped feeling anxious, but I also stopped feeling anything else either. I turned LDAR into an artform, I gained 40 lbs because I was constantly hungry no matter my diet and I didn't go to the gym even once. My depressive symptoms actually got worse, most days I felt like I was 70, my body wracked with all manner of aches and pains.

 

[SilentSoup]

Your therapist has a point... I know people won't like to hear this but following a culture of hopelessness, self-destruction, and bitter hatred could turn a Chadlite into an Incel. Hating yourself, hating other people, that kind of shit is pure poison.

Most of the people here are very damaged and have good reasons to be angry and frustrated. That doesn't make it any better for them.

I'd recommend taking some time off, don't delete your account, just take like a month off and see how it goes.

 

[heroinfather]

Your therapist has a point... I know people won't like to hear this but following a culture of hopelessness, self-destruction, and bitter hatred could turn a Chadlite into an Incel. Hating yourself, hating other people, that kind of shit is pure poison.

Most of the people here are very damaged and have good reasons to be angry and frustrated. That doesn't make it any better for them.

I'd recommend taking some time off, don't delete your account, just take like a month off and see how it goes.

cope lol, it won't turn a chadlite into an incel, but I agree it is bad to spent a lot of time here and recommend hiatus' from the forum every 3-6 months for mental health

AVOID THE MENTAL HEALTHCARE SYSTEM AT ALL COSTS

Psychiatrists are not your friend, do not understand or care about your problems, and will not help you. Psychiatrists have an ideological agenda that completely undermines your autonomy, freedom, and health. Psychiatrists have legal powers that exceed those of law enforcement and can have you involuntarily committed to a mental institution even if you don't threaten suicide or violence.

My advice is to stop seeing your therapist immediately, and never again give out any personal information to anyone even remotely involved with mental healthcare, including counselors and social workers.

If you can just avoid suicide, your depression can bottom out and soft-reset your mind all by itself, no matter how unlikely this may seem to you right now. What you're feeling right now could seem like a mere fuzzy memory or a bad dream in as little as three months without requiring any psychiatric intervention. Focus on putting your life back together and taking back control. Put out job applications and try to rebuild what you had. Your subconscious, your soul, is sorting things out for you right now in ways you might not understand, you just have to have faith in the inevitability of change and adaptation. Best of luck to you.

they do it to stop people from literally killing themselves

 

[YoungCurryCell]

Therapy is a meme lmao

 

[Deleted member 60]

Your therapist has a point... Hating yourself, hating other people, that kind of shit is pure poison.

the self-hate is the problem IMO. Nothing wrong with misanthropy

hopelessness, self-destruction, and bitter hatred could turn a Chadlite into an Incel

niger wut

 

[Involuntarily]

OP it's fun to choose.
Blackpill or bluepil?
Bluepill you will be put through a system that is deaigned to jew you out of money but you have a chance to be fake happy.
Blackpill you accept reality and seek to find your place on the earth. You may give up hope but you will always be true to yourself, the feelings are related to your reality at hand, and you have a chance to change but probably won't do it very fast.