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GoldenSW
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- Joined
- Nov 13, 2021
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Hello fellow incels, finally made the courage to write my first post here.
I've recently realized something as a 24 year old guy. I honestly believe one of the main reasons I'm so depressed is that despite my repeated efforts over the years starting from 15 all I've had is rejection after rejection whether it was genuine interest in someone or trying to have sex.
I SWEAR I tried my best: experimented different ways of approaching women, went to the gym, wore nicer clothes and shoes, took better care of my skin, groomed my hair and beard, fixed my teeth and whitened them, perfume... you get the point. I can safely say there's little potential for more growth in this department so looksmaxxing was a massive waste of time and money. Learned my lesson and here I am. I guess I was just not born for this sort of thing - I'm constantly reminded of this when I see 14 year olds holding hands so casually on the street.
People say getting a girlfriend or having sex won't magically fix my issues, but I don't think they understand how fucking frustrating and hard it can get to suppress such a fundamental instinct we humans posses. I'm at a level of distress that I can't even properly masturbate anymore.
If I had to hire a professional it would be the final nail in the coffin for me. It would be like admitting that even when I tried my best, I wasn't enough for anyone without paying. How fucking sad is that.
I've recently realized something as a 24 year old guy. I honestly believe one of the main reasons I'm so depressed is that despite my repeated efforts over the years starting from 15 all I've had is rejection after rejection whether it was genuine interest in someone or trying to have sex.
I SWEAR I tried my best: experimented different ways of approaching women, went to the gym, wore nicer clothes and shoes, took better care of my skin, groomed my hair and beard, fixed my teeth and whitened them, perfume... you get the point. I can safely say there's little potential for more growth in this department so looksmaxxing was a massive waste of time and money. Learned my lesson and here I am. I guess I was just not born for this sort of thing - I'm constantly reminded of this when I see 14 year olds holding hands so casually on the street.
People say getting a girlfriend or having sex won't magically fix my issues, but I don't think they understand how fucking frustrating and hard it can get to suppress such a fundamental instinct we humans posses. I'm at a level of distress that I can't even properly masturbate anymore.
If I had to hire a professional it would be the final nail in the coffin for me. It would be like admitting that even when I tried my best, I wasn't enough for anyone without paying. How fucking sad is that.