I don't think we should not tolerate current incels that maybe got a blowjob in the past and now have been 10 years without close affection.
Being an incel is a tag that every male can identify in my opinion, because most males can't get sex whenever they want it, only chads can. So 80% of males are potential incels.
it doesn't matter if you can only have sex like once a month or something in my opinion.
Of course there are degrees of inceldom: truecels vs incels who can only have sex once a month. But we should be on the same boat, basically persons who can't obtain sex whenever they want it.
There are cases and cases: a betabuxx who only gets starfish sex once a month can be considered incel.
This is not a competition on who gets less sex, that's stupid, is about feeling together about the fact that pussy is too damn difficult to fuck.
My personal case: I am an escortcel that fucks twice a year, never had a real relationship or love, can I be considered incel? for me, sure as hell I am.