Most men have no any real "identity" to claim for their own, outside of violent psychotic outbreaks like murder, rape, constant squabbling etc. Machomaxxing is the only feasible venue for expressing themselves. Other qualities that people often attribute to the male gender, are in fact universal human qualities. Being confident, strong-willed, stoic, know how to handle difficult situations with calm and fair judgement etc - all of those traits aren't unique to men. What is unique is male looks and their psychotic, violent nature. Not every man can express his indentity through his looks alone, unless he's a chad or really big bulky tallfag. But any man sure can rape or hit or kill someone. This is only natural for genetic losers which make up the majority of male population. But oh it makes foids uncomfortable! Why don't we do away with this "toxic" masculinity altogether? So that foids can feel save everywhere they go?