If I manage to accept inceldom, is it still possible to find peace ?

[uglytruth08]

I'm new here and to incel. It's nice to have a place I can discuss with ppl that understand the struggle of never being able to connect with someone. I've been alone all of my life and got built up anger about it. I'm not even sure what's hurting me more now, being alone or being angry. I wish I was more capable of accepting my faith so I could at least enjoy other facets of my life instead of always going back to the same hunting thoughts. Is it possible to be an incel without the anger ? If so, how does one achieve that state of mind ?

 

[Swagpilled]

is 08 your birthyear

 

[PersonalityChad]

Is it possible to be an incel without the anger ? If so, who does one achieve that state of mind ?

Eventually you get old, your sex drive dies and you stop giving a fuck

 

[Med Anime]

u will forget about inceldom easily and start using the forum just for fun. i don't even remember that i need a gf

 

[PLA1092]

A little bit of anger is good, it keeps you focused and sharpened on your issues and doesn't let you forget the fact that you've been eternally fucked over in life simply by virtue of being physically unattractive. You learn to accept the rest and the inkler rage dilutes as time goes on, you find ways to cope and enjoy what you do have even without foids in your oife.

 

[Dokes]

If my enemies would leave me alone maybe i could fine peace but they keep on pushing it to extreme levels

 

[Old Ironsides]

Read the "Must Read," It has the answer to all your problems and why you are suffering, GrAY.





over

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

I think the frustration mellows as you age. But the loneliness only intensifies.

Having good, constructive copes helps.

 

[uglytruth08]

@DepravedAndDeprived how do you do it ? What copes helped you ?

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

@DepravedAndDeprived how do you do it ? What copes helped you ?

Primarily: As I became older I started developing my own hobbies that distract me and keep me entertained. I'm not talking Netflix and vidya (these drain your soul), but rather sports, outdoor social activities, and crafting projects. By no means did any of these hobbies come naturally; I had to really force myself to do them until they became kinda fun. Now it comes a lot more naturally for me --- though I still have to force myself out of bed every morning to prevent rotting.

 

[AnilBashir]

You can distract yourself, as others have said, but I don't think that equates to finding peace. We have something permanently missing in our lives. That said, some volcels have chosen that life and become monks in the mountains. So maybe that would work

 

[frmentalcel]

in my experience, no
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