It's Over Imagine being 40 and being clueless about intimate relationships.

[B33troot]

Here's the thing. I'm 40. I am neuro-typical, or at least neuro-typical enough to be highly qualified in my realm of work. I have a career spanning nearly 2 decades. I am well respected at work. My finances are sound. I have friends. I am a fully functional and productive member of soceity. But when it comes to relationships, I'm absolutely clueless. And in that regard, I feel like a child trapped in an adult body.

I say that because all my knowledge about intimate relationships is derived from movies, videos, literature and accounts from other people. And not from my own lived experiences.

I have no idea what it's like to:

- be desired by a woman
- develop a bond with a woman that's more than just friendship
- have private conversations with a woman about "us" and "we" stuff
- escalate things via communication and touch
- initiate intimacy
- experience intimacy

Even if by some miracle, a woman finds me attractive enough to hang out with me, she'll inevitably sense I'm an awkward 40 year old virgin weirdo and run away from me.

I have absolutely failed as a human being.

It's over. It never began. It will never begin.

 

[Pancakecel]

That's just being incel pretty much

 

[supersoldier]

It's not your fault

 

[NotoriousLoser]

If the rest of your life is relatively "normal" and you're neurotypical, then you're probably the best actor in the world.

 

[Lonelyus]

Here's the thing. I'm 40. I am neuro-typical, or at least neuro-typical enough to be highly qualified in my realm of work. I have a career spanning nearly 2 decades. I am well respected at work. My finances are sound. I have friends. I am a fully functional and productive member of soceity. But when it comes to relationships, I'm absolutely clueless. And in that regard, I feel like a child trapped in an adult body.

I say that because all my knowledge about intimate relationships is derived from movies, videos, literature and accounts from other people. And not from my own lived experiences.

I have no idea what it's like to:

- be desired by a woman
- develop a bond with a woman that's more than just friendship
- have private conversations with a woman about "us" and "we" stuff
- escalate things via communication and touch
- initiate intimacy
- experience intimacy

Even if by some miracle, a woman finds me attractive enough to hang out with me, she'll inevitably sense I'm an awkward 40 year old virgin weirdo and run away from me.

I have absolutely failed as a human being.

It's over. It never began. It will never begin.

Just buy escorts if your richmaxxed.

 

[Lonelyus]

That's just being incel pretty much

Well a rich one atleast, 40 yr old virgin movie but with rich

 

[Pancakecel]

Well a rich one atleast, 40 yr old virgin movie but with rich

True

 

[Ventingblackpiller]

Here's the thing. I'm 40. I am neuro-typical, or at least neuro-typical enough to be highly qualified in my realm of work. I have a career spanning nearly 2 decades. I am well respected at work. My finances are sound. I have friends. I am a fully functional and productive member of soceity. But when it comes to relationships, I'm absolutely clueless. And in that regard, I feel like a child trapped in an adult body.

I say that because all my knowledge about intimate relationships is derived from movies, videos, literature and accounts from other people. And not from my own lived experiences.

I have no idea what it's like to:

- be desired by a woman
- develop a bond with a woman that's more than just friendship
- have private conversations with a woman about "us" and "we" stuff
- escalate things via communication and touch
- initiate intimacy
- experience intimacy

Even if by some miracle, a woman finds me attractive enough to hang out with me, she'll inevitably sense I'm an awkward 40 year old virgin weirdo and run away from me.

I have absolutely failed as a human being.

It's over. It never began. It will never begin.

Life mog most of the guy un this forum

 

[Zozizo]

life as a male in 2024

 

[Nihilistic Lowlife]

I don't need to imagine it because it's coming for my ass tic tac tic tac.......

 

[Todd Thundercock]

If the rest of your life is relatively "normal" and you're neurotypical, then you're probably the best actor in the world.

That's many men out there.

 

[ItsovERfucks]

I have no idea what it's like to:

- be desired by a woman
- develop a bond with a woman that's more than just friendship
- have private conversations with a woman about "us" and "we" stuff
- escalate things via communication and touch
- initiate intimacy
- experience intimacy

Fucking brutal

 

[Epedaphic]

Man I’m early/mid-30s and I feel this. It’s beyond just feeling alien from everyone, it’s missing out on life experiences that make people whole. People after all often call their significant other their “other half.” Having not had that experience is… like you said being a child in an adults body.

Recently for the past year or so, a lot of the time I go out, I try to get it in my mind that “I have had a relationship before, I have had sex before” to see if having this mindset helps at all… the “fake it till you make it” strategy I guess or as the redpillers might say an “abundance mindset.” But it’s so difficult to stay in this mindset for any significant period of time knowing that I’m a complete failure at my genetic imperative to reproduce and perhaps any existential imperative that may exist to develop fully as a human.

 

[The Darkcel]

Lol, this is pretty interesting, considering these type of posts make me feel less inclined to give a shit about having my life "put together" and be "maxxed out" in terms of everything from finances, social networking, good job, nice car, having a house, etc. When I see that other incels who are either older or around the same age as me are better off than me in every aspect of life, it proves that lifemaxxing doesn't mean shit. Your genetics are all that matter. Retards who like to cope with "moneymaxxing" or "geomaxxing" are absolute fucking delusional morons. I love seeing posts like these just so I can shrug and go right back to my niche hobbies and not give one single fuck. lol

 

[B33troot]

Just buy escorts if your richmaxxed.

I don't want to be with an escort. I want to experience intimacy with a woman who wants to be with me.

 

[Epedaphic]

- be desired by a woman
- develop a bond with a woman that's more than just friendship
- have private conversations with a woman about "us" and "we" stuff
- escalate things via communication and touch
- initiate intimacy
- experience intimacy

The first one is really the door to the rest of them. The rest seem to flow naturally once that first bullet point is there, or so I hear from friends who have had gfs etc. Without that one thing, our lives are so different.

This is why female hypergamy and feminism must be dismantled for our benefit and for the good of society. When women are given the power to gatekeep part of male development, guys miss out on a huge part of life and never fully develop or reach their potential. In a society without feminism, even without female interest, male bonds would still be facilitated and whatever guys didn’t get that would still live fulfilling lives. As it exists, feminism has made society such that men are isolated and subject to female whims (in the workplace, politically) in the absence of a female partner.

 

[PresidentCel]

I'm 41 and in the same boat. Only difference is that I probably have high functioning autism. I've just become numb to all of it.

 

[Epedaphic]

Lol, this is pretty interesting, considering these type of posts make me feel less inclined to give a shit about having my life "put together" and be "maxxed out" in terms of everything from finances, social networking, good job, nice car, having a house, etc. When I see that other incels who are either older or around the same age as me are better off than me in every aspect of life, it proves that lifemaxxing doesn't mean shit. Your genetics are all that matter. Retards who like to cope with "moneymaxxing" or "geomaxxing" are absolute fucking delusional morons. I love seeing posts like these just so I can shrug and go right back to my niche hobbies and not give one single fuck. lol

It’s at least worth it to have a roof over your head, food, and the money to support those hobbies you have

 

[RicaGames]

It must be very brutal to think that in 2004 you was 20.

 

[B33troot]

The first one is really the door to the rest of them. The rest seem to flow naturally once that first bullet point is there, or so I hear from friends who have had gfs etc. Without that one thing, our lives are so different.

The first thing (be desired by a woman) opens the door to the rest. But the rest are all unique and important human adult experiences that we're missing out on. Which is why imo all incels are like children stuck in adult bodies. We can't say we grew up or developed into adults because we've never experienced adult stuff that really matters.

We deal with the pains of adulthood while missing out of the joys and pleasures of adulthood. It's a wasted life.

 

[PresidentCel]

It’s at least worth it to have a roof over your head, food, and the money to support those hobbies you have

It's worth it to not be a homeless bum. But it won't make you attractive to women. They don't want ugly, weird guys even if they have money and resources.

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

Hopefully I'll by some miracle at least have that when I'll be your age.

 

[der_komische]

agepill is brutal man

 

[Epedaphic]

It's worth it to not be a homeless bum. But it won't make you attractive to women. They don't want ugly, weird guys even if they have money and resources.

Yes, I agree. But not being a homeless bum is huge for your own quality of life is what I’m saying

 

[sultryloser]

Nice post. But I disagree with your wording.

You can't be clueless. You can be inexperienced. Fucking, the act of fucking, is instinctual, you know how to do it already. The barrier to getting experience is a woman wanting to fuck you, this is the impossibly difficult part if you aren't attractive.


I thought your profile picture was David Perret so I wanted to reference pictures from google to check. And I saw this guy

I sighed aloud, because I already know this guy's lifes major events (or lack thereof) from a singular glance.

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It's worth it to not be a homeless bum. But it won't make you attractive to women. They don't want ugly, weird guys even if they have money and resources.

Have you heard about the homeless Millennial and Zoomer Chads in NYC and other major cities in the US? They are homeless bums, but women who are attracted to them and want to sleep with them and probably more invite them for prolonged stays at their apartments and houses and provide for them. Apps like Tinder and instagram are like markets where women can barter for Chads, it's wild. Your money means nothing, in today's world (and it will probably be worth less than nothing with these rates of inflation)

I heard about this from an incel friend I made who lives in NYC.

 

[Frat Link The Chad]

Here's the thing. I'm 40. I am neuro-typical, or at least neuro-typical enough to be highly qualified in my realm of work. I have a career spanning nearly 2 decades. I am well respected at work. My finances are sound. I have friends. I am a fully functional and productive member of soceity. But when it comes to relationships, I'm absolutely clueless. And in that regard, I feel like a child trapped in an adult body.

I say that because all my knowledge about intimate relationships is derived from movies, videos, literature and accounts from other people. And not from my own lived experiences.

I have no idea what it's like to:

- be desired by a woman
- develop a bond with a woman that's more than just friendship
- have private conversations with a woman about "us" and "we" stuff
- escalate things via communication and touch
- initiate intimacy
- experience intimacy

Even if by some miracle, a woman finds me attractive enough to hang out with me, she'll inevitably sense I'm an awkward 40 year old virgin weirdo and run away from me.

I have absolutely failed as a human being.

It's over. It never began. It will never begin.

At least you have SOME societal respect.

NEETS like me are considered the scum of the earth.

 

[B33troot]

Nice post. But I disagree with your wording.

You can't be clueless. You can be inexperienced. Fucking, the act of fucking, is instinctual, you know how to do it already. The barrier to getting experience is a woman wanting to fuck you, this is the impossibly difficult part if you aren't attractive.

I meant to say I'm clueless in the sense I don't know what it actually feels like to bond with a woman, do couple stuff with her and have sex with her.

Sure, by instinct I know how to fuck. But since I've never done the act, I'm clueless about what it feels like firsthand; the feelings, emotions, thoughts, sensations, textures etc that accompany the act of sex are cosmic mysteries to me.

 

[sultryloser]

At least you have SOME societal respect.

NEETS like me are considered the scum of the earth.

Didn't you simp for some random woman last year?

 

[Frat Link The Chad]

Didn't you simp for some random woman last year?

No. I changed a literal faggot‘s name at a very attractive woman’s request in exchange for certain content from her however.

 

[Epedaphic]

How do you not succumb to anger and rage?

 

[Efiliste]

Blame nature and the human race for this. They're the problems.

 

[Max Doltman]

I don't want to be with an escort. I want to experience intimacy with a woman who wants to be with me.

If this woman wanted to date you would you?

 

[copecel00]

My destiny

 

[Alone75]

I don't have to imagine, it's happened to me also and I'll turn 49 in a couple of months. I dread the years ahead with becoming elderly and having to face it all alone.

 

[Adamhastor]

If the rest of your life is relatively "normal" and you're neurotypical, then you're probably the best actor in the world.

Wizarding does that to you

 

[Friezacel]

Height and PSL ?

 

[eldercelder]

When people say Autism is a cope, this is where I beg to differ. I'm also in my 40s. In addition to being a KHHV, I've never had much social success, been treated like a creep and a weirdo by foids, been hated on by men, never been able to establish any kind of career. If not being able to get a foid were my only problem, I'd be able to live an otherwise content life of coping.

Never had many friends or social allies. Acquaintances will turn on me if they think it will better their social standing or if they come to see me as an anchor dragging them down. Basic interactions always come with a greater chance of needless hostility from normies. Yeah, I wish I had the OP's problem. (Well, I do, but I wish that was my ONLY problem.)

But I've been treated like a weirdo and ostracized my entire life. So I envy incels like this dude, wish I had his life. And this is why I say there is something beyond just being ugly, something that people pick up on in my behavior. But someone will chime in, "Muh Autism is pure cope."

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

- be desired by a woman
- develop a bond with a woman that's more than just friendship
- have private conversations with a woman about "us" and "we" stuff
- escalate things via communication and touch
- initiate intimacy
- experience intimacy

If you ever do receive this, she's either a fed or a tranny wanting to rape you.

 

[Johnny_Connecticut]

Just imagine all the crazy hot sex teenagers are having on a daily basis.

 

[theshazam]

Why do you think that happened?

 

[Serpents reign]

Here's the thing. I'm 40. I am neuro-typical, or at least neuro-typical enough to be highly qualified in my realm of work. I have a career spanning nearly 2 decades. I am well respected at work. My finances are sound. I have friends. I am a fully functional and productive member of soceity. But when it comes to relationships, I'm absolutely clueless. And in that regard, I feel like a child trapped in an adult body.

I say that because all my knowledge about intimate relationships is derived from movies, videos, literature and accounts from other people. And not from my own lived experiences.

I have no idea what it's like to:

- be desired by a woman
- develop a bond with a woman that's more than just friendship
- have private conversations with a woman about "us" and "we" stuff
- escalate things via communication and touch
- initiate intimacy
- experience intimacy

Even if by some miracle, a woman finds me attractive enough to hang out with me, she'll inevitably sense I'm an awkward 40 year old virgin weirdo and run away from me.

I have absolutely failed as a human being.

It's over. It never began. It will never begin.

I am 33 years old. And I would really hate to be in your situation. And I realize I'm even a bigger loser than you. Because I have a really stupid job. And I'm pretty poor and I'm just low IQ I really need to work on self-improvement as much as I can so I don't find excuse to hurt myself any more than I have. Especially at your age I could die.

 

[Vendetta]

brutal asf bro

 

[MisfitPerson]

If women arent attracted to you you can bet your ass thats the reason why you have no bonds with females.
Its over

 

[Incel of Incels]

Fucking brutal

 

[Incline]

Here's the thing. I'm 40. I am neuro-typical, or at least neuro-typical enough to be highly qualified in my realm of work. I have a career spanning nearly 2 decades. I am well respected at work. My finances are sound. I have friends. I am a fully functional and productive member of soceity. But when it comes to relationships, I'm absolutely clueless. And in that regard, I feel like a child trapped in an adult body.

I say that because all my knowledge about intimate relationships is derived from movies, videos, literature and accounts from other people. And not from my own lived experiences.

I have no idea what it's like to:

- be desired by a woman
- develop a bond with a woman that's more than just friendship
- have private conversations with a woman about "us" and "we" stuff
- escalate things via communication and touch
- initiate intimacy
- experience intimacy

Even if by some miracle, a woman finds me attractive enough to hang out with me, she'll inevitably sense I'm an awkward 40 year old virgin weirdo and run away from me.

I have absolutely failed as a human being.

It's over. It never began. It will never begin.

Send me few thousand bucks so I can fuck hookers in Vietnam please

 

[decafincel]

Here's the thing. I'm 40. I am neuro-typical, or at least neuro-typical enough to be highly qualified in my realm of work. I have a career spanning nearly 2 decades. I am well respected at work. My finances are sound. I have friends. I am a fully functional and productive member of soceity. But when it comes to relationships, I'm absolutely clueless. And in that regard, I feel like a child trapped in an adult body.

I say that because all my knowledge about intimate relationships is derived from movies, videos, literature and accounts from other people. And not from my own lived experiences.

I have no idea what it's like to:

- be desired by a woman
- develop a bond with a woman that's more than just friendship
- have private conversations with a woman about "us" and "we" stuff
- escalate things via communication and touch
- initiate intimacy
- experience intimacy

Even if by some miracle, a woman finds me attractive enough to hang out with me, she'll inevitably sense I'm an awkward 40 year old virgin weirdo and run away from me.

I have absolutely failed as a human being.

It's over. It never began. It will never begin.

I'm 22 but I know this will soon be me.

Also you think people respect you but who knows what's your toilet coworkers actually think about you

 

[Logic55]

As a 20 year old Incel, I dread the day I become a 40 year old virgin