Serious If polyamory is natural, why do we fall in love and desire monogamy with people?

[black_depresso]

A lot of mainstream media will have you believe “marriage is over, fuck who you want, polyamory is natural, don’t get tied down”

Polyamory is natural? Then what the fuck is oxytocin? The literal monogamy brain chemical! What the fuck is parental bonding and monogamy to help support and nurture the emotional and psychological development of kids to help them grow up with both a feminine and masculine figure and influence in their lives to be healthy adults?

If polyamory is natural, surely all these biological mechanisms to promote monogamy are EVOLUTIONARILY DISADVANTAGEOUS, because if you lose a partner it will ruin you emotionally and damage your quality of life, So why the fuck do they exist? Why did mechanisms for parental bonding and monogamy evolve?

 

[acnescarcel]

violence is natural. poison is natural. just because something is natural doesn’t mean it’s good.

 

[Deleted member 19079]

transitioning to another gender is also natural don't let the incels tell you otherwise

 

[Ignas]

violence is natural. poison is natural. just because something is natural doesn’t mean it’s good.

B-b-but who are you to judge if it's good or not?

 

[desperatecel178]

The natural=good meme needs to die.

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

Polyamory of man having multiple wives is natural

 

[acnescarcel]

B-b-but who are you to judge if it's good or not?

also all of a sudden they care about nature. the blackpill is rooted in nature yet it doesn’t matter to them.

 

[fOreVER]

Yet you have incels coping by denying love

Hurr durr love doesnt exist it is just society brainwashing

 

[StaroRavager]

Polygamy was certainly running rampant before the concept of civilization came about. Even after that it took hundreds of years until monogamy was adopted throughout the majority of the known world

 

[AsiaCel]

Monogamy isn't natural (though you may argue it's nature because we're all animals alright), polygamy is the state of things.

When a man is a Chad, he can impregnate many women in a day, a woman can only carry a baby for months, with very high bodily investment. Therefore the woman looks for man with high quality sperm. They don't mind sharing the same man.

When the child is born, the children is looked after by the community, yes, even those who don't own the children.

Nuclear family of one man, one woman and their children isn't the natural state of things. It's to ensure social stability in a large scale society, to make sure every person has his mate to reduce the factor of 15-women-for-1-man mating pattern.

Furthermore, love usually dimmishes in a few months, signalfying the need of the man or woman to find a new mating partner. This is why dead bedroom is a so commonly acknowledged meme.

We are not wired for monogamy. But we have to overcome our biological wiring in order to sustain a advanced civilization.

 

[Deleted member 12355]

Monogamy isn't natural (though you may argue it's nature because we're all animals alright), polygamy is the state of things.

When a man is a Chad, he can impregnate many women in a day, a woman can only carry a baby for months, with very high bodily investment. Therefore the woman looks for man with high quality sperm. They don't mind sharing the same man.

When the child is born, the children is looked after by the community, yes, even those who don't own the children.

Nuclear family of one man, one woman and their children isn't the natural state of things. It's to ensure social stability in a large scale society, to make sure every person has his mate to reduce the factor of 15-women-for-1-man mating pattern.

Furthermore, love usually dimmishes in a few months, signalfying the need of the man or woman to find a new mating partner. This is why dead bedroom is a so commonly acknowledged meme.

We are not wired for monogamy. But we have to overcome our biological wiring in order to sustain a advanced civilization.

depends on the race. I'd say white and north east asian people are more biologically wired for monogamy than, say, negroes as that's simply how we evolved. A codependency between the sexes had to be developed in order to survive the rough living conditions in the geographic regions these two subspecies have evolved, while living conditions were less brutal in Africa due to the resource abundance found in that region and so no such codependency had to be developed for groids. A descent into polyamory is merely a function of society becoming africanized

 

[Opus132]

Religiouscel answer incoming:

Monogamy exists where the immanence of God takes precedence over his transcendence. Marriage in this context becomes a ritual that replicates the cosmic union between the universal male and female archetypes, yin and yang joining together in one indivisible whole.

Polygamy exists where it is the transcendence of God that is given greater emphasis. The man in this equation is then identified with the principle, and every woman is then seen as cosmic woman so that between one woman or another there is no distinction, they all reflect the same principle.

Polyamory is when both the transcendent and the immanent recede and Maya rules the day.

 

[IAmWhatYouMadeMe9]

Humans have evolved to be monogamous and pairbond, especially outside of adolescnece. Period.

Fuck the juden MSM.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

Polyamory didn't happen in Ancient Greece and I don't think it even happened in Ancient Rome. I am pretty sure Polyamory is an Eastern thing.

 

[Nothingness]

Man wants monogamy
Female wants poligamy

 

[FukFeminism]

Man wants monogamy
Female wants poligamy

Polygamy*

 

[Nothingness]

Polygamy*

So what ? little faggish cunt

 

[FukFeminism]

So what ? little faggish cunt

Oh no

 

[boringcel]

(((Polygamy)))

 

[Evildоer]

(((Polygamy)))

Made to spread AIDS.

 

[ItsAllOverButTheCry]

Polyamory of man having multiple wives is natural

 

[78980n]

Religiouscel answer incoming:

Monogamy exists where the immanence of God takes precedence over his transcendence. Marriage in this context becomes a ritual that replicates the cosmic union between the universal male and female archetypes, yin and yang joining together in one indivisible whole.

Polygamy exists where it is the transcendence of God that is given greater emphasis. The man in this equation is then identified with the principle, and every woman is then seen as cosmic woman so that between one woman or another there is no distinction, they all reflect the same principle.

Polyamory is when both the transcendent and the immanent recede and Maya rules the day.

Jesus Christ IQ

 

[TheNEET]

jfl human are unnatural because they're man-made

 

[Invalidusername]

Just because we can do it, doesn't make it natural or whatever.

for example, let's say a boy is given a range of food, ranging from unhealthy junk to healthy stuff. he has the option to eat any, and he will eat because it is hardwired for him to do so (we eat for energy, survival, to not die, etc etc). what we'll observe, thats common with children, is that they'll eat the unhealthy junk foods merely because it's more appealing to them due to taste and whatnot. does this make eating junk food natural? no, we are just able to do so. what's natural, biological, hard wired, whatever, is eating food.

now, in another scenario where his mother removes the unhealthy junk food, leaving only the healthy foods, we'll observe that the child will eat the healthy foods. He won't die from being restricted of his choice, and if anything the food he is now eating is more healthy for him. In other words, it's not going against his natural, biological, hard wired, whatever thing that comes with humans, because he's still able to eat.

I guess what I'm trying to say, and I'm low IQ so basically I'm bad at explaining stuff, is that just because we are able to do so, doesn't mean it's natural or shud be promoted merely bc "it happened in times pre civilization era" or something.

With polyamory, one hard wired aspect of it is sex. Just because ppl can have sex with whoever, doesn't mean they have to do it. The hard wired aspect, sex, is the natural one which can be limited to just one person. Nobody will die with having sex with only one person, and it's not going against nature to have sex with only one person. We would be going against nature is not having sex (being a volcel), or not eating food, or forcefully isolating yourself, and so on.

Religious + monogamous marriage>promiscuous haram shit

Tbh ngl ded srs

 

[NoMoreSlaving]

Chads don't

Normies and incels do because of desperation, they know they will have a very difficult time finding another partner so they want to be monogamous

 

[Homoculus]

Before human socities began to emphasize provable lineages, and most people lived in groups of mostly vaguely related other people, who specifically sired which child was not as important as it is in these days of DNA tests and child support.

 

[johnnyb]

I will practice polygamy with my sea noodle harem once I wage slave enough money

 

[FinnCel]

Because they want to justify their degeneracy

 

[Neggr]

violence is natural. poison is natural. just because something is natural doesn’t mean it’s good.

 

[masterwizard]

Oxy is the cuck hormone that tricks men into staying with women to raise offspring, and tricks women into tolerating the low status / low GP betas most of them have to end up pairing with.

Polyamory is ALWAYS really fucking ugly people, actual attractive women prefer to date one guy who is top tier than date 5 middling tier guys.

 

[Emba]

It's like r/K survival theory.

Poly is normalized for foids but they expect men to be mono to them.

There are a few monogamous women out there, but they're very very picky.

 

[gigacel123]

Oxy is the cuck hormone that tricks men into staying with women to raise offspring, and tricks women into tolerating the low status / low GP betas most of them have to end up pairing with.

Polyamory is ALWAYS really fucking ugly people, actual attractive women prefer to date one guy who is top tier than date 5 middling tier guys.

Or they can date 5 top tier guys

 

[Salustio]

Of course monogamy isn’t natural, also polygamy isn’t natural. Who cares what’s “natural”? We are talking about serious shit.

Monogamy is the redistribution of women (women = objects) to every working man.

In the future, we will be able to create advanced sexdolls and loli bioengineered catgirls, replacing both monogamy and polygamy with a new unnatural relationship.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

Great thread, it´s nice to see a High IQ thread once in a while it doesn´t happen much anymore since all the High IQ members has been banned it´s practically just a shitposting site by now.

 

[WawelDragon1683]

Men were able to outgrow their nature and start desiring something better more fulfilling, like monogamy. Women sadly were never capable of this.

 

[mcfroggy]

The 'natural' way is for chads to have harems, and any children born would be seen as the tribes and not just the mans and woman's. Any women left over that weren't in chads harem, the 99% of men would fight over. The feel good hormones only work to keep ppl together for a short while because evolutionarily the child would die from neglect. Monogamy was man made to make sure every man gets a woman so we non chads don't have to fight each other. Close knit communities like tribes were abolished and the nuclear family replaced them, ensuring that the woman doesn't have any other option than marriage in order to have a social support group.

 

[ChronicPaincel]

violence is natural. poison is natural. just because something is natural doesn’t mean it’s good.

How many times does this have to be said lmao