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I'm incel therefore I don't have friends

Naziarabwog95

Naziarabwog95

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In my entire life, I've known hundreds of guys from primary school, middle school, high school, the neighborhood, university, you name it. But I only succed to mantain friendship with three wierdos. During the last few years I lost contact with two of them. I think because of my introverted nature and social phobia (they do not fear to socialize). So the story behind this post is : I was taking a walk just a few hours ago with the only friend I have ( he is in a relationship with a gothic wierdo since a year or so) and he start telling me some hard and cruel stuff about what other guys are telling about me ( they said I'm gonna die alone cuz I have some deep insecurties about foids) so at first I said to myself why the fuck he's telling me this cruel shit ( he already knows that I know this facts) after 15 mintues I told him that my stomach hurts so as to return home cuz he makes me feel miserable. When he left me and was walking alone to home, I said to myself : a true and loyal friend will never tell me such abominations.
Do you realize guys that when even your best friends ( who have been single for a long period of time) will mock you when they get a gf? Humans are programmed to hate us. I'm, by the way, curious to know what are your opinions about this guy that I've known since I was 8 years old (I'm 24 now)?

P.S Sorry for my terrible English, I'm too lazy to revise my grammar lessons.
 
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Do you realize guys that when even your best friends ( who have been single for a long period of time) will mock you when they get a gf?
Yes, I've had this exact experience. But I don't know if I'd consider him to have been a friend, nobody ever treated me the same as they treated others.
 
I have had family members (male) who never mentioned anything about girls or virgin/incel, and the moment each and every one of them got a GF for the first time, they started calling me virgin/incel etc. Its funny how they're silent on this issue until they get finally get a GF. I'm talking guys in their late 20s/early 30s here, who you would expect to understand the struggle, these aren't teenagers, or early 20s.

It seems getting a GF makes them feel superior towards you, perhaps they believe they have "unlocked" the ability to belittle and shit on guys who haven't been able to get a foid to select them yet, so it makes them feel like they've gained status above you.
 
Yes, I've had this exact experience. But I don't know if I'd consider him to have been a friend, nobody ever treated me the same as they treated others.
He wasn't your friend, commarade! Homo Sapiens hate ugly individuals cuz they want to improve their
species and this why they hate us. All Humans are nazis and eugenics after all, especially foids. Concerning my this faggot that I called my friend, I'll stop contacting him. I don't need real humans anymore I'm sick of them
I have had family members (male) who never mentioned anything about girls or virgin/incel, and the moment each and every one of them got a GF for the first time, they started calling me virgin/incel etc. Its funny how they're silent on this issue until they get finally get a GF. I'm talking guys in their late 20s/early 30s here, who you would expect to understand the struggle, these aren't teenagers, or early 20s.

It seems getting a GF makes them feel superior towards you, perhaps they believe they have "unlocked" the ability to belittle and shit on guys who haven't been able to get a foid to select them yet, so it makes them feel like they've gained status above you.
It DOES make them feel superior. As soon as they get a gf they're gonna consider you as a threat to their relationship.
 
It DOES make them feel superior. As soon as they get a gf they're gonna consider you as a threat to their relationship

I have noticed every acquaintance or family member in my life who has got a GF has ghosted me, never really had friends, because I have a pretty high standard for what I'd consider a friend, 99.9% of people don't have the qualities to be a friend.
 
That's what they do. Normscum faggots desperately try to increase and maintain their SMV so that they can put people like us down to feel superior. Even so called friends do this no matter how long you've known them. That is why you trust nobody. They are all just oppurtunists who got lucky, nothing more. It's always best to see people for what they truly are.
 
This is what happens to all ugly males. They can get friends (they still treat you terribly because ugly) before puberty, but once puberty starts and one by one all your friends get gfs and start having hookups it's over. In the middle of puberty you lose the cute kid effect and everyone will treat you even worse for being ugly and 80 percent of conversation is sex and relationships so you say to yourself what is the point and you start rotting.
 
I have noticed every acquaintance or family member in my life who has got a GF has ghosted me, never really had friends, because I have a pretty high standard for what I'd consider a friend, 99.9% of people don't have the qualities to be a friend.
Same here. My notion of the term friend is similar to that of the Ancient Greeks. Friendship is way more superior than any other human relation. It means sacrificing yourself for your friend, help him as much as you can, wishing him every good and beautiful thing. Nowadays, it means someone who is willing to stay in contact and hang out with you if you are handsome or rich ( statusmaxxing) or if you're the only way for him to escape loneliness.
That's what they do. Normscum faggots desperately try to increase and maintain their SMV so that they can put people like us down to feel superior. Even so called friends do this no matter how long you've known them. That is why you trust nobody. They are all just oppurtunists who got lucky, nothing more. It's always best to see people for what they truly are.
I agree with you. I thought he is the exception but he isn't. Fuck him anyway. I'm used to loneliness anyway and being here on this forum is far better than walking in the croweded streets with a normalfaggot.
i dont got any either :feelsrope:
Fuck them. You have a better alternative : incels.co
80 percent of conversation is sex and relationships so you say to yourself what is the point and you start rotting.
This is the reason why I freaking hate to be around people (males ofc). They have only two subjects in their tiny mind : football and sex. Now, I prefer a good book (especially if it's written by a protocel like Nietzsche or Schopenhauer) and nature.
 
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I haven’t had any friends in years. I have two online friends but if they saw my face and actually knew how pathetic I was, they’d probably leave me too.
 
I haven’t had any friends in years. I have two online friends but if they saw my face and actually knew how pathetic I was, they’d probably leave me too.
If they’re +6, they’re gonna do it.
 
Tbh I’m a little suspicious of incels who claim to have legit social circles
 
Yes the moment they get a gf they change and think of you as being pathetic despite them being the same way recently. You become an inconvenience and they leave you behind no matter how long you've been buddies. Briffaults law applies to male friends too when it comes to this.
 
Yes the moment they get a gf they change and think of you as being pathetic despite them being the same way recently. You become an inconvenience and they leave you behind no matter how long you've been buddies. Briffaults law applies to male friends too when it comes to this.
Big truth
 
My so called friends and most of my family disowned me. I will be alone for the rest of my life.
 
There is no winning scenarios. We are fucked in every case.
When you don't have friends, it sucks for obvious reasons.
When you do have "friends", then you have to suffer through bs like this:
he start telling me some hard and cruel stuff about what other guys are telling about me ( they said I'm gonna die alone cuz I have some deep insecurties about foids)
 
There is no winning scenarios. We are fucked in every case.
When you don't have friends, it sucks for obvious reasons.
When you do have "friends", then you have to suffer through bs like this:
To be honest, I don't need friends anymore. It's just that this guy I've known him since we were little kids. I met him the first time in 2001/2002, I think. I considered him like a brother. But after this shit, I don't want to see his fucking face anymore. I write this post in order to show how sex and getting gf control every damned aspect of our lives. As an incel, you have to live alone and due to years of isolation, I'm ok with it.
Yes the moment they get a gf they change and think of you as being pathetic despite them being the same way recently. You become an inconvenience and they leave you behind no matter how long you've been buddies. Briffaults law applies to male friends too when it comes to this.
This is a hard pill to swallow for many incels especially the young ones.
 
To be honest, I don't need friends anymore. It's just that this guy I've known him since we were little kids. I met him the first time in 2001/2002, I think. I considered him like a brother. But after this shit, I don't want to see his fucking face anymore. I write this post in order to show how sex and getting gf control every damned aspect of our lives. As an incel, you have to live alone and due to years of isolation, I'm ok with it.

This is a hard pill to swallow for many incels especially the young ones.
It's more bearable than alternative tbh. But it's still torture live alone as part of your human nature still desperately clings social interaction.
Living alone is a still reminder that you're genetic faliure.
 
It's more bearable than alternative tbh. But it's still torture live alone as part of your human nature still desperately clings social interaction.
Living alone is a still reminder that you're genetic faliure.
You are right.
Aristotle once said : Whosoever is delighted in solitude is either a wild beast or a god.
 
Inceldom is not about sex.
 
Its a sad reality, but its true, once a guy gets a gf they think of themselves as superior. Even in inceldom we refer to getting a gf as "ascending" as if once you get a gf you are automatically some ascended being.
 
I remember on PUAHate, some guys would say “you have a bad personality or are on the spectrum because ugly guys have friends”. Such blanket assumptions, maybe if you’re a 6/10 who thinks they’re “incel” because they only had 3 partners and none of them were 7s, you can’t fathom how an ugly guy or below average introvert has no friends. Incels can have friends but few and far between and unless they’re quite extroverted or have some status, also go through dry spells in regards to friendships.
 

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