Serious I look at photos of Engagements/Weddings/Families on FB/Insta and pretend that I am the guy in the pictures. Anyone else cope this way?

[bluecollarCEL]

I really do this shit. Now that i'm a 35yo oldcel all of my peers/oneitis's are getting married and having kids. My life is so pathetic compared to them. All the time I see these pictures that depress me. My former crushes engagement/wedding photos. Pictures of other crushes with their husbands and kids. And I pretend that it is MY LIFE that I am the guy in the photo with my fiance that it is MY WEDDING and everyone is there for my big day. It is my family, my house, my kids. I cope and pretend that I am in the photo with the girls.

Such is the life for an incel.

 

[acnescarcel]

I'm sure i will when I'm a little older

 

[Zesto]

 

[Zod]

OP how does it feel to know that your prime time is passing by as we speak, can you feel the void?

 

[MentallyBroken]

HOLY SHIT. I thought I was the only one who did this. I also look at videos of people enjoying themselves with friends/family/lovers and pretend I'm the bloke there too. I even have a playlist of songs I'd like to play at my wedding, shame it's never going to happen.

 

[Blue Squirtle]

I really do this shit. Now that i'm a 35yo oldcel all of my peers/oneitis's are getting married and having kids. My life is so pathetic compared to them. All the time I see these pictures that depress me. My former crushes engagement/wedding photos. Pictures of other crushes with their husbands and kids. And I pretend that it is MY LIFE that I am the guy in the photo with my fiance that it is MY WEDDING and everyone is there for my big day. It is my family, my house, my kids. I cope and pretend that I am in the photo with the girls.

Such is the life for an incel.

I'm still young, so everyone I know hasn't gotten married yet. I've never thought about that until now and it just seems like suicidefuel.

 

[NeetSupremacist]

Wow thats pure suicide to me, I think I'll be dead before I reach that lvl of being miserable.

 

[Ignas]

Also it's painful to know that you're the last person left, which means people you know are all having partners already. No social circle maxx for you at this point

 

[IHateMySelf]

Before sleep,I begin to imagine that I have a girlfriend,friends and my life is interesting.

I like to imagine that i have wife,kids,house.

Its not the same thing that you do,but is similar.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

Using social media as an incel.

I think OP may be a normalite.