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Marriage is such a bad idea that when you think about it , it seems absolutely ridiculous.

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By marrying in current world, when all privileges that were available to men in the past, have been taken away, marriage is nothing but emasculation.
A man can't do anything if his wife treats him badly, not loves him, doesn't obey his orders, even cheats on him.

By marrying a man gives away all the power as a man to woman, who is under no social or legal obligation to fulfill her duties as a wife.

In the past,at least in my country, Polygamy for men was allowed, husband had full authority over the wife. He can even kick her out if she behaves badly. This was how marriage was for thousands of years before modernity kicked in last few decades.

But stupid men are still marrying, not realising that marriage in current world is nothing but emasculation for men. A total joke of an institution.

Surely, you will need people in your life but for it make lots and lots of friends.
 
By having a wedding, you are basically announcing to everybody in public that you are a huge cuck.
 
Unless you're with a woman you deeply trust you can build a family with, marriage makes absolutely zero sense for men. Even then, it's questionable. Really understand the legal ramifications of marriage, we live in insane times.
 
Unless you're with a woman you deeply trust y
That is fundamental mistake you are making.
You can never trust a second person. You can trust only yourself.
Marriage kills soul of men

As a man you are made a free individual by god. That is why in past men were given full 100 authority over the wife , plus right to polygamy.
With them taken away, if you are marrying then you are giving up your manhood.
 
Unless you're with a woman you deeply trust you can build a family with, marriage makes absolutely zero sense for men. Even then, it's questionable. Really understand the legal ramifications of marriage, we live in insane times.

A family?

You mean a son or sons?

Having daughters is cucked
 
That is fundamental mistake you are making.
You can never trust a second person. You can trust only yourself.
I can't trust anyone because I'm ugly and worthless, but maybe attractive people can.
 
I can't trust anyone because I'm ugly and worthless,
You can never trust a second person.
Because second person is second person. They are not you. You don't have any control over the other person.
Doesn't matter if one is rich, poor, ugly, handsome or anything.
 
Most married men in the west are basically incels. I sometimes feel better about my situation when i think about the fact that there is a married man out there that gets 0 sex from his wife but doesn't have the freedom to do whatever like incels do, It helps me cope.
 
Most married men in the west are basically incel
All powers that was there in marriage for men have been taken away. While more responsibilities have been added.
While in case of women it is the opposite.

Any man marrying in current world is purely brainwashed.

Yes, you need people in life.
But scope for it has been widened.

Just make lots of friends.

In past life was limited and sedentry. Family was essential for social needs. In current world, it is not.
 
Marriage is only worth it if you’re allowed to have complete domain over your wife and essentially own her as property.
 
Marriage is only worth it if you’re allowed to have complete domain over your wife and essentially own her as property.
This (plus polygamy for men) was the very definition of marriage in all civilized society for thousands of years.
But the situation currently is completely opposite.
The wife has the full authority over the husband. It is completely ridiculous and emasculating.

Surely, you will need people in life. But for it make lots of friends. Use internet, there is always a way in any situation.

Men have been brainwashed to believe that they can't do without marrige, family and wife. But It is not. There is alwayas a way in any situation of life.
Marriage = Brainwashing.
 
When your wife divorces you, and marries her boyfriend she was cucking you with, you have to maintain the lifestyle she became accustomed to. This means a lifetime of alimony payments. For the rest of your life, you will be paying a foid just to exist.

If she accuses you of abuse it’s ovER. You will be in a motel while her and her boyfriend are in the marital home.


Do you own any antiques or other assets? If you’re wealthy then divorce will shove you right back down to the proletariat over night.

If you have a hobby cope like a boat or a Cessna plane? Half of that’s hers.

Any antique or expensive watch like a Rolex or Audemars Piguet? Half of that is hers.

Any antique clock that costs thousands at auction? Half the cost is hers.


The only way a man can come out of divorce okay is if he was poor already so there’s nothing for the toilet to steal, or if the wife is so retarded and “a vulnerable adult” that she allows the husband to get away with no alimony and to keep all his assets (but even when the wife is too retarded to know what she can steal, the judge will still override any settlement which precluded alimony and order the husband to pay it).



If a man gets married, he is automatically a cuckold in my opinion.
 
If a man gets married, he is automatically a cuckold in my opinion
Marriage was an institution in which the husband had full authority over the wife, plus right to polygamy.
With these taken away, you have been emasculated in the contract itself.
The Anti-Marriage laws make marriage a nightmare.

Plus most wives literally see their husbands as nothing but ATM and servant. Forget love or sex, there is not even basic respect in marriage.

A rich man getting married is stupid of the highest order.
 
A rich man getting married is stupid of the highest order.
My whore mother was a groupie that married a stuntman. My cuck father is now living in a motel while my mother who dropped out of school at 14 with no qualifications is living in the 5 bedroom marital home with her wife while my father is still paying half his earnings to the kike whore.
 
5 bedroom marital home with her wife
Your mom is a bisexual ? She cheated with a woman ?
Then it is at least better. If your mom had cheated with a man, it would have felt much more horrible.

Even then, It is very unjust that your father got robbed off his money.
 
Your mom is a bisexual ? She cheated with a woman ?
Then it is at least better. If your mom had cheated with a man, it would have felt much more horrible.

Even then, It is very unjust that your father got robbed off his money.
My mother cheated with everyone. She married her current wife 13 years after the divorce.
 
I would never marry just for the sake of being married. Like many do, so they hate each other in dead bedroom. She would need to be respectful and obedient.
 
Exactly. Marriage in its current form is an utter disgrace—a derisive mockery of what it once was—and is highly disadvantageous for men. To marry, from the perspective of a man, is an irrational and foolish decision, for you would only be setting yourself up for disappointment, exploitation, and humiliation.

In the past, it used to be somewhat balanced, as the decision-making power and capability men possessed used to be more significant within a moderately patriarchal structure, and marriage was far more difficult to carry out pre no-fault divorce laws.

Contrastingly, in the present, the man holds no power whatsoever, the woman is prioritized and held to greater importance, and marriage can be destroyed at any moment through no-fault divorce. It is a contemptible one-sided contract that only serves to benefit gynocentric ideals as much as possible.

You sign your life, money, and freedom over, and she can leave at any moment with half your stuff and possibly your kids. Why would any sane man do that now?
 
You sign your life, money, and freedom over, and she can leave at any moment with half your stuff and possibly your kids
It’s more than half your stuff. She gets half your stuff when the divorce is finalized but then she gets alimony (spousal maintenance payments) which maintain the lifestyle she’s become accustomed to.

If she gets the kids diagnosed with a disability then she can get even higher payments (which is why so many single mother kids end up with psychiatric meds).


Women are scum.
 

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