Lv99_BixNood
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1uc80x3/trapped_in_a_circle_of_unavailable_men/
Now I have 3 men in my life: a fling 2 hours away that is kind and loving, almost like best friends, but he sees other women as well; a fling 1 hour away who I crushed on but is entirely unavailable—just casual, also seeing other women; a FWB in my city that has an open relationship with his girlfriend and wants to keep things strictly casual with me, no relationship (is fine because I don’t have romantic feelings for him anyway).
I’m still on the apps and look for others occasionally, I still meet some people organically, but sometimes this three-way situationship feels like it’s stretching me thin, and I have wonder, is this just the state of modern dating? Do any other women experience this?
This is every roastie in 2026





