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Missing out on Teen Love.

There was a realization, a lesson to be learnt, and a hard pill to swallow as I realized that I passed the mark. There will be no Teen Love (TL) in my life. I will never have it.
In this community, I'm sure most of us knows what it implies, so I won't go very deep into explaining what it is. But that missing out on dating, relationships and sex during the teenage years makes it more difficult to ascend later on is a given.

TL is an important part in development, no doubt. It's an experience that you nearly must have if you want to be able to naturally interact with adult relationships at first. If you ever reach a point where you may ascend, you will still be like a child in an adults world. Inexperienced and naive as to how you should act. Sexual inexperience is supposedly a turn off to women. I didn't find any studies for that claim, but an absence of evidence is not an evidence of absence. Anecdotal evidence may be shit, but it isn't bullshit.

Anyhow, the TL Pill is undoubtedly one of the most brutal pills, but it's mostly about the lack of experience with relationships and a kind of love that you can never again have to my understanding. But that's not the main issue for me.

Society has made rules that counteract our biological imperative to mate because the brain "isn't fully developed" so "children can't consent", even when the majority of girls that age have reached secondary sex characteristics. It is a SIN against man to have such high age of consent laws, and the attitudes that go along with shaming men who are attracted to younger girls (even when it's 40 year old men attracted to 18 year old girls) are ridiculous.

I'm not a pedo. I'm not attracted to pre-pubescent girls, not at all. And I assume I was always like this but that it's only something that I really became cognizant of when I got "older", and it suddenly became stigmatized for me to feel this way. But it genuinely haunts me to think that I have reached a point where it will never be socially acceptable for me to aim for younger girls.

if you want to experience girls at their prime later on, no amount of work will ever give you that if you've missed it. Society will do everything it can to end you. It will make your life terrible if you so much as try.

It's a hard lesson to learn, and I'm surprised that this is the time when I have to finally accept it. There are things in life that you can never attain no matter how much you want it, even if it is theoretically something that you could do. Being a billionaire is just a pipe dream, something that people say that they want to be, but forget about half a minute later. But most people did experience what I missed out on. And I can never have it, which is why it's such a hard pill to swallow.

To think that if I ever ascend, it won't be a prime hebe girl.
To think that if I ever escortcel, it won't be a prime hebe girl.
To think that no matter what I do, I can never experience a hebe girl.

And to think that if I want to experience something that men throughout all ages experienced, and what the normies to chads of the present experienced, the world will try to bring me down. And only because I want what they had.

It's a brutal, agonizing, terrible and suicide-inducing realitypill that I struggle so hard to swallow. Fellow hebecels will know exactly what I mean.
 
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I was also denied the opportunity to experience it. At that age, girls would denigrate me for being "short" and autistic.

My physical appearance is in the age-range of 12-15. I'm 23+
 
Teen love works according to the same principles as adult love
I understood it as less transactional, more care-free and entirely pure due to it being a mostly new experience for everyone involved with no influence of from past relationships.

I romanticize it, definitely. But simply pointing out the differences makes it clear to me that it seems superior to that of adult-love.

It's hard to really know without having experienced it, is it not?
 
Not really. Teen love works according to the same principles as adult love; its just a little less cut throat, but still requires young men to be attractive, athletic and well adjusted. This romanticization needs to stop.
As you grow older,the concept and the opportunity to experience love decreases.

I remember I used to have oneitis up to my mid 20's but after that it rarely happened. After I hit 30 , not a single girl interested me. I'm not sure if it was the effect of the Blackpoll since deep down I knew no one will ever love me back. But the whole idea of oneitis has faded away.

Teenage love is the purest and best one
 
That's because you're ignoring the transactions involved in teen love.
you still need to be good looking to get this kind of love.
I understand what you're saying but it seems to me that you fully agree with it being superior, but we couldn't qualify for it either way?

The transactions you mention aren't necessarily transactions. They would be for us, because we aren't naturally social, good looking or anything like that. But for lots of teens that's just who and what they are, meaning they'll be able to get that kind of love that we romanticize.

But one thing is for sure, those who LDAR because they missed TL romanticize it way too much. I just desire prime JB-cunny bodies so very much. :feelscry:
 
its only slightly superior.
Fair, that may be fully true. I have no clue in all honesty.
That's literally a transaction.
It's a transaction, sure. But looks are almost entirely pre-determined by your genetics, are they not? Someone who is naturally good looking because of the bones in their face and length of their femurs don't have to actively do much to provide anything.

Do you just technically see it as a transaction, or is it something that you consider equal to betabuxxing, or having high status?
 
Gotta get a job, gotta be a man now.
You missed out on teen love, when you didn't have responsibilities and all you had to think about was pounding her prime tight pussy. Now you gotta work and wageslave your young adulthood away, meanwhile you can't even get sloppy seconds on tinder. You gotta wait till your 30s or 40s, and even by THEN they would rather be with a normie guy by then, not a sub below average incel oldcel.

Brutal as fuck. We can't get love or sex in teenhood, adulthood, nothing.
 
Teen love is a meme, teens lit change their gfs/bfs (mainly gfs dumping their bfs) very often kek. Woman love is important
 
Teen love is a meme
This post is very directed at their bodies, not the experience of teen relationships. I want to ascend with a hebe girl, but there's only a small window in which that is acceptable, and I've missed it.
 
teen ''love'' is a joke ,especially nowadays when their relationships barley last a month and girls are even sluttier, its just as shit as an adult relationship
it does beat adult relationships though, since ur fucking a younger and better looking whore
 
teen ''love'' is a joke ,especially nowadays when their relationships barley last a month and girls are even sluttier, its just as shit as an adult relationship
it does beat adult relationships though, since ur fucking a younger and better looking whore
Lit
 
Missing out on teen love, adult love, love in general.
 
One of the most brutal experiences is turning into an adult and realizing you missed the only time period of your life where you can have absolute fun without any consequences or worries :feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
One of the most brutal experiences is turning into an adult and realizing you missed the only time period of your life where you can have absolute fun without any consequences or worries :feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:

"absolute fun"? You must be closer to the "normies" than many of us. "absolute fun" would've given someone like myself extreme romantic attachment.
 
"absolute fun"? You must be closer to the "normies" than many of us. "absolute fun" would've given someone like myself extreme romantic attachment.
I spent my teenage years working and trying to make money while living in absolute pisspoorness and having family problems.
You would never understand.
 
I spent my teenage years working and trying to make money while living in absolute pisspoorness and having family problems.
You would never understand.
I don't get why parents decide to have kids when they are in misery.:feelsUnreal:
 
I spent my teenage years working and trying to make money while living in absolute pisspoorness and having family problems.
You would never understand.

No, I wouldn't be able to understand your personal experiences, and so I apologize. However:

The "extreme romantic attachment" is not from an easy life; it's from mental illness. My "attachment" to people extends into obsessive thinking and fantasizing because it helped me ignore childhood trauma(D.V). I'm an ASD and PTSD sufferer.
 
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I understand what you're saying but it seems to me that you fully agree with it being superior, but we couldn't qualify for it either way?

The transactions you mention aren't necessarily transactions. They would be for us, because we aren't naturally social, good looking or anything like that. But for lots of teens that's just who and what they are, meaning they'll be able to get that kind of love that we romanticize.

But one thing is for sure, those who LDAR because they missed TL romanticize it way too much. I just desire prime JB-cunny bodies so very much. :feelscry:
Most relationships are transactional, teen love doesn't mean it's unconditional, there's always terms and conditions to these things.
 
Rather have early 20s foid then teens. 18 sounds good for women tho.

I think its cope to think 16 year olds are more 'prime' than early 20s tho
 
It's not the romanticism, really. we just missed the tightest juvial fertile cunny there is.
 
You can never recover
 
My greatest regret on my death bed will be missing out on teen love
 
im a youngcel and still KHHV yet more than half way through my teens. and i don't expect things to get better from here because i thought puberty was gonna fix all my problems but it really hasn't, im still an ugly ass nigga:feelshaha:
 
As you grow older,the concept and the opportunity to experience love decreases.

I remember I used to have oneitis up to my mid 20's but after that it rarely happened. After I hit 30 , not a single girl interested me. I'm not sure if it was the effect of the Blackpoll since deep down I knew no one will ever love me back. But the whole idea of oneitis has faded away.

Teenage love is the purest and best one
This 100%. For me since 13 to around 22ish~23ish~ i was regularly deeply in love with girls, ESPECIALLY as a teenager. Like, infatuation so deep my entire face was red just thinking about a girl, and they weren't necessarily models, but they did have a cute face. I remember one time when i was 15, I listened to music just thinking about a girl, and my heart was beating so badly, I thought "wow, this is what it must feel like to do drugs". To this day the hardest drug i took was MDMA powder bought online, and being in love is like 100 times more powerful than that, but not experiencing love is the inverse, so it leads to great suffering.

As you get older, your ability to experience ANY kind of emotions decreases. Which is very good if the majority of emotions you feel are suicidal ideation and depression. And there's also evidence to suggest that as you get older, you get better at coping with suffering.
All of the studies on adult virgins ive found showed that they are a liability to themselves and to society. They are over-educated, under-employed, underpayed, have much more health issues, and often times live in poverty
 
This 100%. For me since 13 to around 22ish~23ish~ i was regularly deeply in love with girls, ESPECIALLY as a teenager. Like, infatuation so deep my entire face was red just thinking about a girl, and they weren't necessarily models, but they did have a cute face. I remember one time when i was 15, I listened to music just thinking about a girl, and my heart was beating so badly, I thought "wow, this is what it must feel like to do drugs". To this day the hardest drug i took was MDMA powder bought online, and being in love is like 100 times more powerful than that, but not experiencing love is the inverse, so it leads to great suffering.

As you get older, your ability to experience ANY kind of emotions decreases. Which is very good if the majority of emotions you feel are suicidal ideation and depression. And there's also evidence to suggest that as you get older, you get better at coping with suffering.
All of the studies on adult virgins ive found showed that they are a liability to themselves and to society. They are over-educated, under-employed, underpayed, have much more health issues, and often times live in poverty
I remember I used t listen to "fake plastic trees" and think about my one it is. I remember I used to cry to that song because of how lonely I am.

I also used to listen to love songs and think about my ineitis and how I could kiss her and be with her and have fun.

Yeah...I've suffered enough :fuk:
 
a kind of love that you can never again
It's not the love itself; as others said, love is based on the same principles regardless of age. However, being unloved during your teens causes negative health effects, leading to stunted development during puberty. And once puberty is over, it's too late to go back and let your body develop properly.

And there's also evidence to suggest that as you get older, you get better at coping with suffering.
I hope it really is that you get better at coping and not that whoever couldn't cope ended up roping before they could get older, skewing the statistics.
 
There as so many things I've missed during my teens, and still missing. Didnt even have my first kiss, hell not even my first party.

Im such degenerate...
 
Hi there, can you do me a very huge favor? If you have an advisor or a counselor or favorite professor at your university, send that person a quick email letting them know you're struggling and having trouble.

After doing that, give yourself permission to take several deep breaths, for at least 30 seconds. And then give yourself a huge gold star and reward yourself for accomplishing it, because it's hard to do but you may be glad you did in the future :) I hope you feel better soon. I understand what you're going through and if I could get through it I bet you can too.
 
Missing out on Teen Love.

There was a realization, a lesson to be learnt, and a hard pill to swallow as I realized that I passed the mark. There will be no Teen Love (TL) in my life. I will never have it.
In this community, I'm sure most of us knows what it implies, so I won't go very deep into explaining what it is. But that missing out on dating, relationships and sex during the teenage years makes it more difficult to ascend later on is a given.

TL is an important part in development, no doubt. It's an experience that you nearly must have if you want to be able to naturally interact with adult relationships at first. If you ever reach a point where you may ascend, you will still be like a child in an adults world. Inexperienced and naive as to how you should act. Sexual inexperience is supposedly a turn off to women. I didn't find any studies for that claim, but an absence of evidence is not an evidence of absence. Anecdotal evidence may be shit, but it isn't bullshit.

Anyhow, the TL Pill is undoubtedly one of the most brutal pills, but it's mostly about the lack of experience with relationships and a kind of love that you can never again have to my understanding. But that's not the main issue for me.

Society has made rules that counteract our biological imperative to mate because the brain "isn't fully developed" so "children can't consent", even when the majority of girls that age have reached secondary sex characteristics. It is a SIN against man to have such high age of consent laws, and the attitudes that go along with shaming men who are attracted to younger girls (even when it's 40 year old men attracted to 18 year old girls) are ridiculous.

I'm not a pedo. I'm not attracted to pre-pubescent girls, not at all. And I assume I was always like this but that it's only something that I really became cognizant of when I got "older", and it suddenly became stigmatized for me to feel this way. But it genuinely haunts me to think that I have reached a point where it will never be socially acceptable for me to aim for younger girls.

if you want to experience girls at their prime later on, no amount of work will ever give you that if you've missed it. Society will do everything it can to end you. It will make your life terrible if you so much as try.

It's a hard lesson to learn, and I'm surprised that this is the time when I have to finally accept it. There are things in life that you can never attain no matter how much you want it, even if it is theoretically something that you could do. Being a billionaire is just a pipe dream, something that people say that they want to be, but forget about half a minute later. But most people did experience what I missed out on. And I can never have it, which is why it's such a hard pill to swallow.

To think that if I ever ascend, it won't be a prime hebe girl.
To think that if I ever escortcel, it won't be a prime hebe girl.
To think that no matter what I do, I can never experience a hebe girl.

And to think that if I want to experience something that men throughout all ages experienced, and what the normies to chads of the present experienced, the world will try to bring me down. And only because I want what they had.

It's a brutal, agonizing, terrible and suicide-inducing realitypill that I struggle so hard to swallow. Fellow hebecels will know exactly what I mean.
We missed out on everything fun and normal. We were shown the truth about life, but at the price of all happiness or joy.
 

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