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Venting I wouldn’t even need sex in a relationship

sub3genecel

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Having sex is a very low priority for me. I want a girlfriend I can just be with. I want to just hang out and have fun with her. I want her to cry on my shoulder and to vent about my bad days at work to her. I want to cuddle with her. I want to watch movies with her. I want to go on drives through the country with her during the summer. I want to ride bikes with her in the park. I want to teach her how to play video games. I want to just be be with her. There are so many things I would do with my hypothetical girlfriend if she somehow got poofed into existence. There are so many things I would do to get one but nothing will ever be enough. I don’t need sex I don’t care about it much I just need companionship. I just need that deep human connection I never had and never will. I just don’t understand how love is supposed to be such an integral and basic human experience but it still somehow feels so alien to me. It feels like watching a fantasy movie that everyone else is living in except for me.

I’m starting to feel like nothing will truly fill that void in me. I don’t know if my plan on statusmaxxing will actually help at all. I’m starting to lose hope in living a fulfilling life if I won’t ever get to have a family.
 
I relate so much to you man
 
soyciety so cucked its never gonna happen.
 
sub3genecel

spongebob before inceldom

amiannoying

spongebob after inceldom
 
YOU'RE A FAGGOT
 
Trvke, I literally only want to be cared for and be someone else's everything, sex is literally just a bonus at this point.
 
I desire sex the most but I do want to go the movies with a foid once in my life or the zoo. Whenever I used to go to the zoo with my family i would always see couples and I'd daydream about me holding hands with a foid walking and petting animals together at the petting zoo. Idk what these things even feel like all I can do is imagine but I stopped doing that
 
I want sex from a girlfriend.
 
Same-ish, I guess?

I know women are brain dead but I have this ridiculous desire for a partner for life, I grew listening to silent gen folk talking about how they meet their GFs when they were 13 and having marriages that lasted 6 decades.

Like holding hands with someone you know won't trade you for the 'next best thing'.

Not just I'm past my prime no woman desires monogamy, sadly I live in a third world shithole and all my peers got cheated or divorced at least once, so what I want is irrelevant.

I want to teach her how to play video games

Women don't like it, and tomboys are natural dykes, seriously, the MOST you gonna get is a bitch that plays Stardew Valley.
 
I need to breed though, that's the trouble.
 
I need to breed though, that's the trouble.
Having kids is the worst thing we could possibly do to our children. I would get a sperm donor I wouldn’t want to curse my children with my genes
 
Having kids is the worst thing we could possibly do to our children. I would get a sperm donor I wouldn’t want to curse my children with my genes
Nah, fuck that. I deserve to breed. I shouldn't have to be a genetic dead end cos of some BS arbitrary "eugenics" standards.

Don't get me wrong though, I would take a relationship with just hand relief and no breeding over no relationship at all. It's just that I would prefer to breed.
 
I agree with you
 
I shouldn't have to be a genetic dead end cos of some BS arbitrary "eugenics" standards.
That would only hurt your hypothetical children the greatest thing you could do to them is to allow them to have another biological father
 
Same. I just want to spend time with my partner, doing something or nothing together

Have deep talks, help and support each other

Lust actually blinds you from connecting with your partner, but i guess it's part of nature, and it has its purpose
 
Same. I just want to spend time with my partner, doing something or nothing together

Have deep talks, help and support each other

Lust actually blinds you from connecting with your partner, but i guess it's part of nature, and it has its purpose
But i guess it's kind of not fair to presume, since i never had sex before

How can you know that you like a certain activity, and to value it, if you've never tried it before

Know what i'm sayin'?
 
Having sex is a very low priority for me. I want a girlfriend I can just be with. I want to just hang out and have fun with her. I want her to cry on my shoulder and to vent about my bad days at work to her. I want to cuddle with her. I want to watch movies with her. I want to go on drives through the country with her during the summer. I want to ride bikes with her in the park. I want to teach her how to play video games. I want to just be be with her. There are so many things I would do with my hypothetical girlfriend if she somehow got poofed into existence. There are so many things I would do to get one but nothing will ever be enough. I don’t need sex I don’t care about it much I just need companionship. I just need that deep human connection I never had and never will. I just don’t understand how love is supposed to be such an integral and basic human experience but it still somehow feels so alien to me. It feels like watching a fantasy movie that everyone else is living in except for me.

I’m starting to feel like nothing will truly fill that void in me. I don’t know if my plan on statusmaxxing will actually help at all. I’m starting to lose hope in living a fulfilling life if I won’t ever get to have a family.
Realest post ever
 
Same. I just want to spend time with my partner, doing something or nothing together
It’s my only true desire in life
 
Without sex then it's just a friendship
 

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