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Is it even possible to overcome addiction without social connection?

trrrrrsarescary

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If you look at the vast majority of recovered addicts they developed a sense of purpose and a place in their community with friendships and maybe even a relationship which ig gives them a reason to quit, but how often do you see a genuine socially excluded autistic loner alcoholic who successfully overcame their addiction whilst still being a full on outcast? It's just observations like these that make me believe there's no hope I'll ever overcome my alcoholism and that I will eventually succumb to it
 
You can't overcome nothing without social validation especially trueceldom.
 
very acute observation Mr. Trevenant. The answer is no (imo). Man doesn't have that sort of willpower I think.

However I am on 10 days no porn, trying to break my addiction. But porn is weaker than shit like heroine etc.
 
It's extremely difficult, I have never seen it happen.
 
I don't think it is, and you raise a good point. I tried AA and smart recovery, when I was at my worst with alcoholism, and it didn't help at all, mainly because I couldn't relate to anyone. The people all had active social lives, partners, kids and just fulfilling lives in general.

I swapped the alcohol for kratom a few years back. Before drinking though, the addiction was video games. Ever since I was about 13, I've been trying to escape my own mind, and I don't think that's ever going to change so, unfortunately I will probably always be abusing a substance of some kind, until the day I die.
 
Are you familiar with the mice study concerning addiction? Isolation seems to be the key enforcer of it.

Also looking at veteran soldiers from WW2 who were on drugs, seem to only get hooked on it if they returned to nothing.
 
Are you familiar with the mice study concerning addiction? Isolation seems to be the key enforcer of it.

Also looking at veteran soldiers from WW2 who were on drugs, seem to only get hooked on it if they returned to nothing.
Yeah I saw that study, they'd be taking legit heroin but didn't get addicted because they have wives and kids back home
 

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