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It's Over I can't make eye contact

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I avoid eye contact out of fear. I am afraid that if I look at someone in the eyes they will see how weak and pathetic I am in my eyes. I am most of all afraid I will notice how much they hate me. How much they are disgusted by me. I dont want to take the risk of looking someone in the eye and noticing and them noticing me in turn. Eye contact is a game a chicken, or like some kind of duel that is unnecessarily hostile. Normies should not take it personally that autists like me don't like eye contact.

This is why we need AI. So we can trust machines that don't personally hate you. Humans in contrast can personally hate you and even bully you.

People who make eye contact are wild that they can look people in the eye, because it's almost like they don't fear the consequences of what it's like to make body language mistakes.

You know the japanese are autistic as fuck that they literally have a greeting Yoroshiku onegaishimasu (よろしくお願いします)-- it means at its most literal, "please be kind to me." If we said this in english we would just get bullied for being so weak and weird to request something like 'kindness' from the people we need to interact with, but in japanese this is just polite and pragmatic behavior.

The worst kind of person to make eye contact with is a cool and confident female, because they are most likely to get increasely disgusted by your presence as you interact with them no matter what.
 
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Look into their eyes… revel in their disgust
 
Looking people in the eye leads to problems. It’s best to avoid it. Homeless people view eye contact as a threat and will attack you if you do it
 
If you have t50 eyes, making eye contact is easier with normies, You can hide your intent and emotions better
 
Same
I just look down
 
If you have t50 eyes, making eye contact is easier with normies, You can hide your intent and emotions better
the idea that tech entrepreneurs think they can push google glass or meta ray bans onto normies is wild and peak cocaine thinking. It's like they see sight as a commodity to extract and surveil even more ubiquitously than with phones. But they lack the understanding that normies have the intuition of 'gaze' as something that is sacred, private, and responsible. This is why I think in the future making eye contact will be a form of rape.
 
Looking people in the eye leads to problems. It’s best to avoid it. Homeless people view eye contact as a threat and will attack you if you do it
I didn't know that but I'm glad I just happen to not make eye contact anyway
 
This is why I think in the future making eye contact will be a form of rape.
It already is in the UK with foids being allowed to sue oofy doofy normies if they stare at them too much.
 
if someone gives me eye contact i look away, if they continue looking I walk away fast:incel:
 
The worst kind of person to make eye contact with is a cool and confident female, because they are most likely to get increasely disgusted by your presence as you interact with them no matter what.
their confidence fills me with rage to the core like you fucking bitch have enjoyed the "pleasure" of life that ur brain can afford to make mistakes and not collapse ,that you don't think twice before looking at anything FUCK YOU BITCH a day in your body is like 30yrs in mine from accumulated attention and sex she gets all her life, i fucking get so irritated when seeing a mildly attractive toilet cuz i know what kind of pleasures she enjoys and feel pleasure and satisfaction on seeing an ugly one knowing that hopefully she might be deprived of the joys of life
 
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I avoid eye contact out of fear. I am afraid that if I look at someone in the eyes they will see how weak and pathetic I am in my eyes. I am most of all afraid I will notice how much they hate me. How much they are disgusted by me. I dont want to take the risk of looking someone in the eye and noticing and them noticing me in turn. Eye contact is a game a chicken, or like some kind of duel that is unnecessarily hostile. Normies should not take it personally that autists like me don't like eye contact.

This is why we need AI. So we can trust machines that don't personally hate you. Humans in contrast can personally hate you and even bully you.

People who make eye contact are wild that they can look people in the eye, because it's almost like they don't fear the consequences of what it's like to make body language mistakes.

You know the japanese are autistic as fuck that they literally have a greeting Yoroshiku onegaishimasu (よろしくお願いします)-- it means at its most literal, "please be kind to me." If we said this in english we would just get bullied for being so weak and weird to request something like 'kindness' from the people we need to interact with, but in japanese this is just polite and pragmatic behavior.

The worst kind of person to make eye contact with is a cool and confident female, because they are most likely to get increasely disgusted by your presence as you interact with them no matter what.
I cannot either. The gym is brutal because nobody has anything to think about so you catch yourself looking at others and them at you occasionally. There is only so much space you can stare into. People in the past have complained I look at the floor too much but then get hostile when I look at them. You cannot win.
 
Looking people in the eye leads to problems. It’s best to avoid it. Homeless people view eye contact as a threat and will attack you if you do it
So you think homeless people are monkeys lol. I always hold eye contact with people. I don't give a fuaark. I am not scared for my life and don't care whether I am gonna be alive for the next upcoming years. I hold eye contact with everybody male female god anybody even if I am scared. What do I have to lose? Like seriously what. I am a stupid mentalcel khhv anyway. The normies / chads should be scared not me. I have been bullied for not being able to hold eye contact with my bully but he never could muster the balls to touch me even when he had friends and I had none. Maybe I am crazy currycel but that's just the way I am. Get woman or not or whatever I wanna die like a warrior rajput caste and live like a lion till the day i die. I aspire to be a real man. Fuck everybody I am the man. I refuse to be weak coward to be alive. I want problems gimme problems
 
I got bullied out of holding eye contact. When I was a kid I could hold it no problem, I wasn’t even self conscious about it. As I grew up and my ugliness started to reveal itself, I would often get laughed at for just trying to converse with normies and making normal eye contact in the process. I would also get told to “stop fucking looking at me” or “tf are you looking at” occasionally on top of receiving dirty looks which has led to my huge fear of eye contact. Now I literally tremble and have a huge anxiety attack whenever I’m forced to hold it for more than 2 seconds.
 
I avoid eye contact out of fear. I am afraid that if I look at someone in the eyes they will see how weak and pathetic I am in my eyes. I am most of all afraid I will notice how much they hate me. How much they are disgusted by me. I dont want to take the risk of looking someone in the eye and noticing and them noticing me in turn. Eye contact is a game a chicken, or like some kind of duel that is unnecessarily hostile. Normies should not take it personally that autists like me don't like eye contact.

This is why we need AI. So we can trust machines that don't personally hate you. Humans in contrast can personally hate you and even bully you.

People who make eye contact are wild that they can look people in the eye, because it's almost like they don't fear the consequences of what it's like to make body language mistakes.

You know the japanese are autistic as fuck that they literally have a greeting Yoroshiku onegaishimasu (よろしくお願いします)-- it means at its most literal, "please be kind to me." If we said this in english we would just get bullied for being so weak and weird to request something like 'kindness' from the people we need to interact with, but in japanese this is just polite and pragmatic behavior.

The worst kind of person to make eye contact with is a cool and confident female, because they are most likely to get increasely disgusted by your presence as you interact with them no matter what.
Making eye contact is hall for me, I can't do it
 
It's too intimate
 

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