I'm somehow gaining social skills by ldaring. Is this even possible?

[Deleted member 31869]

Like, a few years ago, i was extremely autistic bc i hadn't had a social life or paid attention to social dynamics in school or uni. Mainly bc my parents bullied me at home, and also, at school they noticed i was depressed and bullied me too

After leaving my parents house, i started socializing (for the first time at 23 JFL ) and quickly gained social skills to the point of being almost on normie level, but it bothered me that there always seemed to be a bit of a gap between me and normies. Like i couldn't be on their level because they have a normal past.

After a few months of this i stopped socializing and started rotting in my apartment, because in a few months of going out etc i hadn't gotten a gf. And now as time goes on, I'm somehow gaining certain social skills i didn't have before despite not doing anything, like maybe my brain is still processing those months of socialization or something.

Is this normal? It's over anyway but I'm curious

 

[Deleted member 31869]

you're coping

 

[BrazilianLiveMatter]

 

[proudweeb]

No. I have no social skills and I have to wagecuck daily

 

[Deleted member 31869]

Ldar maxxxing is comfy ngl

 

[Deleted member 26358]

Delusion

 

[Deleted member 31869]

Delusion

Probably i shouldn't have posted this it's probably cope

 

[your personality]

Like, a few years ago, i was extremely autistic bc i hadn't had a social life or paid attention to social dynamics in school or uni. Mainly bc my parents bullied me at home, and also, at school they noticed i was depressed and bullied me too

After leaving my parents house, i started socializing (for the first time at 23 JFL ) and quickly gained social skills to the point of being almost on normie level, but it bothered me that there always seemed to be a bit of a gap between me and normies. Like i couldn't be on their level because they have a normal past.

After a few months of this i stopped socializing and started rotting in my apartment, because in a few months of going out etc i hadn't gotten a gf. And now as time goes on, I'm somehow gaining certain social skills i didn't have before despite not doing anything, like maybe my brain is still processing those months of socialization or something.

Is this normal? It's over anyway but I'm curious

Imo it's because of no negative feedback from others when you are ldaring. It can make you feel like you are finally normal. If you put yourself out there it's if/when you get negative feedback that those perceived social skills will probably go away.

 

[Deleted member 34772]

Low iq cope post

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Low iq cope post

 

[Deleted member 31869]

Imo it's because of no negative feedback from others when you are ldaring. It can make you feel like you are finally normal. If you put yourself out there it's if/when you get negative feedback that those perceived social skills will probably go away.

High IQ that's probably it

 

[foosballcel]

you're coping

big time OP

 

[BITG]

you're coping

Copes me. The injustice

 

[Deleted member 34301]

I'm too tired to socialize and since noone evers asks me to hang out or go out it costs me too much effort to try to be included, so i'm just alone with no friends, playing video games or staring at the wall paper

 

[Animecel2D]

Im better at talking to others when I don’t have to talk to them

 

[Deleted member 31869]

Im better at talking to others when I don’t have to talk to them

seriously though stop bumping this thread brocel, it's a cope, i regret making it

 

[Izayacel]

No. I have no social skills and I have to wagecuck daily

Over

 

[dirtykombatcel]

Imo it's because of no negative feedback from others when you are ldaring. It can make you feel like you are finally normal. If you put yourself out there it's if/when you get negative feedback that those perceived social skills will probably go away.

 

[Deleted member 33827]

Imo it's because of no negative feedback from others when you are ldaring. It can make you feel like you are finally normal. If you put yourself out there it's if/when you get negative feedback that those perceived social skills will probably go away.

Well said. OP is living in his Plato's Cave, it's not like the world outside is better for incels anyways.

 

[Emba]

Well said. OP is living in his Plato's Cave, it's not like the world outside is better for incels anyways.

Imo it's because of no negative feedback from others when you are ldaring. It can make you feel like you are finally normal. If you put yourself out there it's if/when you get negative feedback that those perceived social skills will probably go away.

There's no negative feedback for your avoidance