the most basic of relationships between people (non family), only work if the two people in the relationship are on the same page with each other physically and mentally. if there is mutual trust, agreement, and goals in life, otherwise there is a disconnect that cannot recover.
while your classmates in grade/highschool were having their firsts (first girlfriend, first hs party, first time sneaking out and drinking) your path, for whatever reason. suddenly diverged from your normal development. be it genetics or be it something else, your path in life had etched out a different angle to continue on. while the majority of people your age had developed into happy, healthy, normal young adults, you instead became something so far removed from that in which you cannot relate to the average person.
during the time that these people had lived a life you were robbed of, they had understood what it means to love and how to love romantically. how to have serious, deep, passionate feelings for your partner and to feel connected to them even when they are not with you. how to listen to your partner, how to communicate with them, and most importantly how to build each other up in a meaningful way.
when people on reddit talk about this, they are not lying. its not some bs trick that women only do with chad. 95% of men experience romantic maturity and understand what having a relationship is all about. this is why redditors and normies in general say stuff that makes incels heads spin, they are ultimately talking from a collective mindset no one here can understand. they cannot understand because the very development of understanding the importance of these things never came to them.
instead, you as an incel have evolved into 1 of 2 things. either you have become intensely angry and fed up with your life to the point of violence, or you have adopted a disconnected, numb view of the world. like i have said before, most of us here do not fucking live. we just barely exist. our days are exactly like our nights and our life is one meaningless blur with 0 satisfaction of happiness. what makes it even worse is seeing those with normal lives talk about things we cannot understand. be that sex, be that relationships, be that having success in our respective fields, or whatever it may be.
we are not people capable of feeling love because the seed of hatred has already been planted in our mind. the experiences of our life has shaped the way we think to cope with our past struggles and difficulties instead of thriving and looking forward to each new day.
we feel lust, but we do not feel love. love is something that is learned with experience, and how to receive love as well. since we have done neither, our mind has found no use for it and rejected it completely.
while your classmates in grade/highschool were having their firsts (first girlfriend, first hs party, first time sneaking out and drinking) your path, for whatever reason. suddenly diverged from your normal development. be it genetics or be it something else, your path in life had etched out a different angle to continue on. while the majority of people your age had developed into happy, healthy, normal young adults, you instead became something so far removed from that in which you cannot relate to the average person.
during the time that these people had lived a life you were robbed of, they had understood what it means to love and how to love romantically. how to have serious, deep, passionate feelings for your partner and to feel connected to them even when they are not with you. how to listen to your partner, how to communicate with them, and most importantly how to build each other up in a meaningful way.
when people on reddit talk about this, they are not lying. its not some bs trick that women only do with chad. 95% of men experience romantic maturity and understand what having a relationship is all about. this is why redditors and normies in general say stuff that makes incels heads spin, they are ultimately talking from a collective mindset no one here can understand. they cannot understand because the very development of understanding the importance of these things never came to them.
instead, you as an incel have evolved into 1 of 2 things. either you have become intensely angry and fed up with your life to the point of violence, or you have adopted a disconnected, numb view of the world. like i have said before, most of us here do not fucking live. we just barely exist. our days are exactly like our nights and our life is one meaningless blur with 0 satisfaction of happiness. what makes it even worse is seeing those with normal lives talk about things we cannot understand. be that sex, be that relationships, be that having success in our respective fields, or whatever it may be.
we are not people capable of feeling love because the seed of hatred has already been planted in our mind. the experiences of our life has shaped the way we think to cope with our past struggles and difficulties instead of thriving and looking forward to each new day.
we feel lust, but we do not feel love. love is something that is learned with experience, and how to receive love as well. since we have done neither, our mind has found no use for it and rejected it completely.
