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That. I'm in a Discord "incel" group that there is a guy that said that he had a gf and had sex with her. Now she consider himself incel because the last 5 years he haven't interacted with women.

Should i tell him to fucking get out ?
 
Obviously not
 
Every single incel community should be gatekeeped relentlessly against anyone who isn't a KHHV.

Else you don't stand for anything at all.
 
Sounds like a cucked relationship prolly betabuxx
 
That. I'm in a Discord "incel" group that there is a guy that said that he had a gf and had sex with her. Now she consider himself incel because the last 5 years he haven't interacted with women.

Should i tell him to fucking get out ?
Tell him that there are other sites for that like BlackpillClub or *** - there the rules are more laxative and the places are still based. Low-tier normies and nearcels are tolerated there as long as they don't brag. And yes, he is a mogger compared to anyone here and doesn't belong here, but it is still possible to never find a relationship again (like the case of Sodini shows). Maybe one day a separate site for people like him is created so that he can find his community.
 
Tell him that there are other sites for that like BlackpillClub or *** - there the rules are more laxative and the places are still based. Low-tier normies and nearcels are tolerated there as long as they don't brag. And yes, he is a mogger compared to anyone here and doesn't belong here, but it is still possible to never find a relationship again (like the case of Sodini shows). Maybe one day a separate site for people like him is created so that he can find his community.
 
Idk it depends on the scenario. If a guy lucked out with an ugly gf in high school then went bald young and became a full-on incel then I would say that’s fine.

Rly a case by case basis tbh.
 
Idk it depends on the scenario. If a guy lucked out with an ugly gf in high school then went bald young and became a full-on incel then I would say that’s fine.

Rly a case by case basis tbh.
This imo. What if he could previously be considered an incel but lucked out and ascended, but then the relationship got fucked? Kinda hard to replicate that for an incel
 
If a guy can’t get voluntary non paid sex from a woman any longer even though he got it in the past then yes he is technically an incel or at least a type of incel.

Understandably much of our community doesn’t like these types being allowed among us or considered a part of us for various reasons of jealousy and or the perfectly valid idea that such a person hasn’t suffered the same as the rest of us and therefore doesn’t belong in the incel community or because allowing such people in along with escortcels opens a can of worms or gets onto that slippery slope where anyone at all can start identifying as incel and joining the new “cool” counter culture just to be or appear different or edgy and this of course could lead to Chad and Stacy as well regular normies infiltrating the community and before long the site will be ruined like Wizchan with over moderation and tone policing as a result of the appointing of female and fag moderators.

Solution? Allow certain prior sexhaver types in the community but make it clear they need to identify themselves as nearcels.
 
Absolutely NOT!
I would urge the mods to wake up from the slumber, gatekeep properly and kick these sex having bastards.
A girl hasnt even hugged or kissed me in these virgin 22 years of life and this asshole is talking about GF and sex!
Gtfo normie piece of shit!
 
If he got to have sex without paying, he’s not incel
 
He is a fakecel. Kick his ass out.
 
Saying incel who have had sex is like saying dry water
 
I don't think we should not tolerate current incels that maybe got a blowjob in the past and now have been 10 years without close affection.

Being an incel is a tag that every male can identify in my opinion, because most males can't get sex whenever they want it, only chads can. So 80% of males are potential incels.

it doesn't matter if you can only have sex like once a month or something in my opinion.

Of course there are degrees of inceldom: truecels vs incels who can only have sex once a month. But we should be on the same boat, basically persons who can't obtain sex whenever they want it.

There are cases and cases: a betabuxx who only gets starfish sex once a month can be considered incel.

This is not a competition on who gets less sex, that's stupid, is about feeling together about the fact that pussy is too damn difficult to fuck.

My personal case: I am an escortcel that fucks twice a year, never had a real relationship or love, can I be considered incel? for me, sure as hell I am.
 
Tell him to kill himself
 
and this is why i dont use any so called " incel " discord, full of fakecel fucks
 
That. I'm in a Discord "incel" group that there is a guy that said that he had a gf and had sex with her. Now she consider himself incel because the last 5 years he haven't interacted with women.

Should i tell him to fucking get out ?
No, because if he did it once he could replicate it again. GFs dont work like lotteries. Either you are a sexhaver and enjoy all the benefits (such as the ability to get a GF), or you're not.
 
Depends on the circumstances. If he's balding, yeah, incel.
 
Not incel. Incel refers to a specific set of involuntary celibates, lifelong ones.

But the term involuntary celibacy was originally for people past their prime who couldn't get laid anymore. Basically male divorcees without money and post-wall roasties who weren't attracted to their remaining options. It wasn't called involuntary virginity instead because it wasn't just referring to virgins.

However dating shifts later pushed large groups of men out of the game entirely, so actual virgins overwhelmed the community.
 
Another day on sexhavers.co
 
That. I'm in a Discord "incel" group that there is a guy that said that he had a gf and had sex with her. Now she consider himself incel because the last 5 years he haven't interacted with women.

Should i tell him to fucking get out ?
I would say it's possible they're a very low tier normie / below average male perhaps which is still pretty bad, but probably not in the camp of incel given they were at least able to land a girl once and get laid at least in the past.

A lot of guys are in that boat where they had to move high hell and water to get that opportunity and I'd still say they might have it pretty rough in some cases, but there's still a gap between a virgin or whore-only incel and a one timer would be my stance.

I mean, if they wanna lurk or participate here then they just should keep their mouth shut as people will perceive it as bragging. I'd imagine it's certainly possible for a low tier normie to blackpilled after all, but that's just me -- I could be wrong so, eh
 
Yeah many guys can get lucky once or a few times but then some shit happens like they lose their hair or become very isolated and they become incel.
 
Just tell him to go on a looksmaxx discord, they'll probably take him
 
How ''considerate'' of him to humble brag about having sex and a girlfriend in a group of seemingly virgin men.

Answer is no. I know there are guys that as they get old they lose their attractaviness and may end in a dead bedroom, divorce rape and having no options but to betabuxx a cheating landwhale roastie, but they are still not incels. Ultimately you can't compare someone that had sex multiple times and overall better life quality than an incel, they are different.

Tell that faggot to get out and get pity somewhere else. Discord is full of fakecels and larpers.
 
Fakecels get out.
 
no not really, he just needs to replicate the experience that led him to get the first relationship so he can get another one

truecels like me never receive signs of interest from women
But u are like 16, you are literally a child that hasn't interacted with the other gender at all
 
No, if you could get a hole once you can get her twice and should gtfo of incel spaces
and this is why i dont use any so called " incel " discord, full of fakecel fucks
:yes:
 
I don't think we should not tolerate current incels that maybe got a blowjob in the past and now have been 10 years without close affection.

Being an incel is a tag that every male can identify in my opinion, because most males can't get sex whenever they want it, only chads can. So 80% of males are potential incels.

it doesn't matter if you can only have sex like once a month or something in my opinion.

Of course there are degrees of inceldom: truecels vs incels who can only have sex once a month. But we should be on the same boat, basically persons who can't obtain sex whenever they want it.

There are cases and cases: a betabuxx who only gets starfish sex once a month can be considered incel.

This is not a competition on who gets less sex, that's stupid, is about feeling together about the fact that pussy is too damn difficult to fuck.

My personal case: I am an escortcel that fucks twice a year, never had a real relationship or love, can I be considered incel? for me, sure as hell I am.
Fuck off you stupid normie piece of shit. Being an incel is never getting to hug or kiss a girl let alone have sex. You normie fuckers are ruining this forum and diluting the true nature of inceldom. I am 22 yr old kissless , hugless virgin I dont even remeber the last time i talked to a girl besides my sister and this normie fag is trying to include escortcels and those who have sex once a month in the definition. Kindly keep you retarded opinions to yourself.
 
hugless virgin
Don't let bluepillers tell you otherwise, free hugs are like heaven, compared to any drug/videogames/ánime or other incels copes
 
This is against popular incel opinion, but yeah I do think in your whole life you can have 1 girlfriend at some point or have had sex and still deal with what incels deal with. Having that doesnt cure or fix all the other stuff you go through. Unless you are currently with someone that makes you happy.

Like I posted last night, cassady campbell the youtuber gets rejected in all his videos , even if hes doing characters hes still trying. And women treat him like shit and reject him. Is he a virgin ? No. Actually he found a asian girl because of money and status.
 
Fuck off you stupid normie piece of shit. Being an incel is never getting to hug or kiss a girl let alone have sex. You normie fuckers are ruining this forum and diluting the true nature of inceldom. I am 22 yr old kissless , hugless virgin I dont even remeber the last time i talked to a girl besides my sister and this normie fag is trying to include escortcels and those who have sex once a month in the definition. Kindly keep you retarded opinions to yourself.
Escortcelling is a cope bro, it doesn't cure inceldom because it doesn't give you love, ofc an escortcel can be an incel, retard.

You're basically saying that a if fat 50yo poor jaw-recesed man fucks an escort he is no longer an incel? :feelshaha:

You can fuck an escort and by what you said in the bold text, you say you are not still an incel by definition?

Yeah I apologize when I said that a husband who has sex once a month is an incel, I mean, he does get some sex, but he sure as hell is craving more sex but can't have it, that makes him involuntary celibate for that period of time, retard.

You put the definition of being an incel into "A man who never has had sex in his life" but then what about failed normies who are depressed and can't have sex for like 20 years?

The wall is too thick.
 
If you've had a foid interested enough to fuck you, you're a fakecel.
 
Every single incel community should be gatekeeped relentlessly against anyone who isn't a KHHV.

Else you don't stand for anything at all.
I held my mom's hand when crossing the road when I was 5. Does that make me chad?
 
What the fuck are those replies
 
what if a normie completely loses his looks in an accident and ends up deformed, still fakecel?
 
Yes, he is. Luck and outliers do happen. Also, what if he had normie looks but lost them when got older? He would be an incel.

If you are INVOLUNTARILY celibate, you are an incel per definition. Of course, we have to be reasonable or Chad could be called an incel id he spends 5 hours without being able to fuck a stacy.

But if you have 1year+ willing and unable to get sex and it bothers you and cant continiously replicate success, then you are an incel.
 

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