Rather than saying that her standards are too high, I think it would be more accurate to say that I consider her standards to be warped and dysfunctional, and since she has the same standards as every other hole that could be said about all of them. I would consider her standards to be an outdated artifact of evolution resulting a serious mental flaw, similar to a lot of the physical flaws present in humans.
A good example to illustrate my point would be if all, or at least a good portion of, women were attracted to sociopaths and violent, aggressive men (oh wait, they are!~), that would imply that being a psychopathic murderer is "superior" to being normal. I don't know about you, but I personally would disagree with that sentiment.