Long-time inceldom destroyed my brains

[AutisticMonstrosity]

I can't get aroused any more by watching (amateur) sex videos. I can't get an erection. I try to force myself, but after a little time I open a new tab and start reading some shit (lately mostly this place). If I would have girlfriends like a normal person by this age, I would have no problem.

No, I don't have ED. I would not have any problems if I had a girl next to me that was into me.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

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[Fancy Alcoholic]

Porn is bad for mental health tbh. You should definitely stop it and maybe you'll get your erections back.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

Porn is bad for mental health tbh. You should definitely stop it and maybe you'll get your erections back.

There's no reason for me to stop watching porn as long as I have sexual desires (which I would want to not have). If I don't watch porn, there is no point in having erections any more. I don't think porn has been bad for my mental health. Probably the opposite. What if I would have not been able to ever watch porn? THAT would be bad.

I don't watch porn porn. Can't stand any studio/etc. industrial porn.

 

[Deleted member 28708]

Porn is bad for mental health tbh.

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

There's no reason for me to stop watching porn as long as I have sexual desires (which I would want to not have). If I don't watch porn, there is no point in having erections any more. I don't think porn has been bad for my mental health. Probably the opposite. What if I would have not been able to ever watch porn? THAT would be bad.

I don't watch porn porn. Can't stand any studio/etc. industrial porn.

I mean try to watch it a bit less. Equilibrium is all about moderation in good things.

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

crippled by lonely teen years

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

U need escort cel boyo

I agree, but it's too expensive for me and not readily available in my location. Also, I would get at least the human papilloma virus.

I mean try to watch it a bit less. Equilibrium is all about moderation in good things.

I already masturbate too infrequently. Would be better to masturbate more so that women would not be on my mind all the time.


I agree, I really should try a prostitute at this time. But I can't make the final decision. Too afraid to call. I fear embarrassing myself and failing the call. Too afraid to speak English on the phone: https://incels.is/threads/i-dont-have-the-skills-to-phone-an-escort.236155/
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(Later addition) Also, I have totally neglected my hobbies also. I can't think anything other than my situation (being OLD!!!).

 

[mänline]

What if I would have not been able to ever watch porn? THAT would be bad.

You asked last time and I didn't answer. When you only think about biological issues, then look at this:

Viewing porn shrinks the brain: Researchers find first possible link between viewing pornography and physical harm

The Max Planck Institute for Human Development in Berlin said this is the first direct link between pornography and a lack of motivation.

www.dailymail.co.uk

 

[LitVirgin]

I can't get aroused any more by watching (amateur) sex videos. I can't get an erection. I try to force myself, but after a little time I open a new tab and start reading some shit (lately mostly this place). If I would have girlfriends like a normal person by this age, I would have no problem.

No, I don't have ED. I would not have any problems if I had a girl next to me that was into me.

How would you test that theroy though only actually having it happen will let you know. My advice just take a break and try to do things that raise T like lifting and shit and try again.

 

[Mainländer]

Try some dopamine detox. Good luck, it seems hard af.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

You asked last time and I didn't answer. When you only think about biological issues, then look at this:

Viewing porn shrinks the brain: Researchers find first possible link between viewing pornography and physical harm

The Max Planck Institute for Human Development in Berlin said this is the first direct link between pornography and a lack of motivation.

www.dailymail.co.uk

I'll look into this later. But I don't think there's good reasons for me to stop watching even if brains would shrink and motivation lessens. I have good motivation but not the means to achieve what I want.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Inceldom destroys the brain

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

Try some dopamine detox. Good luck, it seems hard af.

What for is this dopamine detox? To what problem?

I don't have any difficulty achieving erection if I dream that some woman wants me. I get them too easily (e.g. when washing my penis). I always wake up with an erection. But the last half a year I fail at watching "porn" and masturbating (starting it). Maybe because I am too sad seeing what I can't ever get.

Inceldom destroys the brain

I agree.

 

[Mainländer]

What for is this dopamine detox? To what problem?

Not getting aroused or climaxing as easily as before.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

Not getting aroused or climaxing as easily as before.

I climax way too easily and prematurely.

 

[Mainländer]

I climax way too easily and prematurely.

You don't get aorused or an erection but have premature ejaculation at the same time?

 

[Subhuman100]

Inceldom destroys the brain

 

[PPEcel]

No, I don't have ED. I would not have any problems if I had a girl next to me that was into me.

How do you know that?

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

You don't get aorused or an erection but have premature ejaculation at the same time?

When I have an erection (which subsides VERY quickly also, that is a premature ejaculation trait also) if I take my penis out and start masturbating (I do that always VERY SLOWLY, (I get a shock when I see others masturbating or someone doing a handjob because how quickly they move the foreskin) barely even moving my foreskin), I will cum in 10-30 seconds if not edging. Basically the orgasm/ejaculation process starts almost immediately. The problem lately is that I don't even take the penis out because I am losing focus and switch to non-porn browser tab. Then back to the porn (having lost the half-erection) and the same cycle occurs again and again. I lose erection very rapidly. And many times I did not start touching my penis because I did not have the full erection/arousal, probably because I was half-crying that it's just pixels on the screen and I won't ever have that in real life and even if I had, I am already too old to experience a woman in her prime age.

I have this: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5001987/

I wrote that I don't have ED, but getting erections is definitely harder than it used to be. I used to get erections with the thought only that soon I will enter a pornsite, in anticipation only, even before seeing anything. I think I still get erections way too easily and rapidly, because of the genetic, lifelong premature ejaculation condition. I almost always wake up with an erection.

When I was on an SSRI I lasted 1-2 minutes and could probably last more if I had taken a bigger dose. I am very jealous of normies, but this is a decent cope also: even if I was good-looking, I could not enjoy sex. But I am of course hungry for intimacy, skin contact, kissing etc. And I want children (only daughters) also.

How do you know that?

That is my best guess.

How do you know that?

Never been in a situation like that, but I guess I would be so enthusiastic, eager, excited that I would not have any problems having an erection. Maybe I would faint because it would be so unreal situation that I would not believe it to be true. I probably would have teardrops.