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It's Over Incel trait: You can't maintain eye contact.

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Basically the title. Personally I can't really maintain eye contact for more than 10 seconds before forgetting I exist so I can put all my effort into looking at their faces and trying to not look more weird. If I do maintain for more time, then I'm not really listening at what they are saying to me. This sometimes even happens with my family. I just can't. Fuckass social anxiety man.
 
Most of the time I would look away and shit
 
I have to remind myself to look them in the eyes and not make random quick movements
 
It feels like they're starting at my soul
 
If I try to force it I end up staring for too long and I look like a psycho. There really is no winning :feelsrope:
 
Eye contact is just completly confusing and weird if youre not naturally able to follow the "rules" of it
 
I would rather not do it but when you need to just hold the left or right eye.
 
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I also can't maintain it normally. I can stare at their eyes but I think most people don't like it
 
If you are ugly man giving them eye contact they look away like fuck normies man fuck what they say I don't give people eye contact anymore because they ain't shot in my eyes
 
It's a catch 22. Either you avoid eye contact and get gaslit about being a pussy with no social skills, or you maintain eye contact and get gaslit about being a creep with no social skills. and on the off chance that you have adequate neurotypicality to maintain the right mix of eye contact despite being ugly, they'll just find something else wrong with you.
 
All I ever can think about when maintaining eye contact is the eye contact itself. That's why I also fail any presentation and stare into the void when presentating.
 
I hate eye contact because it makes me realise someone is looking at my ugly face
 
Autism trait.
And autism = inceldom
 
Gaze into my eyes and witness despair
 
It's a catch 22. Either you avoid eye contact and get gaslit about being a pussy with no social skills, or you maintain eye contact and get gaslit about being a creep with no social skills. and on the off chance that you have adequate neurotypicality to maintain the right mix of eye contact despite being ugly, they'll just find something else wrong with you.
Brutal
 
I forget the last time I looked someone in the eyes at a restaurant.
 
its a reminder that we are all cowards. We are all just total cowards that can't even look a motherfucker in the eye, because we are afraid the other person will look into our soul and see nothing worth an iota of a respect, so why even bother
 
Feels off doesn’t it
 
i used to struggle with this but i eventually got over it, with people i know, but with women i would only avert my gaze if i feel like they are judging my face
 
I've never had eye contact with anyone in my life
 
My father would beat me because I was unable to do that shit as a kid. I also don't think it's necessarily autism as other people are saying, because I'm positive I'm not autistic.
 
I just stare harder until they look away.
 
That's why i prefer to use sunglasses a whole year. No one could tell if i'm looking or not.
 

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