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I’m unemployed and dropped out of college and have no direction in life and it’s great

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I took a couple weeks off this site to focus on my mental health and fix my life.

During that time I came across a Theo Von clip talking about how if “nothing changes, nothing changes” and “if you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got”

I really thought about and I took it to heart. After careful thought, I decided to not have a job and drop out of college.

Now, to almost everyone this sounds crazy, but in some way it makes sense to me.

Most people would find my situation unsure and scary, but frankly I find it freeing, and reassuring.

Since I’m not doing anything right now, I can do whatever I want whenever I want. I can change my life at my whims because I am not tied down by anything.

Ever since I decided to change my life, drop out of college and become unemployed, my life has been a lot better and I feel a lot happier. Total freedom is like an ocean breeze after being trapped in the desert.

I suspect that this feeling, this good part of my life can’t last a forever, as reality will kick in eventually.

I know that to live a good fulfilling life, I can’t live like this forever, and I need to change, and do something eventually.

At this moment it is great, but if I’m at the same point in life in a few years that would suck.

I have been thinking about my future, and I realized now that I dropped out, I have a lot of options.

I could go back to college next year, and try again. Community college, CSUs, and some out of state colleges are still taking applications.

I could just get a job at a grocery store or warehouse or something like that. Or food, service or retail, although that seems emotionally tiring.

I could just chill for a year and enroll in college in 2027.

But I’m also thinking about joining the military. I have already decided what branch I would choose if I was to join.

And then there are the more unrealistic plans. Become an actor or author, things of that nature.

And there are a lot of people who drop out of their freshman year of college, it’s not like I’m the only one.

But at the end of the day, I’m still only 19. I can figure it out, I have time.

I have faith that eventually it will all work out. I have faith in god’s plan.
 
I'm a NEET and dropped out
 
Nothing will work out for you if you are a genuine sub-4 freak. Hope the best for you though
 
At this point oldcels who run western countries have become super bitter and are going take it out on people roughly your age.
 
If you were to tell me five years ago that I would be an unemployed college dropout with no direction, and still a virgin with not many friends, I would have been shocked and embarrassed, but now here I am and it’s really not that bad and I’m honestly not ashamed
 
I feel like I try in life mang. Maybe I haven’t gotten far yet, but at least I put forth effort.

Maybe I’m coping for being a loser, but idrc. We all cope in some way, coping isn’t bad
 
If you can't NEETmax you'll have to start working dude. I also suggest to try a job that involves other people as least as possible because they will bully you
 
Where are you gonna find money for college?
 
I took a couple weeks off this site to focus on my mental health and fix my life.

During that time I came across a Theo Von clip talking about how if “nothing changes, nothing changes” and “if you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got”

I really thought about and I took it to heart. After careful thought, I decided to not have a job and drop out of college.

Now, to almost everyone this sounds crazy, but in some way it makes sense to me.

Most people would find my situation unsure and scary, but frankly I find it freeing, and reassuring.

Since I’m not doing anything right now, I can do whatever I want whenever I want. I can change my life at my whims because I am not tied down by anything.

Ever since I decided to change my life, drop out of college and become unemployed, my life has been a lot better and I feel a lot happier. Total freedom is like an ocean breeze after being trapped in the desert.

I suspect that this feeling, this good part of my life can’t last a forever, as reality will kick in eventually.

I know that to live a good fulfilling life, I can’t live like this forever, and I need to change, and do something eventually.

At this moment it is great, but if I’m at the same point in life in a few years that would suck.

I have been thinking about my future, and I realized now that I dropped out, I have a lot of options.

I could go back to college next year, and try again. Community college, CSUs, and some out of state colleges are still taking applications.

I could just get a job at a grocery store or warehouse or something like that. Or food, service or retail, although that seems emotionally tiring.

I could just chill for a year and enroll in college in 2027.

But I’m also thinking about joining the military. I have already decided what branch I would choose if I was to join.

And then there are the more unrealistic plans. Become an actor or author, things of that nature.

And there are a lot of people who drop out of their freshman year of college, it’s not like I’m the only one.

But at the end of the day, I’m still only 19. I can figure it out, I have time.

I have faith that eventually it will all work out. I have faith in god’s plan.
You should be a drug addict too

dont die for israel tbh.
 
Where are you gonna find money for college?
That isn’t an issue for me.
You should be a drug addict too

dont die for israel tbh.
what why would I be a drug addict, that would ruin my life and the whole point of this thread is how I want to fix my life.

Yeah I’ll never do a dangerous combat role, only support, like behind a desk or something
 
Kinda yeah. Financially stable enough to pay for four years of college. If you consider that rich then sure
And they let you neet with them without any consequences?
Or you live in your own place thx to daddy and mommy money?
 
And they let you neet with them without any consequences?
Or you live in your own place thx to daddy and mommy money?
Not really I need to figure it out soon, I can’t be NEET long term, like as a life plan. And I wouldn’t want to do that anyway
 
great. Take your time and figure out what you really want to do in life. But don’t wait too long. Being a neet is bad.
 
great. Take your time and figure out what you really want to do in life. But don’t wait too long. Being a neet is bad.
it's hard to "find what you want to do in life" as an incel. Especially as a blackpilled incel
 
it's hard to "find what you want to do in life" as an incel. Especially as a blackpilled incel
Sure but you have no choice. You have to figure it out if you want any semblance of a life where you aren’t in constant anguish
 
I took a couple weeks off this site to focus on my mental health and fix my life.

During that time I came across a Theo Von clip talking about how if “nothing changes, nothing changes” and “if you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got”

I really thought about and I took it to heart. After careful thought, I decided to not have a job and drop out of college.

Now, to almost everyone this sounds crazy, but in some way it makes sense to me.

Most people would find my situation unsure and scary, but frankly I find it freeing, and reassuring.

Since I’m not doing anything right now, I can do whatever I want whenever I want. I can change my life at my whims because I am not tied down by anything.

Ever since I decided to change my life, drop out of college and become unemployed, my life has been a lot better and I feel a lot happier. Total freedom is like an ocean breeze after being trapped in the desert.

I suspect that this feeling, this good part of my life can’t last a forever, as reality will kick in eventually.

I know that to live a good fulfilling life, I can’t live like this forever, and I need to change, and do something eventually.

At this moment it is great, but if I’m at the same point in life in a few years that would suck.

I have been thinking about my future, and I realized now that I dropped out, I have a lot of options.

I could go back to college next year, and try again. Community college, CSUs, and some out of state colleges are still taking applications.

I could just get a job at a grocery store or warehouse or something like that. Or food, service or retail, although that seems emotionally tiring.

I could just chill for a year and enroll in college in 2027.

But I’m also thinking about joining the military. I have already decided what branch I would choose if I was to join.

And then there are the more unrealistic plans. Become an actor or author, things of that nature.

And there are a lot of people who drop out of their freshman year of college, it’s not like I’m the only one.

But at the end of the day, I’m still only 19. I can figure it out, I have time.

I have faith that eventually it will all work out. I have faith in god’s plan.
we were born to LDAR
 
Any other masterthesisdropoutcels?
 
I took a couple weeks off this site to focus on my mental health and fix my life.

During that time I came across a Theo Von clip talking about how if “nothing changes, nothing changes” and “if you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got”

I really thought about and I took it to heart. After careful thought, I decided to not have a job and drop out of college.

Now, to almost everyone this sounds crazy, but in some way it makes sense to me.

Most people would find my situation unsure and scary, but frankly I find it freeing, and reassuring.

Since I’m not doing anything right now, I can do whatever I want whenever I want. I can change my life at my whims because I am not tied down by anything.

Ever since I decided to change my life, drop out of college and become unemployed, my life has been a lot better and I feel a lot happier. Total freedom is like an ocean breeze after being trapped in the desert.

I suspect that this feeling, this good part of my life can’t last a forever, as reality will kick in eventually.

I know that to live a good fulfilling life, I can’t live like this forever, and I need to change, and do something eventually.

At this moment it is great, but if I’m at the same point in life in a few years that would suck.

I have been thinking about my future, and I realized now that I dropped out, I have a lot of options.

I could go back to college next year, and try again. Community college, CSUs, and some out of state colleges are still taking applications.

I could just get a job at a grocery store or warehouse or something like that. Or food, service or retail, although that seems emotionally tiring.

I could just chill for a year and enroll in college in 2027.

But I’m also thinking about joining the military. I have already decided what branch I would choose if I was to join.

And then there are the more unrealistic plans. Become an actor or author, things of that nature.

And there are a lot of people who drop out of their freshman year of college, it’s not like I’m the only one.

But at the end of the day, I’m still only 19. I can figure it out, I have time.

I have faith that eventually it will all work out. I have faith in god’s plan.
You won’t get a job if you graduate college either
 
Do something asap. Don’t NEET.
 
Do something asap. Don’t NEET.

Good idea
 

Good idea
I decided to join the military this summer, so NEETing is temporary.

I’m always trying to move forward
 
By the way you write this it seems your head is in the right space logically.
You're a smart kid, and very very young. Keep your chin up and savour the journey you choose, even though it might seem hard for an incel.
Best of luck to you!
 
By the way you write this it seems your head is in the right space logically.
You're a smart kid, and very very young. Keep your chin up and savour the journey you choose, even though it might seem hard for an incel.
Best of luck to you!
Thanks for the positivity brocel
 
What were you trying to major in university ?
 

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