I realized my oneitis was never for me...

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

A follow up to this thread.

So my oneitis rejected me...

This is a follow up to this thread https://incels.is/threads/i-love-my-oneitis-sooo-much.512675/page-2#post-11758607 SO long story short, I confessed my feelings to my oneitis and I it didn't go well. I could see in her eyes that she wanted to ball her eyes out. In her head she was probably...

incels.is

I can't cope without this forum. Why should I deprive one of the fews things that bring joy to me.

Long story short On monday I went to approach my oneitis(even though she rejected me) and this time she completely dismissed me and told me to never speak to her again. She is always with this mixed race chad at my school, It's kinda fascinating seeing the duality of foids. On one hand she completely despises and hates me then on the other hand, she completely loves and adores this chad. Femgroids can literally hit a 180 when it comes to their emotions. She is constantly smiling when she is with him. I know I'm supposed to be a hateful incel but I'm happy for her. She seems genuinely happy when she is with him. I know that cucked but It's the reality that I'm currently facing.

I wish she would love me the way I love her but it is what it is. I'm graduating next year December and I haven't had a girlfriend. I know I still have a year and a half still but realistically speaking I have wasted my Uni life, I didn't make any friends, didn't get a girlfriend, won't have a friendgroup. The only memorable thing that happened to me is losing my virginity to an escort, earlier this year. My life feels like it's completely over but I don't want to lose hope, because if I do I will certainly rope.

At least as soon as I graduate I'll get a job working as a Cyber Security Consultant(My dream job). I'll at least more than 97% of uni graduates. I think I may be able to find a femoid during this time but I know she won't love me for me. She'll be using me for my limited resources. I don't why I'm desperate for love. I think it's because all my favourite songs are love songs.

Ohhh and two days ago, my lecturer asked us to form groups with people for a project. There was a group of femoids(5-6 of them). I had my earphones in, so they probably thought I couldn't hear them. They said, "no wayysssssss, I don't want to be with that weird guy", that sentence alone just broke my heart and sent me back to the incels form. No matter how hard to try change for these people, they'll never appreciate it. Unfortunately I think I'm too low T for hatred. I literally don't have any body hairs, no mustache, no armpit hair, little pubic hair etc. I'm 21 years old so there is probably something very wrong with me. Hopefully it isn't life threatening.

This is just a rant. I haven't spoke to someone IRL since the beginning of the year(excluding my parents) I just wanted to let some thing off my chest. I'm worried and I don't know what to do.

 

[IceStorm]

Ok Nigger

 

[TheGrayWolf]

What race is she?

 

[TheGrayWolf]

I read your whole post. Sorry man

 

[Gutless]

Shes either way too hot for you or is fat/plain. Either way youre a simp cuck for putting all this energy into 1 of 3.5 billion foids

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

What race is she?

Black

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Shes either way too hot for you or is fat/plain. Either way youre a simp cuck for putting all this energy into 1 of 3.5 billion foids

The thing is I love her. I don't know why I feel this way, especially for her. She hasn't done anything special to me, but my body feels numb, everytime I walk past her. I can't describe the emotions I feel when I see her. I've never felt this way for any other female

 

[Gutless]

Sounds like you just started puberty. Jfl state of this board

 

[IceStorm]

Shes either way too hot for you or is fat/plain. Either way youre a simp cuck for putting all this energy into 1 of 3.5 billion foids

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Sounds like you just started puberty. Jfl state of this board

I'm 21 years old and It's probably the low T idk what's wrong with me

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

I read your whole post. Sorry man

It's reality and there is absolutely nothing I can do about it

 

[Epedaphic]

I’m sorry man. It’s easier said than done but try your best not to think about her and to occupy yourself. It’ll get better with time.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

I’m sorry man. It’s easier said than done but try your best not to think about her and to occupy yourself. It’ll get better with time.

Yeah, I definitely will try. If I'm not mistaken aren't you an oldcel? Have you ever had a oneitis and if so, how did you lose feelings for her?

 

[Gutless]

I'm 21 years old and It's probably the low T idk what's wrong with me

I was having crushes and urges to fuck girls since preschool. If it took you this long youre certainly low t

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

I was having crushes and urges to fuck girls since preschool. If it took you this long youre certainly low t

I've always had crushes, I just don't have any body hair, including facial, armpit and pubic hair and I'm super skinny. I look like a 15 year old

 

[Gutless]

I've always had crushes, I just don't have any body hair, including facial, armpit and pubic hair and I'm super skinny. I look like a 15 year old

No attractive girl will ever like you because youre a nonchad dweeb. Just give up on girls and continue down your computer science path. Theres multiple millions of chads out there for your attractive crush to flirt at she not wasting time with a strange and weird looking incel

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

No attractive girl will ever like you because youre a nonchad dweeb. Just give up on girls and continue down your computer science path. Theres multiple millions of chads out there for your attractive crush to flirt at she not wasting time with a strange and weird looking incel

Brootal, but I appreciate the honesty brocel

 

[Epedaphic]

Yeah, I definitely will try. If I'm not mistaken aren't you an oldcel? Have you ever had a oneitis and if so, how did you lose feelings for her?

Yes, I’m an oldcel, thanks for remembering. The hardest oneitis I had was in high school. It took a while to lose feelings for her and I didn’t really have the things that would have made it easy. Later in life I had oneitises that weren’t as bad, and had a better time getting better because I had these things.

Here are the things. It helps to have a group of straight male friends that you hang out regularly with and that you can share feelings with and do things with. Male friends are an incredibly strong support network especially with rejection from women. Just be careful if you have gay men in your group, they typically are feminist and will want to idealize the women and make you feel bad about your feelings for her.

Get into your hobbies, anything you can, video games, music etc. especially things that deal with rejection and can help you handle it. Just immerse yourself in this and your studies, do whatever you can to think about, care about, and find meaning in other things.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

Yes, I’m an oldcel, thanks for remembering. The hardest oneitis I had was in high school. It took a while to lose feelings for her and I didn’t really have the things that would have made it easy. Later in life I had oneitises that weren’t as bad, and had a better time getting better because I had these things.

Here are the things. It helps to have a group of straight male friends that you hang out regularly with and that you can share feelings with and do things with. Male friends are an incredibly strong support network especially with rejection from women. Just be careful if you have gay men in your group, they typically are feminist and will want to idealize the women and make you feel bad about your feelings for her.

Get into your hobbies, anything you can, video games, music etc. especially things that deal with rejection and can help you handle it. Just immerse yourself in this and your studies, do whatever you can to think about, care about, and find meaning in other things.

I apologize for the late reply. I tried making male only friends but it goes wrong. They always speak about relationships and females, literal NPC converstaion topics but I'll try getting into vidya. What if my oneitis is the only meaningful thing in my life?

 

[Balding Subhuman]

I tried to tell you not to approach her anyway if you never even talked to her before

If you're gonna approach a girl again you have to make a lot of small talk before you ask for her number or anything like that. If you don't know how to break the ice you could just literally walk up to her and ask her what time is it, say that you ran out of battery. The next time you see her there's way less pressure and maybe you could make some small talk

 

[Epedaphic]

They always speak about relationships and females,

Try to join in if you can. Even if it sounds stupid, this is how guys get through things like rejections and breakups.

What if my oneitis is the only meaningful thing in my life?

This is part of the problem and why I think it’s helpful to find meaning in other things. For example it’s good you’re getting into vidya. Try to find one with a story that really compels you, characters you relate to or who you really like on a deep level, or even that has music you deeply enjoy (this is touhou project for me) or graphics that you enjoy. Or gameplay that you really like of course, or better yet more than one of those.

 

[Siegfried]

Sorry to hear that man, this is beyond brutal.

 

[soul contre tous]

She seems genuinely happy when she is with him. I know that cucked but It's the reality that I'm currently facing.

You shouldn't be happy for people that hate you. You should simply ignore them and learn to predict 8:00 at 7:30 in order to avoid doing the same shit twice.

but I don't want to lose hope, because if I do I will certainly rope.

don't hope for anything, because you will be disappointed

At least as soon as I graduate I'll get a job working as a Cyber Security Consultant(My dream job).

congratulations, brother.

I think it's because all my favourite songs are love songs.

Stop listening to that. Anything regarding love simply isn't for you! So forget about it. Out of sight out of mind.
I sincerely hope your work environment will be male dominated.

Unfortunately I think I'm too low T for hatred.

You shouldn't hate those foids.
They simply act how they must. You can't force them to not hate your genetic subhumanity.
You should simply do what's neccessary, but nothing more.
Those foids shouldn't have any control over your mind and your decisions.

This is just a rant. I haven't spoke to someone IRL since the beginning of the year(excluding my parents) I just wanted to let some thing off my chest. I'm worried and I don't know what to do.

That foid you "love" and her lover will undoubtedly spread nasty rumors about you and try to bully you. Be prepared for that.
As long as nobody physically attacks you it should be no problem. But be prepared just in case. Learn how to fight and carry weapons.
Never walk alone, if possible. Always be ready, but don't let it occupy your mind. Don't engage in petty arguments.
Just do your time, and then get out.

 

[Kinosuke]

Let this be the last oneitis you have. Focus on yourself

 

[VλREN]

Damn, but hey you probably mog me so there’s that

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

What race is she?

...

 

[turbosperg]

I literally don't have any body hairs

Go to a doc have your hormones checked: T and also thyroid, LH, FSH, pituitary, etc.

 

[mcmoohyun]

No one is for us. We're not entitled to get them.

 

[Trec]

A follow up to this thread.

So my oneitis rejected me...

This is a follow up to this thread https://incels.is/threads/i-love-my-oneitis-sooo-much.512675/page-2#post-11758607 SO long story short, I confessed my feelings to my oneitis and I it didn't go well. I could see in her eyes that she wanted to ball her eyes out. In her head she was probably...

incels.is

I can't cope without this forum. Why should I deprive one of the fews things that bring joy to me.

Long story short On monday I went to approach my oneitis(even though she rejected me) and this time she completely dismissed me and told me to never speak to her again. She is always with this mixed race chad at my school, It's kinda fascinating seeing the duality of foids. On one hand she completely despises and hates me then on the other hand, she completely loves and adores this chad. Femgroids can literally hit a 180 when it comes to their emotions. She is constantly smiling when she is with him. I know I'm supposed to be a hateful incel but I'm happy for her. She seems genuinely happy when she is with him. I know that cucked but It's the reality that I'm currently facing.

I wish she would love me the way I love her but it is what it is. I'm graduating next year December and I haven't had a girlfriend. I know I still have a year and a half still but realistically speaking I have wasted my Uni life, I didn't make any friends, didn't get a girlfriend, won't have a friendgroup. The only memorable thing that happened to me is losing my virginity to an escort, earlier this year. My life feels like it's completely over but I don't want to lose hope, because if I do I will certainly rope.

At least as soon as I graduate I'll get a job working as a Cyber Security Consultant(My dream job). I'll at least more than 97% of uni graduates. I think I may be able to find a femoid during this time but I know she won't love me for me. She'll be using me for my limited resources. I don't why I'm desperate for love. I think it's because all my favourite songs are love songs.

Ohhh and two days ago, my lecturer asked us to form groups with people for a project. There was a group of femoids(5-6 of them). I had my earphones in, so they probably thought I couldn't hear them. They said, "no wayysssssss, I don't want to be with that weird guy", that sentence alone just broke my heart and sent me back to the incels form. No matter how hard to try change for these people, they'll never appreciate it. Unfortunately I think I'm too low T for hatred. I literally don't have any body hairs, no mustache, no armpit hair, little pubic hair etc. I'm 21 years old so there is probably something very wrong with me. Hopefully it isn't life threatening.

This is just a rant. I haven't spoke to someone IRL since the beginning of the year(excluding my parents) I just wanted to let some thing off my chest. I'm worried and I don't know what to do.

Cage you approached her even after she rejected. Over for you, blackcel.