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Venting I don’t want sex

sub3genecel

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I’ve changed my mind. I used to say that I don’t need sex from a girlfriend but it would be nice but now I don’t want it. I don’t care about sex anymore. I just want to be loved. I’m so crushingly lonely. I can’t even make online friends.
I just want to spend time with a girl. I want to cuddle and watch movies. I want to go to the store with her. I want to eat dinner with her. I want to watch YouTube videos with her. I want to go on walks in the park with her. I really want to go on long drives around the country with her. There are so many things I don’t want to and shouldn’t need to do alone that I have to because I have nobody.
It’s just not fair how everyone around me casually talks about dating like it’s a normal thing everyone experiences because it’s not. Becoming a billionaire feels more achievable than having a girlfriend. It’s that bad for me.
 
spongebob, my sub human homeboy had a girlfriend for 8 months. keep trying sponge
 
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...and then naturally have sex with her. I also miss the affection primarily.
 
i do indeed want sex
 
What you need is time and some hobbies and interests that you genuinely enjoy so you can forget people entirely. People like us weren't meant for connection
 
If I just wanted sex, I wouldn't be here.
 
What you need is time and some hobbies and interests that you genuinely enjoy so you can forget people entirely
Those won’t replace my desire for female connection. Those only work when you don’t want human connection in the first place like hermits
 
Sex is the easy part of the whole conundrum, unfortunately.
 
Same, I don't care for sex I just want to have someone who genuinely loves me, someone that cares about me and who I can care for.

But sadly I lost the genetic lottery and I'm destined to live a life of loneliness before being naturally selected out of existence :cryfeels: :cryfeels:
 
I'm destined to live a life of loneliness before being naturally selected out of existence
I plan to die of obesity related illnesses by my 40s
 
Maslow would say a thing or two about it
 
Those won’t replace my desire for female connection. Those only work when you don’t want human connection in the first place like hermits
But why female connection specifically? Outside of sex, what do they offer that men can't? I understand wanting human connection, but having to listen and put up with a foid for the only thing they're good for (sex) seems like genuine torture to me.

At least with other males, there's a small chance they might having something interesting to say, but a slit? No chance they'll have anything of value to say that isn't their social media drivel.
 
I’ve changed my mind. I used to say that I don’t need sex from a girlfriend but it would be nice but now I don’t want it. I don’t care about sex anymore. I just want to be loved. I’m so crushingly lonely. I can’t even make online friends.
I just want to spend time with a girl. I want to cuddle and watch movies. I want to go to the store with her. I want to eat dinner with her. I want to watch YouTube videos with her. I want to go on walks in the park with her. I really want to go on long drives around the country with her. There are so many things I don’t want to and shouldn’t need to do alone that I have to because I have nobody.
It’s just not fair how everyone around me casually talks about dating like it’s a normal thing everyone experiences because it’s not. Becoming a billionaire feels more achievable than having a girlfriend. It’s that bad for me.
same
 
I just want to be loved:cryfeels:
 

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