Bangkok or bust
A life of poorer quality due to skull & bones
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Sure. I try to answer them, as much as possible, to draw conclusions from evidence, rather than from introspection. Firstly there's a difference between being confident in ones looks and not being attractive to others. Simply being confident in your looks doesn't attract others, at the same time neither does being down about your looks repel others. What I'm saying is that I have observed people who feel down about their looks have no problem with dating (esp. women), yet I have witnessed confident people struggle with attracting people. So while I don't think there's anything wrong with me (physically), i'm not deformed for example, whether I think I should be attractive to others is irrelevant. What's relevant is that I've seen no evidence to indicate that women are physically attracted to me and very little evidence to even indicate that they might be. I don't attract, period. Therefore I can't help, but conclude that I'm unattractive to women. On top of that I have recieved countless hundreds of times of unprovoked nastiness and remarks on my looks, even bullying, ostracism etc, as well as recieving nothing as far as one date from online dating. I do attract a small number of landwhales online, but that is not what i'm looking for, i'm not obese, but neither am i looking for a hottie or above average woman either.
If this isn't the evidence they need to understand why incels blame thier looks then what exactly is?
If this isn't the evidence they need to understand why incels blame thier looks then what exactly is?





