Soy Reddit makes fun of incel for standing up for himself

[WastedPotential]

This is AITA, Classic reddit SOY (Am I the asshole for those of you who don't know is a subreddit where normies try to virtue signal that they're good people and farm fake internet points by fabricating stories where they're the good guy and everyone else is a villain.

I have a feeling this story however might be more honest, but that doesn't matter anyway since the comments/reactions of the reddit is the most pure classic reddit SOY i've seen in a while, take a look.


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1tgg95r/aita_for_telling_my_best_friends_girlfriend_to/

AITA for telling my best friend's girlfriend to "shut the f*ck up" after they joked about my dating life, which is a huge insecurity of mine?​

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I (22M) have been struggling a lot lately with my social life, making new friends, and dating. It feels like my life never goes anywhere in that department, and it’s a deeply sensitive topic for me. I also struggle with processing my emotions, and while I don't usually snap at people, everything just piled up this week.
To give some context: I often feel like I'm not an interesting person. I work as a backend dev intern at a major bank, recently busted my ass to pass a Linux sysadmin course, I'm learning to play electric guitar (got an Ibanez GIO and a Nux modeler AMP), and I like taking and editing RAW photos on my phone. But despite having hobbies, I can't seem to connect with people. The night before this incident, I went to a free live gig with some classmates I didn't really know. I drank more than I'm used to (a couple of beers and 3-4 shots), it hit me really hard, and I just couldn't bond with anyone. I ended up leaving early, feeling completely defeated and isolated. Add to that, a girl I'd been texting all week was acting very distant.
The next evening, I went over to my childhood best friend's house to vent. He is realistically my only close friend. His girlfriend was also there. While I was talking to him about how much this relationship stuff was stressing me out, I kept getting notifications on my phone from my LG smart washing machine.
My friend and his girlfriend started making fun of me, joking that "the washing machine texts you more than that girl does."
Because I was already having a miserable, emotionally exhausting week and feeling completely inadequate, I snapped. In the heat of the moment, I turned to his girlfriend and told her to "shut the f*ck up, you're annoying the hell out of me with this."
The vibe in the room changed instantly. My friend just kept telling me to calm down. I realized immediately that I had crossed a line, and I instantly apologized to both of them right then and there. But I knew my apology didn't mean anything in that moment—the damage was already done, and I had already f*cked up. I just got up and left his apartment.
As soon as I got out, I sent them a long text apologizing again, explaining that I was acting like a d*ck, nothing justifies it, and that I just have a lot of pent-up frustration. Later, I texted his girlfriend individually to reiterate my apology.
It’s been a bit, and neither has reached out. My friend hasn't even opened my messages, and his girlfriend just left me on read.
I know I was completely out of line, but he is my only close friend and I am terrified of losing him. AITA? Also, is there any way to salvage this friendship? What should be my next steps, and how can I work on myself so I don't end up in these sh*tty situations again and actually become a better person?

"INFO: Why did you only yell at his girlfriend when they both made fun of you?"

Ofcourse the autistic feminist cucks have to hyperfocus on a small stupid detail like this, completely ignoring the rest of the story.

"YTA
Your title states she made fun of you - your story states they both made fun of you, your reaction was to *specifically* shout at her? bro gots some incel vibes
.......
.........
You need therapy more than anything bud, you need to put in effort to meet people with those,
.......
but realistically, with these hobbies - how do you attempt to engage with people? hobbies only work to give you confidence in doing something -
But I'll be honest, it's specifically weird that you chose to yell at the girlfriend, it shows you have some underlining issues with women - even if you don't think so, and I am going to be REAL honest, I am willing to bet $$$ that all your frustrations about your dating life bleed into you coming off with deep misogynistic vibes that you might not even be aware of. You need to go to therapy."
TheRAPY!111 , INCEL Vibes.. Justput in effort and meet people!! yikes, misgyinst therapy therapy!

"We need an "Am I the Incel" sub lmao"
INCEL ALERT!!!

"So, they were both teasing you and you only snapped at her. WHY? And why did your friend have to "keep telling you to calm down"? Seems like it wasn't just yelling the one thing at her."
Why did you only get mad at the woman!? don't you know women can't do wrong!!?

"YTA, obviously. Get therapy. No wonder you can't find anyone to date you. Work on yourself first"
Somehow got a reddit soy bingo from just one sentence, amazing..

YTA, maybe if you treat women better they’ll want to date you
You're so misogynistic!!!


And the comments go on by the way with that he's in the wrong and questioning why he was only mad at the woman.

Now I will say that he's kinda cucked for apologizing, but it is what it is i guess.

To whom it may concern.
@TooSomething @Grodd @AtrociousCitizen @Oneitiscel @Pancakecel @The Judge

 

[PhineasSpear]

Nuke soyddit.

 

[DarkSneezer]

How can one even hang out with a guy and his girlfriend? Incredibly cucked and rage inducing. I wouldn't last a minute next to a happy couple without snapping

 

[parbate2025]

This is AITA, Classic reddit SOY (Am I the asshole for those of you who don't know is a subreddit where normies try to virtue signal that they're good people and farm fake internet points by fabricating stories where they're the good guy and everyone else is a villain.

I have a feeling this story however might be more honest, but that doesn't matter anyway since the comments/reactions of the reddit is the most pure classic reddit SOY i've seen in a while, take a look.


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1tgg95r/aita_for_telling_my_best_friends_girlfriend_to/



"INFO: Why did you only yell at his girlfriend when they both made fun of you?"

Ofcourse the autistic feminist cucks have to hyperfocus on a small stupid detail like this, completely ignoring the rest of the story.

"YTA
Your title states she made fun of you - your story states they both made fun of you, your reaction was to *specifically* shout at her? bro gots some incel vibes
.......
.........
You need therapy more than anything bud, you need to put in effort to meet people with those,
.......
but realistically, with these hobbies - how do you attempt to engage with people? hobbies only work to give you confidence in doing something -
But I'll be honest, it's specifically weird that you chose to yell at the girlfriend, it shows you have some underlining issues with women - even if you don't think so, and I am going to be REAL honest, I am willing to bet $$$ that all your frustrations about your dating life bleed into you coming off with deep misogynistic vibes that you might not even be aware of. You need to go to therapy."
TheRAPY!111 , INCEL Vibes.. Justput in effort and meet people!! yikes, misgyinst therapy therapy!

"We need an "Am I the Incel" sub lmao"
INCEL ALERT!!!

"So, they were both teasing you and you only snapped at her. WHY? And why did your friend have to "keep telling you to calm down"? Seems like it wasn't just yelling the one thing at her."
Why did you only get mad at the woman!? don't you know women can't do wrong!!?

"YTA, obviously. Get therapy. No wonder you can't find anyone to date you. Work on yourself first"
Somehow got a reddit soy bingo from just one sentence, amazing..

YTA, maybe if you treat women better they’ll want to date you
You're so misogynistic!!!


And the comments go on by the way with that he's in the wrong and questioning why he was only mad at the woman.

Now I will say that he's kinda cucked for apologizing, but it is what it is i guess.

To whom it may concern.
@TooSomething @Grodd @AtrociousCitizen @Oneitiscel @Pancakecel @The Judge

Why most normies act like they can detect mental issues like psychiatrist?
Wananbe theRapists

 

[AdExpress]

if you're an incel friendship is a meme. most friends use you to constantly remind themselves they're better than someone at least

 

[The Notorious SLAV]

This is why people tell the outcast laughingstocks to "stand up for yourself" btw. They love the idea of the poor guys doing so and them being able to slam them back down.

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

How can one even hang out with a guy and his girlfriend? Incredibly cucked and rage inducing. I wouldn't last a minute next to a happy couple without snapping

 

[XtremeMax]

Nuke soyddit.

and send nukes to their houses

 

[XtremeMax]

Why most normies act like they can detect mental issues like psychiatrist?
Wananbe theRapists

they think everyone has simple issues that get solved in a week like them that therapy would "help" with. even though it wouldnt since therapy is useless and its just gaslighting you into thinking your problems dont exist.

 

[mrlunatic]

tales from the slums of AITA

 

[chihiro]

fagdit

 

[XtremeMax]

genderswap this post and redditors would defend OP

 

[Pancakecel]

Soyddit gonna soy, it's the expected usual, bullshit responses.

That guy should stop being a third wheel and just end that friendship though, better to be alone. Sound like it's probably dead anyway, but considering he admitted to sending grovelling apologies to both, he may be the type to beg them, to still be his friend.

I don't know why people flock to reddit for life advice, considering soydditors live in bluepill delusion land, and are some of the most chronically online failures, as anyone else out there.

If those freaks ever have an IRL meetup again, it would be great if someone could do the world a favour, and just eridcate those attending.

 

[Tsunchad]

if you're an incel friendship is a meme. most friends use you to constantly remind themselves they're better than someone at least

Incels do the same thing too since its Human nature but it's over petty stuff instead of huge unfixable issues like this. I'd much rather be friends with fellow incel bros than normfags.

 

[PURE ANUS]

¨the eternal juxstaposition, to refer to struggling men as "bud" and reccomend therapy,
And when you even say anything remotely similar to suicidal people you're a heartless villain.

 

[PURE ANUS]

Girlfriend tells him something, he responds, apoligizes after.

"muh misogynist"

 

[shyloser]

His "best" friend and the gf are the real assholes, they didn't even read his apology like they think they are some fucking world leaders or something

but honestly op shouldn't have specified that he yelled only at the gf knowing he would post it on cuckit, just say you yelled at them it won't affect the story in any meaningful way (assuming it's a real story)

 

[Takuji Mamiya]

if you're an incel friendship is a meme. most friends use you to constantly remind themselves they're better than someone at least

 

[uncomfortablecel225]

Jfl at this cuck

 

[nihilum]

feminism is cancer

 

[PlummetedSoulofInk]

Soydittors acting like usual.

 

[She Does Not Exist]

And when you even say anything remotely similar to suicidal people you're a heartless villain.

FYI your account will get banned if reported for 'suicidal thoughts'.

Reddit does not want depressed Incels there, they only want bluepillers, faggots, trannies and chad-only women.

 

[BloomingGio]

Holy fuck.
"How dare you stand up for yourself, inkwell"
The gynocentrism in those replies is wild. Also the obsession with therapy is so ridiculous.

 

[FiendNeet]

He went on reddit to ask this? Over

 

[TooSomething]

How can one even hang out with a guy and his girlfriend? Incredibly cucked and rage inducing. I wouldn't last a minute next to a happy couple without snapping

I used to have a friend who all of a sudden got a girlfriend.
He got cucked hard. Ultimately she dictated his life and we barely saw each other during that time.

We aren't friends since. They aren't together anymore but he is a pussy whipped faggot ever since and he has a new bitch now.

Soon that to will end because turns out that she is an actual slut. Big surprise to noone since it is not normal for a bitch this hot to be single at 30. jfl

 

[DarkSneezer]

We aren't friends since.

That's good. He should rot alone next to his ungrateful bitch

 

[TooSomething]

That's good. He should rot alone next to his ungrateful bitch

He was my only and last friend though, so.

It sucks because I have nobody else and I could not manage to black pill him.

He is too blue pilled.

I have no clue how he did it but he has had several foids in his life, but usually damaged foids.
Either single moms, even a nympho or other mentally ill cunts.

He got voluntary pussy though unlike me.

 

[rcnfive]

i hope the government brings the hammer down on that feminism/soy infested shithole of a site

 

[Simstrata]

Rape all redditors

 

[FoidsEnshittifyAll]

over for selfdefencecels... .

 

[Robocell]

genderswap this post and redditors would defend OP

 

[Autistic Uggo]

I know I was completely out of line, but he is my only close friend and I am terrified of losing him. AITA? Also, is there any way to salvage this friendship? What should be my next steps, and how can I work on myself so I don't end up in these sh*tty situations again and actually become a better person?

The friendship was already over when he found a girlfriend. At that very instant, he determined that the OP was beneath him. He probably only kept him around out of convenience or to feel better about himself. If he truly valued their friendship, he wouldn't have belittled him like that.

Most incels inevitably lose their friends like this. People just outgrow us and drop us like a rock.

 

[marpe]

cuckdit

 

[no love found]

It’s just a joke bro

 

[ColderManTruce]

How can one even hang out with a guy and his girlfriend? Incredibly cucked and rage inducing. I wouldn't last a minute next to a happy couple without snapping

 

[Guatemalancel]

Maybe because a random person you dont know annoying you for no reason compared to a close long time friend of yours are completely different situations and it has nothing to do with "misogny"? Redditors behave like doing anything "wrong" to a woman makes you a terrible person they dont bother to analyze the situation if a woman was mocked for being a whore by someone she barely knew redditors would jump to defend her even if did the same thing and also never apologized and redditors would say she did the right thing and repeat the same talk about how this man was a incel and misogynistic for even questioning her choices let alone mock her

His "best" friend and the gf are the real assholes, they didn't even read his apology like they think they are some fucking world leaders or something

Yeah this is a humiliation ritual apologize to your friend in person if you want but sending two texts especially to the average woman who thinks herself as above you that she can mock you for no reason despite you not knowing her the result of the apology was already expected I personally would never have apologized for this i believe too that his gf told him to not reply to the apology because the avg normie is controlled by his gf or wife now they never question them

i hope the government brings the hammer down on that feminism/soy infested shithole of a site

Reddit is filled with some of the worst people that at this point i dont know if its done on purpose

 

[Misogynist Vegeta]

The concept of asking the most morally fraudulent people on the planet on whether or not your actions were moral is baffling to me.

 

[The Judge]

Reddit when someone makes a joke about race: "You insensitive bigot!"

Reddit when someone disguises their bullying as as a joke: "Lighten up, inkwell!!1"

 

[AutismKing]

Brutal thread
The guy made a harmless post about his insecurity as a man and how people were pouring salt in his wound.
Then people make him out to be a serial killer just off that. The virtue signaling is so sad. It shows how men like us are seeing as scum of the earth just for existing and talking about our problems

 

[electricSon90]

Nuke soyddit.

 

[Anonymoutron]

How can one even hang out with a guy and his girlfriend? Incredibly cucked and rage inducing. I wouldn't last a minute next to a happy couple without snapping

 

[IWWorkER]

I have reddit fatigue

 

[SEX NIGGA]

His "best" friend and the gf are the real assholes, they didn't even read his apology like they think they are some fucking world leaders or something

but honestly op shouldn't have specified that he yelled only at the gf knowing he would post it on cuckit, just say you yelled at them it won't affect the story in any meaningful way (assuming it's a real story)

It wouldn’t have changed anything they still would’ve attacked or belittled him. Reddit hates men, especially incels.

 

[Indari]

bomb