Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

I try to be friendly

darkdungeon

darkdungeon

Certified Dickhead
★★★
Joined
Dec 29, 2022
Posts
724
Online
18d 20h 19m
I go slightly out of my way to make someone new feel welcome at work in an attempt to be friendly and break out of my inner-hermitdom. It's been ok so far but they never want to be my friend, they'd rather talk to someone else if I'm around but they aren't openly hostile to me. I've been at it for about 8 months now and it just seems pointless almost. The few femoids at work are really awkward to be around (probably because they're intensely boring) as well as the femoid customers who tend to avoid eye contact and speak as little as possible to me (except the old women who just want someone to talk to). It still feels really isolating to know that I am so obviously undesirable to any normal woman under 50 years old. It stings more than it should.

Thanks for reading my rambling blogpost.
 
PLA1092

PLA1092

O.R.A.N.G.U.T.A.N._M.A.X.I.N.G.
★★★★★
Joined
Feb 3, 2022
Posts
21,475
Online
89d 21h 11m
Acting friendly or kind to them in any way won't really help you in any aspect of attempting to get foids, or even make friends depending on your physical attractiveness, since foids will still look down upon and view you in all sorts of negative traits due to the horn effect and their disgust towards all subhumans due to their extreme standards; plenty of the normies at your workplace will also find it easy to make fun of you or use you to make themselves look better in comparison, due to your friendliness... :feelsclown:

I doubt there's any point in acting in that way, unless you know someone you could legitimately be friends with. :feelsjuice:
 
LeFrenchCel

LeFrenchCel

Glowie
★★★★★
Joined
Apr 29, 2020
Posts
13,874
Online
103d 9h 20m
Have you tried being chad?
 
DenHaag

DenHaag

Inquisitor
★★★
Joined
Dec 30, 2022
Posts
2,267
Online
6d 17h 6m
I have found that being friendly, and truly in my heart just trying to do that and nothing more, has only repelled women.

I can only imagine that, even though I don't initiate any conversations or interactions, they think I am hitting on them, that I am a creep.

Then I go back to trying to avoid dealing with them.

The predictable result: perception as a creep.

You can't win.
 
darkdungeon

darkdungeon

Certified Dickhead
★★★
Joined
Dec 29, 2022
Posts
724
Online
18d 20h 19m
Acting friendly or kind to them in any way won't really help you in any aspect of attempting to get foids, or even make friends depending on your physical attractiveness, since foids will still look down upon and view you in all sorts of negative traits due to the horn effect and their disgust towards all subhumans due to their extreme standards; plenty of the normies at your workplace will also find it easy to make fun of you or use you to make themselves look better in comparison, due to your friendliness... :feelsclown:

I doubt there's any point in acting in that way, unless you know someone you could legitimately be friends with. :feelsjuice:
I don't think their all that bad to make fun of me but they still chat shit about everyone else so maybe I am just too naive.
 
Subhuman Niceguy

Subhuman Niceguy

Overlord
★★★★★
Joined
Jun 18, 2021
Posts
6,576
Online
69d 15h 45m
Being a friendly male - is a giga cope.
 

Similar threads

Enemy of Humanity
Replies
12
Views
307
Mango
Mango
D
Replies
23
Views
632
hollowcel
hollowcel
M
Replies
24
Views
578
Massimo The Lonecel
M
TheLastandtheFirst
Replies
27
Views
468
spasticbuddy
spasticbuddy
shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape7
shape8
Top