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Incel Trait: Overthinking everything

Are you an overthinker?

  • Yes.

    Votes: 72 93.5%
  • No.

    Votes: 5 6.5%

  • Total voters
    77
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I'd say a very common incel trait is to overthink everything, a few examples can be planning ahead or over-analyzing stuff to the point where it's ridiculous. As well as repeating social interactions in your head and thinking about how they could have gone better. Any one experience the same issues?
 
i overthink not only my actions but also questions life almost everyday. i could think "what if's" atleast 100 times a day in my head
this shit hurts tbh
 
Not all the time to me tbh
 
Overthinking is High IQ, most people underthink. That's why a lot of times when I'm debating the normshits and they can't counter my blackpill points they'll just say "Just stop overthinking everything bro"...
 
It's the melvin effect


Overthinking is High IQ, most people underthink. That's why a lot of times when I'm debating the normshits and they can't counter my blackpill points they'll just say "Just stop overthinking everything bro"...
Not necessarily. High IQ people tend to think more. But unsuccessful, lonely losers also tend to overthink because they are forced into introspection. The good looking chad never has to question himself, so even if he's smart he never thinks about the blackpill, never even realizes blackpill truths.
 
As well as repeating social interactions in your head and thinking about how they could have gone better. Any one experience the same issues?

story of my life
 
It's the melvin effect



Not necessarily. High IQ people tend to think more. But unsuccessful, lonely losers also tend to overthink because they are forced into introspection. The good looking chad never has to question himself, so even if he's smart he never thinks about the blackpill, never even realizes blackpill truths.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internal_monologue

You think this is related to the NPC/inner voice theory?
 
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internal_monologue

You think this is related to the NPC/inner voice theory?
There was a study that showed that 75% of people don't have internal monologue.

This a personal assumption but I'm convinced introspection (among other things like high IQ) leads to internal monologue, or at least it would be very strongly correlated with it. And being unattractive/a loser tends to make you go introspection mode.

I'm also convinced a large portion of this forum wouldn't overthink nearly as much had they been born with good looks. Just think about what your mindset and your mental priorities would be like if you got laid at 14 and consistently had sex and gfs since then. And if you had a circle of friends ever since you were a little kid.
 
i overthink not only my actions but also questions life almost everyday. i could think "what if's" atleast 100 times a day in my head
this shit hurts tbh
 
Incel trait: having to imagine the interaction/conversation beforehand
 
i overthink not only my actions but also questions life almost everyday. i could think "what if's" atleast 100 times a day in my head
this shit hurts tbh
 
The Blackpill itself is a vast overthinking, and so are almost all discussions and posts on this forum.
Obviously, it's at least a .co poster trait
 
I overthink so much my brain is exhausted and I can never focus on the thing in front of me. No wonder I'm always making dumb mistakes.

Would it be nice to never need to think
 
i overthink not only my actions but also questions life almost everyday. i could think "what if's" atleast 100 times a day in my head
this shit hurts tbh
 
Incels often find solace in their own minds. So, yes - I overthink everything
 
I dont think at all
 
As well as repeating social interactions in your head
Yes because I never have social interactions so in the rare ocasions where I do have them I remember them
 
I see a general tendency to overthinking being an evolutionary survival mechanism in response to meeting needs going haywire in a current modern environment. If you're out in the wild and your hungry or cold, thinking a lot is a good thing for actual problem solving like how to find food or how to build shelter. Now we're all faced with how to sexually attract a woman and how to receive basic validation from other humans, when both are problems that cannot really be solved easily (or at all) with strategy.
 
Me:
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I'm always overthinking and analysing. It's a curse more than anything. I tie myself in knots and i can't sleep because i can't switch my brain off. It's a fucking nightmare!
 
I got OCD, so it's a given
 
:feelsbadman::feelsbadman: it makes me feel insecure
 
I used to be an overthinker in my youth. I voted NO in the poll and here’s why.

One of the core tenets of the blackpill is that is almost never about what you do or the actions you take, but rather the person who is performing the actions. Therefore, overthinking your actions as an ugly male is a colossal waste of effort. Special exceptions can be made for exceptional people like scientists, mathematicians, physicists, philosophers who do benefit from overthinking.

Once you have internalized this, you will have no reason to think twice about any of your actions and can simply accept them as being a deterministic output of your genetics, environment, culture, etc. I actually believe this is how normies go through life, never thinking about anything because they lack self-awareness. But even if you are aware, no amount of overthinking is going to change your life outcomes.
 
That is an average cel trait.
Truecel trait: Cant even think.
 
I’m a pretty heavy thinker ngl
 
As well as repeating social interactions in your head and thinking about how they could have gone better. Any one experience the same issues?
I still think about things I said and did as a child that I wish I'd done differently. I can never move on from my mistakes
 
When your alone you overthink a lot. When I was younger and more social, I didn't think much at all. It was a much easier life back then
It's the melvin effect



Not necessarily. High IQ people tend to think more. But unsuccessful, lonely losers also tend to overthink because they are forced into introspection. The good looking chad never has to question himself, so even if he's smart he never thinks about the blackpill, never even realizes blackpill truths.
This.
 
I’m never not thinking. It’s my life.
 
Isnt blackpill basically overthinking dating? :feelskek:
 
Depends on the topic tbh, I think a lot about vidya but for school I maybe spend 5 min daily
 
Definitely, reducing the number of thoughts I have, would allow me to focus more on the present instead of obsessing about the past or potentially terrible future. Overthinking is the one of the worst incel traits you can have, since it prevents you from being calm and happy.
 
When I overthink, I think it out loud.
 
sure, sometimes
 
It's hard not to overthink if you live alone everyday
 
yeah I do this as well as over worry about things.
 
I do this all the time when I'm sober, but it switches the other way around when I'm drunk.

Being drunk makes me into a sort of psychopath, and I'm able to manipulate people. But it can't last, as my sperg anxiety/overthinking comes back the next day.
 
Yes. I basically live within my own head rather than in the real world.

This meme applies very well to me as wekk, expect for the driving part. I am so easily distracted by my own thoughts that I do feel severe anxiety during test driving. I will probably not be able to get a driver licence because of it. The driver licence pill ran over me.
 

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