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Discussion Knowing What You Know About Women Based On The Black Pill, Why Would You Even Want To Be In A Relationship With One? (Don't You See A Contradiction?)

There's probably some country like that, but I don't know of any where girls under the age of 18 can prostitute themselves. Either way why take that chance. There's more than enough young asian women that look younger than 18 that are whores. You can get the same enjoyment of neoteny without any of the legal risk.
Do those young asian adult women, that look like JBs, have tight pussies like JBs do?
Fuck buddies are people that BOTH want to fuck eachother, you are paying for sex.

Some of these questions you are asking makes you look like a delusional coper, because the answer is obvious if you just admit to yourself what you're doing.

The whore is prey and you are a predator, you are exploiting her lack of resources, and in some sense she's a predator too and exploiting your lack of sex.

This is not a mutual or "friendly" interaction, it's a business transaction.


"Nature taking it's course" is that woman never even talking to you lol.

Please don't go into the world of prostitution with "delusions", you are reminding me of this thread I made:

You are being dishonest with yourself right now.

The woman you are having sex with is disgusted by you and doesn't want to be near you at all, what you're doing isn't "natural" in any sense to her, you are trading money for sex, you are in essence circumventing her natural instincts to reject you because she's desperate for money.

The time limit exists because she wants the time limit and she wants more money.

REMEMBER, THIS IS A BUSINESS TRANSACTION, NOT "TWO ADULTS ENJOYING EACHOTHERS TIME" (DON'T START COPING AND BEING DELUDED).

If whores don't impose a time limit it wouldn't make sense to them.

They don't want to be near us much more have our dick inside them.
I'm well aware that prostitution is a business transaction, I'm referencing fuck buddies as a reference to why people may want a relationship. Obviously being an incel it's not within the realm of possibility, but that could theoretically be why you want a relationship.

The answer I suppose is "get over it, accept you won't get that kind of sex, either pay for it or die a virgin"
 
All relationships are transactional

I just wouldn’t mind just treating the foid like an object
 
Don't be disingenuous

"Science" isn't a belief system either, and yet anyone will assert that if someone thinks the earth is flat "they don't believe in science", their belief is based on faith.
I'm not being disingenuous, nor did I claim that science is a belief system either. It isn't. It's en empirical and inductive methodology. Anyone who says that they "believe in science" is also saying something that's nonsense.

Also, something being a set of logical conclusions and that thing being something you "believe" in, are not mutually exclusive. I don't know where you got that.
But they are mutually exclusive. Strictly in a formal sense, what you conclude through reasoning, whether it's a posteriori or a priori, is in a separate category from the things you believe i.e., your personal beliefs. Your beliefs don't necessarily require the rigor of reason (if you're a high level reasoner, then you would have defensible reasons on rational grounds for all or most of the things you believe). You have them because of feelings and idealizations. They make you feel good, moral, and/or superior, and they are formed by some ideal you hold dear e.g., "I believe littering is wrong and nobody should litter." You can ask for the reasons behind any such belief, but reason is not a prerequisite for personal belief, at a basic level. On the other side, you can reason through something and come to a logical conclusion without believing in it. This doesn't mean that you reject the truth of the conclusion, but you may be compelled to disagree for other reasons that may not be logical or rational e.g., "I know what he did was wrong, but he's my brother and I can't turn him in and believe it's wrong for family members to do such a thing to each other."

This is not semantics. This is functionally how we operate.
 
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Regular sex, need for companion, need for home cleaning etc.
 
Mandatory bump. This should be stickied.
 
literally said "outside of sex" (because if you just wanted sex, you could pay for it)

2. The affection isn't "genuine", and how the fuck could you even feel like any interaction with a woman is "affectionate" when you know what they are?
Agreed very based
 
You have to take into account foid’s own ratings of you. Golden rule: if they are not attracted to you as they are for CHAD don’t even bother. Reminder that Chads are also local and don’t necessarily need model-tier looks to get up to Stacylites.:feelsmusic:
 
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I'M TALKING ABOUT OUTSIDE OF SEX (BECAUSE YOU CAN PAY FOR THAT)

Why do you want to specifically be in a "romantic" relationship with a woman outside of gaining access to sex?

I'm seriously asking this question, because I see so many incels say that they want to "be in a relationship" and they don't really "care about sex".

I think that's contradictory IF you actually assert you believe in the black pill.


I only ever wanted to have a GF/Wife and Children (in the past) when I thought women were all kind, loving, etc based on the blue pilled beliefs I had.

After being black pilled my inherent disgust for "the human experience" stripped away any desire to want to take part.

For me it was like - "Why would I want a relationship with a "being" like this" and "why would I want to bring children into a world like this".

My desire for a "romantic relationship" was completely dependent on the blue pilled beliefs I was raised to have ACTUALLY BEING TRUE.

Once they were PROVEN TO BE FALSE all those desires were slowly stripped away with time.



So this is my point.

If I know that women are beings who:
  • Primarily value men for their utility
  • Treat average and below average men like trash
  • Often divorce men for their wealth and treat men like wallets
  • Are selfish and prioritize themselves and their own "in group" (other women) over the human collective
  • Lack self-awareness and lack the ability to rationalize and make decisions logically
  • Are often erratic, emotional and violent
  • Will use the children we have together as leverage and a bargaining chip to manipulate and torment me
  • Will use sex for the purposes of black mail and as a bargaining chip once they can monopolize it within a relationship
  • Etc, etc, etc
WHY THE FUCK WOULD I STILL SEE ANY VALUE IN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN?



Take cuddling for example, a very intimate and non-sexual romantic interaction

Will you really feel all that happy cuddling with someone that you KNOW is only with you because you are "the best she can get" and would probably leave you the moment she can get someone better?

That kinda takes away the whole "mushy feeling" aspect of such an interaction for me lol

I seriously think you have to be delusional and in denial to not get what I'm saying

If you somehow manage to "ascend" one day, the person you are so "lovingly" cuddling up with is:

  • Someone who rates around 80% men as not attractive enough (and you just barely made the mark, or she just see's you as a useful provider)
  • 70% likely to initiate a divorce if you were married, and the most common reason for that based on stats are FINANCIAL REASONS (see's you as a utility)
  • Someone who has a 33% increased likelihood of divorcing you if she starts making more money in her career
  • Very likely to cheat on you if given the chance because there is always a better option
  • Likely to experience arousal and sexual attraction towards any man that were to beat you up in front of her
  • Not even remotely "pure" or a virgin, and spent most of younger years whoring herself out, doing sex acts that she probably denies you
  • Statistically more likely to be attracted to men who are already in a relationship with another woman (Check the Scientific Black Pill in the Wiki)
  • Statistically more likely to leave the relationship and/or cheat if she thinks she's more attractive than you (Check the Scientific Black Pill in the Wiki)
  • Etc, etc, etc
Doesn't that take away from the whole "warm and fuzzy" experience for you?

I know it does for me, so this is what confuses me when it comes to a lot of other incels.

Do you guys just conveniently repress those thoughts and pretend this reality doesn't exist when you imagine yourself cuddling with your GF?



Here are some quotes from the study listed as the last point:
Fugère MA, Cousins AJ, MacLaren SA. 2015. (Mis)matching in physical attractiveness and women's resistance to mate guarding. Personality and Individual Differences. 87: 190-195 [Abstract]




CAN YOU REALLY SEE YOURSELF "BEING ALL LOVEY DOVEY" WITH AN INDIVIDUAL THAT THINKS AND OPERATES LIKE THIS?

I'M SERIOUS

I CANNOT COMPREHEND THE THOUGHTS OF INCELS THAT CLAIM THEY STILL WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN

IT IS INCONCEIVABLE TO ME


ITS CONTRADICTORY TO ME

If its for sex I understand completely, but once again, if its for sex, YOU CAN JUST PAY FOR THAT

So the only reason to be in a relationship is for "genuine romantic interactions"

BUT WHAT THE FUCK IS REALLY "GENUINE" ABOUT INTERACTIONS WITH SOMEONE WHO THINKS AND ACTS LIKE THIS?

They don't have your best interest and at best you are a comfy stepping stool on their way towards better things



THE INTERACTION IS BY DEFINITION NEVER "GENUINE" UNLESS YOU ARE AT THE PEAK OF ATTRACTIVENESS (WHICH YOU AREN'T AND NEVER WILL BE)

THERE IS ALWAYS THE IMPLICATION THAT YOU ARE JUST A TEMPORARY TOOL FOR UTILITY UNTIL SOMETHING BETTER COMES ALONG

IT IS NOTHING BUT DELUSION TO ACT AS IF ANY "LOVE" OR "GENUINE ROMANCE" CAN TAKE PLACE UNDER SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES
I'M TALKING ABOUT OUTSIDE OF SEX (BECAUSE YOU CAN PAY FOR THAT)

Why do you want to specifically be in a "romantic" relationship with a woman outside of gaining access to sex?

I'm seriously asking this question, because I see so many incels say that they want to "be in a relationship" and they don't really "care about sex".

I think that's contradictory IF you actually assert you believe in the black pill.


I only ever wanted to have a GF/Wife and Children (in the past) when I thought women were all kind, loving, etc based on the blue pilled beliefs I had.

After being black pilled my inherent disgust for "the human experience" stripped away any desire to want to take part.

For me it was like - "Why would I want a relationship with a "being" like this" and "why would I want to bring children into a world like this".

My desire for a "romantic relationship" was completely dependent on the blue pilled beliefs I was raised to have ACTUALLY BEING TRUE.

Once they were PROVEN TO BE FALSE all those desires were slowly stripped away with time.



So this is my point.

If I know that women are beings who:
  • Primarily value men for their utility
  • Treat average and below average men like trash
  • Often divorce men for their wealth and treat men like wallets
  • Are selfish and prioritize themselves and their own "in group" (other women) over the human collective
  • Lack self-awareness and lack the ability to rationalize and make decisions logically
  • Are often erratic, emotional and violent
  • Will use the children we have together as leverage and a bargaining chip to manipulate and torment me
  • Will use sex for the purposes of black mail and as a bargaining chip once they can monopolize it within a relationship
  • Etc, etc, etc
WHY THE FUCK WOULD I STILL SEE ANY VALUE IN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN?



Take cuddling for example, a very intimate and non-sexual romantic interaction

Will you really feel all that happy cuddling with someone that you KNOW is only with you because you are "the best she can get" and would probably leave you the moment she can get someone better?

That kinda takes away the whole "mushy feeling" aspect of such an interaction for me lol

I seriously think you have to be delusional and in denial to not get what I'm saying

If you somehow manage to "ascend" one day, the person you are so "lovingly" cuddling up with is:

  • Someone who rates around 80% men as not attractive enough (and you just barely made the mark, or she just see's you as a useful provider)
  • 70% likely to initiate a divorce if you were married, and the most common reason for that based on stats are FINANCIAL REASONS (see's you as a utility)
  • Someone who has a 33% increased likelihood of divorcing you if she starts making more money in her career
  • Very likely to cheat on you if given the chance because there is always a better option
  • Likely to experience arousal and sexual attraction towards any man that were to beat you up in front of her
  • Not even remotely "pure" or a virgin, and spent most of younger years whoring herself out, doing sex acts that she probably denies you
  • Statistically more likely to be attracted to men who are already in a relationship with another woman (Check the Scientific Black Pill in the Wiki)
  • Statistically more likely to leave the relationship and/or cheat if she thinks she's more attractive than you (Check the Scientific Black Pill in the Wiki)
  • Etc, etc, etc
Doesn't that take away from the whole "warm and fuzzy" experience for you?

I know it does for me, so this is what confuses me when it comes to a lot of other incels.

Do you guys just conveniently repress those thoughts and pretend this reality doesn't exist when you imagine yourself cuddling with your GF?



Here are some quotes from the study listed as the last point:
Fugère MA, Cousins AJ, MacLaren SA. 2015. (Mis)matching in physical attractiveness and women's resistance to mate guarding. Personality and Individual Differences. 87: 190-195 [Abstract]




CAN YOU REALLY SEE YOURSELF "BEING ALL LOVEY DOVEY" WITH AN INDIVIDUAL THAT THINKS AND OPERATES LIKE THIS?

I'M SERIOUS

I CANNOT COMPREHEND THE THOUGHTS OF INCELS THAT CLAIM THEY STILL WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN

IT IS INCONCEIVABLE TO ME


ITS CONTRADICTORY TO ME

If its for sex I understand completely, but once again, if its for sex, YOU CAN JUST PAY FOR THAT

So the only reason to be in a relationship is for "genuine romantic interactions"

BUT WHAT THE FUCK IS REALLY "GENUINE" ABOUT INTERACTIONS WITH SOMEONE WHO THINKS AND ACTS LIKE THIS?

They don't have your best interest and at best you are a comfy stepping stool on their way towards better things



THE INTERACTION IS BY DEFINITION NEVER "GENUINE" UNLESS YOU ARE AT THE PEAK OF ATTRACTIVENESS (WHICH YOU AREN'T AND NEVER WILL BE)

THERE IS ALWAYS THE IMPLICATION THAT YOU ARE JUST A TEMPORARY TOOL FOR UTILITY UNTIL SOMETHING BETTER COMES ALONG

IT IS NOTHING BUT DELUSION TO ACT AS IF ANY "LOVE" OR "GENUINE ROMANCE" CAN TAKE PLACE UNDER SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES
I’m not reading all that, and I don’t want to be friends with a woman that’s retarded. Maybe a romantic relationship if ever possible but that’s it .
 
I could nevER be in a relationship with a woman unless I was getting sex on demand, but that wouldn’t come for free as you pointed out, because I’d definitely have to be a betabuxx/wallet for hER to use to pay hER bills.

It’s just not worth it. I’d rather masturbate and fuck an escort now and then

I have physical attraction towards women, but my mental repulsion towards them is much strongER.
 
I'M TALKING ABOUT OUTSIDE OF SEX (BECAUSE YOU CAN PAY FOR THAT)

Why do you want to specifically be in a "romantic" relationship with a woman outside of gaining access to sex?

I'm seriously asking this question, because I see so many incels say that they want to "be in a relationship" and they don't really "care about sex".

I think that's contradictory IF you actually assert you believe in the black pill.


I only ever wanted to have a GF/Wife and Children (in the past) when I thought women were all kind, loving, etc based on the blue pilled beliefs I had.

After being black pilled my inherent disgust for "the human experience" stripped away any desire to want to take part.

For me it was like - "Why would I want a relationship with a "being" like this" and "why would I want to bring children into a world like this".

My desire for a "romantic relationship" was completely dependent on the blue pilled beliefs I was raised to have ACTUALLY BEING TRUE.

Once they were PROVEN TO BE FALSE all those desires were slowly stripped away with time.



So this is my point.

If I know that women are beings who:
  • Primarily value men for their utility
  • Treat average and below average men like trash
  • Often divorce men for their wealth and treat men like wallets
  • Are selfish and prioritize themselves and their own "in group" (other women) over the human collective
  • Lack self-awareness and lack the ability to rationalize and make decisions logically
  • Are often erratic, emotional and violent
  • Will use the children we have together as leverage and a bargaining chip to manipulate and torment me
  • Will use sex for the purposes of black mail and as a bargaining chip once they can monopolize it within a relationship
  • Etc, etc, etc
WHY THE FUCK WOULD I STILL SEE ANY VALUE IN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN?



Take cuddling for example, a very intimate and non-sexual romantic interaction

Will you really feel all that happy cuddling with someone that you KNOW is only with you because you are "the best she can get" and would probably leave you the moment she can get someone better?

That kinda takes away the whole "mushy feeling" aspect of such an interaction for me lol

I seriously think you have to be delusional and in denial to not get what I'm saying

If you somehow manage to "ascend" one day, the person you are so "lovingly" cuddling up with is:

  • Someone who rates around 80% men as not attractive enough (and you just barely made the mark, or she just see's you as a useful provider)
  • 70% likely to initiate a divorce if you were married, and the most common reason for that based on stats are FINANCIAL REASONS (see's you as a utility)
  • Someone who has a 33% increased likelihood of divorcing you if she starts making more money in her career
  • Very likely to cheat on you if given the chance because there is always a better option
  • Likely to experience arousal and sexual attraction towards any man that were to beat you up in front of her
  • Not even remotely "pure" or a virgin, and spent most of younger years whoring herself out, doing sex acts that she probably denies you
  • Statistically more likely to be attracted to men who are already in a relationship with another woman (Check the Scientific Black Pill in the Wiki)
  • Statistically more likely to leave the relationship and/or cheat if she thinks she's more attractive than you (Check the Scientific Black Pill in the Wiki)
  • Etc, etc, etc
Doesn't that take away from the whole "warm and fuzzy" experience for you?

I know it does for me, so this is what confuses me when it comes to a lot of other incels.

Do you guys just conveniently repress those thoughts and pretend this reality doesn't exist when you imagine yourself cuddling with your GF?



Here are some quotes from the study listed as the last point:
Fugère MA, Cousins AJ, MacLaren SA. 2015. (Mis)matching in physical attractiveness and women's resistance to mate guarding. Personality and Individual Differences. 87: 190-195 [Abstract]




CAN YOU REALLY SEE YOURSELF "BEING ALL LOVEY DOVEY" WITH AN INDIVIDUAL THAT THINKS AND OPERATES LIKE THIS?

I'M SERIOUS

I CANNOT COMPREHEND THE THOUGHTS OF INCELS THAT CLAIM THEY STILL WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN

IT IS INCONCEIVABLE TO ME


ITS CONTRADICTORY TO ME

If its for sex I understand completely, but once again, if its for sex, YOU CAN JUST PAY FOR THAT

So the only reason to be in a relationship is for "genuine romantic interactions"

BUT WHAT THE FUCK IS REALLY "GENUINE" ABOUT INTERACTIONS WITH SOMEONE WHO THINKS AND ACTS LIKE THIS?

They don't have your best interest and at best you are a comfy stepping stool on their way towards better things



THE INTERACTION IS BY DEFINITION NEVER "GENUINE" UNLESS YOU ARE AT THE PEAK OF ATTRACTIVENESS (WHICH YOU AREN'T AND NEVER WILL BE)

THERE IS ALWAYS THE IMPLICATION THAT YOU ARE JUST A TEMPORARY TOOL FOR UTILITY UNTIL SOMETHING BETTER COMES ALONG

IT IS NOTHING BUT DELUSION TO ACT AS IF ANY "LOVE" OR "GENUINE ROMANCE" CAN TAKE PLACE UNDER SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES
This is a good post and I get your meaning but the solution is clearly that men need to collectively acknowledge these things about women and then establish a society where women have their powers restrained somewhat so that they can't selfishly wreck men's lives and broader society around them through their destructive tendencies.

Society used to basically be like this where women had their choices restrained somewhat for the greater good. And no I don't say that hypocritically, men have always had our more pernicious tendencies restrained for the greater good too (violence/rape) and we still do.

In the past men understood that men and women are different, are better suited to different tasks in society, and that men need to be the leaders and honestly kind of treat women like children instead of equals. They're very good at what they used to do -- e.g. Raise kids, tend to the home. And honestly that role is way way way easier than working a soul crushing 9-5 for the man. Women also need to have their divorce rape powers curtailed and there needs to be some kind of standard where both partners are obligated to have sex with their spouse. No using sex as a weapon, no denying sex from your partner long form, etc.

The best surgeons are mostly men, the best computer scientists are mostly men, almost all engineers are men and when they DEI hire them bridges collapse, almost all the people doing the "dirty jobs" that hold society together like plumbing/construction/welding/manufacturing are men. Men crush women into the ground both in physical sports, but also in mental sports like e-sports or chess. It's not even close if you look at the results. But nobody does that and I unironically had a family member tell me I was wrong about the chess example because "DON'T YOU KNOW ABOUT QUEEN'S GAMBIT!!!". This retard boomer didn't even know that story is fake.

Modern society is built on the false premise that men and women are equal and we never were. We are inherently different and better suited to different types of tasks in a functioning society. People are fucking miserable in the current west and it's because we abandoned these basic traditional norms and now most young men are bombing in society with no spouse and no prospect for what were basic achievements historically (a home, spouse, children, a decent job). Women are all on drugs/SSRIs and they hate their lives too lmao. Most of them hate having "real jobs" unless they're lucky and landed a fake cushy office job where they don't have to do anything (some do get lucky here especially with all the affirmative action hiring that's happened).
 
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