Venting I still think about dumb ideas like marriage

[OverLoner]

I mean realistically idk what woman would want me to begin with. Sure I can lose weight which I've been doing but it's not like I can change my height, face, or personality. Honestly I don't think the personality thing really matters much though considering how chads treat women. Being nice is optional but I still like being nice I guess. Before anyone recommends stupid shit like surgery or smashing your face to make it look better those things can come with long term health issues. Not really interested in sacrificing my well being for women who wanted nothing to do with me.

But yeah even in an alternative universe where I didn't see escorts I'm still screwed. Women don't want old virgins or men who see prostitutes. I literally cannot win no matter what I do I think. Despite all this I still think about marriage and lately matching tattoo rings. I personally hate how marriage seems to be a joke today and I feel tattoo rings would be the measure of someone's commitment especially if they have no tattoos already. I generally find tattoos tacky but something with such deep meaning behind it makes it beautiful. That and they just seem better than regular rings? I mean sure getting a tattoo will hurt a bit but I prefer that over something I have to wear all the time and might get in the way. You can also never lose it.

 

[AutistSupremacist]

I've never seen a happy marriage in my immediate or extended family so I'd never bother pursuing it with anyone. Love is exclusively lust and economics based.

 

[OverLoner]

I've never seen a happy marriage in my immediate or extended family so I'd never bother pursuing it with anyone. Love is exclusively lust and economics based.

I was fortunate to see it with my parents. My father was a proper man and my mother is a proper woman. Bear in mind though they were together before the internet even existed along with all this gay shit to the point people can't even define what a man is or what a woman is. Minus the alcoholism I wish I could be like my father. Be in a relationship lasting 4 decades as he and my mom were together since they were 19 and they only parted when he died.

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

 

[SnakeCel]

I mean realistically idk what woman would want me to begin with. Sure I can lose weight which I've been doing but it's not like I can change my height, face, or personality. Honestly I don't think the personality thing really matters much though considering how chads treat women. Being nice is optional but I still like being nice I guess. Before anyone recommends stupid shit like surgery or smashing your face to make it look better those things can come with long term health issues. Not really interested in sacrificing my well being for women who wanted nothing to do with me.

But yeah even in an alternative universe where I didn't see escorts I'm still screwed. Women don't want old virgins or men who see prostitutes. I literally cannot win no matter what I do I think. Despite all this I still think about marriage and lately matching tattoo rings. I personally hate how marriage seems to be a joke today and I feel tattoo rings would be the measure of someone's commitment especially if they have no tattoos already. I generally find tattoos tacky but something with such deep meaning behind it makes it beautiful. That and they just seem better than regular rings? I mean sure getting a tattoo will hurt a bit but I prefer that over something I have to wear all the time and might get in the way. You can also never lose it.

Marriage and other cultural traditions are instituted in the very core of most cultures so it is normal to still think about them even if you are incel, as painful and as shitty as that is. It's unfortunate since we will probably never experience it. But maybe 100 years ago or even 50 years ago many of us would have been married by now and not be incels.

 

[TheRotKing]

I've never seen a happy marriage in my immediate or extended family so I'd never bother pursuing it with anyone. Love is exclusively lust and economics based.

 

[1shrexy]

I dont even think about marriage anymore, even at my wageslave work I asked each nd every married dude about their marriage experience, all of them said it is only good for first 2-3 years after that it becomes hell.

 

[AutismKing]

I mean realistically idk what woman would want me to begin with. Sure I can lose weight which I've been doing but it's not like I can change my height, face, or personality. Honestly I don't think the personality thing really matters much though considering how chads treat women. Being nice is optional but I still like being nice I guess. Before anyone recommends stupid shit like surgery or smashing your face to make it look better those things can come with long term health issues. Not really interested in sacrificing my well being for women who wanted nothing to do with me.

But yeah even in an alternative universe where I didn't see escorts I'm still screwed. Women don't want old virgins or men who see prostitutes. I literally cannot win no matter what I do I think. Despite all this I still think about marriage and lately matching tattoo rings. I personally hate how marriage seems to be a joke today and I feel tattoo rings would be the measure of someone's commitment especially if they have no tattoos already. I generally find tattoos tacky but something with such deep meaning behind it makes it beautiful. That and they just seem better than regular rings? I mean sure getting a tattoo will hurt a bit but I prefer that over something I have to wear all the time and might get in the way. You can also never lose it.

It is a normal desire mate. Being married, loved etc.
I don't think it is dumb, just hard or impossible for you.

I don't see escorts, but I understand why people cope with them. But they dont substitute for love of course