Serious Methods of Counteracting Loneliness?

[Deleted member 8353]

What do you guys do to lessen the negative effects of lonely feelings, or longing for a partner?

I use concentration to imagine myself in a sort of mental retreat, sometimes I place a girl there, other times I'm alone. It's a clearing surrounded by forest, mostly covered in tall grass. Usually I do this to make myself feel better when I'm feeling particularly depressed, as a sort of mood regulation, or when I go to sleep. Obviously this has similarities to the waifu cope, but I'm curious to know if anybody here does something similar.

 

[Modus Coperandi]

master the art of escapism.

 

[Deleted member 9192]

this forum tbh. otherwise not much. acknowledging that loneliness comes in waves and that this too shall pass somewhat

 

[ruvelyy]

Just vidya, I’ve no other cope

 

[Deleted member 1983]

escape into an mmo.

also realise that western foids are trash and western society encourages them to behave like this.

its like trying to swim against the tide.

 

[Stoiccel]

Jackoff. Not sure what to do long term though, we gotta find a good cope/hobby sometime.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

acknowledging that loneliness comes in waves and that this too shall pass somewhat

It's been getting particularly bad for me lately, often I wonder if the loneliness will just continue to get worse.

 

[VST]

Shooting up heroin with your local Homeless mandem.

 

[Deleted member 9192]

It's been getting particularly bad for me lately, often I wonder if the loneliness will just continue to get worse.

Not really, thats the nature of negative emotions. they try to tell you that it 1) will get worse or never get better 2) that they are permanent. both are always untrue
EDIT: if it gets too bad you can shoot me a pm im always up for talking

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I use concentration to imagine myself in a sort of mental retreat, sometimes I place a girl there, other times I'm alone. It's a clearing surrounded by forest, mostly covered in tall grass. Usually I do this to make myself feel better when I'm feeling particularly depressed, as a sort of mood regulation, or when I go to sleep. Obviously this has similarities to the waifu cope, but I'm curious to know if anybody here does something similar.

This is a good cope that I'm sure has deep and ancient roots throughout time.
Just don't try to put a real person in there, or you'll be in for a world of hurt mentally.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

This is a good cope that I'm sure has deep and ancient roots throughout time.
Just don't try to put a real person in there, or you'll be in for a world of hurt mentally.

I don't, I know better. In fact I desperately try to distance myself from actual foids, it's just easier that way.

 

[Weightcel]

This forum

 

[Mik_TFL]

I use lucid dreaming during night. Talk to myself during the day. Sometimes I used to talk to myself out loud when I was distracted and people would look at me weird, so I started using a headset all the time and pretend I'm on the phone.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I use lucid dreaming during night. Talk to myself during the day. Sometimes I used to talk to myself out loud when I was distracted and people would look at me weird, so I started using a headset all the time and pretend I'm on the phone.

I've had lucid dreams before, they were always terrifying.

 

[Mik_TFL]

I've had lucid dreams before, they were always terrifying.

it takes some practice, but it is totally worth it. Might note that lucid dreaming is the sole reason my username is Mik_TFL (True forced loneliness) and not Mik_INCEL. I don't really care about the celibacy aspect tbh, lucid dreaming has those need covered, but since all incels are also TFL... this forum is still suited for people like me.