TaiLung
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I just don't understand how every single "non incel" out there thinks that we won't get laid because of our "toxic personality".
NONE of us have EVER gotten a chance with ANY girl out there. Just HOW can you be so sure that i would treat her like shit?
The thing i most desire in life, the only thing that could make me happy, and you think i would treat the ultimate reason of my happiness like shit?
Did any of these people EVER see a supposed "incel" actually get a girlfriend and then he would treat her bad or whatever it is they think will happen?
If i'm not going to treat her badly in the relationship then why should i treat her badly to begin with, at any point of time, even if we just met.
Oh yeah of course it hasn't happened because if one us were to get a girlfriend, we magically wouldn't be considered incels anymore, even tho they claim being incel is a personality trait and not if you have a girlfriend or not. Many people here have ascended and i believe that most people that eventually got girlfriends never posted again on this forum. Why? Because they were happy, they had a girlfriend, they had no reason to hate women anymore and the only reason they ever hated them was because none ever gave them a chance. HOW can you seriously assume, that we go out to meet girls, either irl or in the internet and we instantly treat them like shit and then we go on this website to say how shitty women are for not dating me after i just shit on them. Imagine that. That must be your way of thinking. If any of those people actually exist its far less than 1% of people on here. If any girl out there, would just give me a single chance for a relationship, let it be just one week, then that girl (assuming she is neutral) and (neutral) people that would theoretically spectate it, could decide if im truely toxic towards women or not. How can i not get this one chance, how can there not be one women in the world that would even try to date me for one week. How can you not see the obvious? I never get the chance because they don't ever give me a chance and WHAT out of all things could be the reason any random women that couldn't possibly know my personality by any means, would all instantly reject me? If you just use A SINGLE BRAINCELL you would have to come to the logical conclusion that the only reason she could reject me was my looks. And even if she takes a minute of her time to even "let me break the ice", if you judge my entire personality based on a 1 minute conversation where i essentially just say "hello" in a most likely anxious manner because i never had a girlfriend, i was never allowed to talk to a girl for more than a minute, i could not possibly have any experience in talking to her in a "confident" manner, with confidence, that i anyway would have to pull out of thin air because every experience i ever had did the opposite of giving me confidence. Appearing confident if you only got rejected instantly throughout all your life and being bullied all your life would not be a sign of a good personality, it would be a sign of mental illness and psychopathy. The complete lack of all emotions. Its like every single company only hiring people with 10 years of work experience, but nobody is able to get the experience in the first place because of this rule. I literally don't know what you expect me to do to get a girlfriend. I may have written "hateful" things about women in general on some random anonymous forum on the internet, but never to any women that i was interested in directly. And no they cannot tell im an "incel" from my messages or how i talk irl and either way it couldn't possibly have any impact on whether or not she likes me back because again, i have never treated a women badly directly in any kind of way or even mentioned any incel related topic. I have even let a normie friend who has a girlfriend tell me what to write and i did exactly as he said and it still failed in the end. I literally essentially used his "non incel" personality directly and it still did not work. IT. CAN. NOT. BE. MY. PERSONALITY. And the only reason i ever wrote any hateful messages on here or anywhere else was for this exact reason, because no matter what i possibly tried, none of them ever gave me a real chance. Being hateful when you are treated unfairly is a completely normal human emotion and if you want to tell me that you would be nice to the people that would wrongfully imprison you, despite you knowing you are innocent, then you must have a fetish to be treated like shit because i can see no other way how you could be nice to the people that treat you unfairly. I'm personally autistic which always gave me an extreme sense for fairness and anyone being treated unfairly in the slightest always made me upset. (And no my autism is not the reason i can't get a girlfriend, and if it is, then do i deserve to die alone because i happen to be born with it?) Literally all it takes for me to be happy, not hateful and nice to people in general is me having a girlfriend and i certainly DO NOT have high expectations of her, especially not her looks. I literally give zero shits about how she looks, the only thing i want is her to love me and to be nice to me just like i would be to her. Even if she doesn't love me nearly as much as i love her, literally any signs of affection and i would be fine and i would do my best to try and keep her on this level of affection, ideally to get more everyday. And if she really decides to hate me more everyday or break up with me then yes i indeed blame her and not myself because i would rather break my legs than to purposely do anything that would possible make her hate me. And if all my possible relationships would end like that quickly then yeah, i would truely spent the rest of my days on this forum shitting on women because then i can know for sure that they do deserve it. And i'm not talking about one relationship, not like i would ever get 20 relationships going, but if they ALL end like that, then yeah it must be THEM and not ME. And this retarded assumption that it MUST indeed be my fault and that society has literally no flaws is in itself proof that society as a whole has flaws if you seriously assume that it does not. You can talk shit about me all you want but i know that i would never treat her badly, literally why would i? That is like assuming i could win a billion dollars if i was just nice to a person for one month and you assume i wouldn't do my absolute best to be as nice as i could possibly can. And an actually, really loving and nice girlfriend would be for sure my pick over a billion dollars so the only thing you could ever blame me for is being to nice to her which she doesn't like for whatever reason. If i ever get the chance to have a girlfriend for more than 3 days i can already see that she will break up with me either for being too nice or because im not successful enough in life. Because thats the only real reason you can blame me for. I just work as a programmer with a decent salary so if that isnt enough to impress a girl or whatever then just tell me so i can just rope already because i can't bear living like this anymore and i'm only 22. Can't imagine being 30 and still not even being hugged by a girl once. I would trade one month with a nice girl for the rest of my depressing life expectancy any fucking day. Literally my only hope in life is either there being a nice afterlife or me living long enough to experience technology that gives me a robot waifu or a brain implant to put me in a simulation where i can do whatever i want. In the meantime im just doing drugs once a week to cope. Honestly the hope for that kind of technology just makes me suffer more because i'm semi forced to stay alive because of it when it will probably never happen. Idk what to fucking do. I know i will eventually have to pay a hooker but its just not the same if she doesn't love you and what really bugs me is that i just have an internal drive to protect or make a depressed girl happy or something. Maybe its cuz im also depressed but the ideal girlfriend would be as depressed as i am so we can make each other happy and i actually know she appreciates me. Not some normie girl who already had 30 boyfriends and if i date her or not doesn't actually mean anything to her. And no im not saying i want a virgin girl or anything, just one that needs me as much as i need her. Sorry for sounding like a soyboy faggot im probably gonna get shit on but just felt like typing this. Maybe someone can relate nonetheless. Not like anyone will read through this wall of text anyway.
Best emote btw ->
NONE of us have EVER gotten a chance with ANY girl out there. Just HOW can you be so sure that i would treat her like shit?
The thing i most desire in life, the only thing that could make me happy, and you think i would treat the ultimate reason of my happiness like shit?
Did any of these people EVER see a supposed "incel" actually get a girlfriend and then he would treat her bad or whatever it is they think will happen?
If i'm not going to treat her badly in the relationship then why should i treat her badly to begin with, at any point of time, even if we just met.
Oh yeah of course it hasn't happened because if one us were to get a girlfriend, we magically wouldn't be considered incels anymore, even tho they claim being incel is a personality trait and not if you have a girlfriend or not. Many people here have ascended and i believe that most people that eventually got girlfriends never posted again on this forum. Why? Because they were happy, they had a girlfriend, they had no reason to hate women anymore and the only reason they ever hated them was because none ever gave them a chance. HOW can you seriously assume, that we go out to meet girls, either irl or in the internet and we instantly treat them like shit and then we go on this website to say how shitty women are for not dating me after i just shit on them. Imagine that. That must be your way of thinking. If any of those people actually exist its far less than 1% of people on here. If any girl out there, would just give me a single chance for a relationship, let it be just one week, then that girl (assuming she is neutral) and (neutral) people that would theoretically spectate it, could decide if im truely toxic towards women or not. How can i not get this one chance, how can there not be one women in the world that would even try to date me for one week. How can you not see the obvious? I never get the chance because they don't ever give me a chance and WHAT out of all things could be the reason any random women that couldn't possibly know my personality by any means, would all instantly reject me? If you just use A SINGLE BRAINCELL you would have to come to the logical conclusion that the only reason she could reject me was my looks. And even if she takes a minute of her time to even "let me break the ice", if you judge my entire personality based on a 1 minute conversation where i essentially just say "hello" in a most likely anxious manner because i never had a girlfriend, i was never allowed to talk to a girl for more than a minute, i could not possibly have any experience in talking to her in a "confident" manner, with confidence, that i anyway would have to pull out of thin air because every experience i ever had did the opposite of giving me confidence. Appearing confident if you only got rejected instantly throughout all your life and being bullied all your life would not be a sign of a good personality, it would be a sign of mental illness and psychopathy. The complete lack of all emotions. Its like every single company only hiring people with 10 years of work experience, but nobody is able to get the experience in the first place because of this rule. I literally don't know what you expect me to do to get a girlfriend. I may have written "hateful" things about women in general on some random anonymous forum on the internet, but never to any women that i was interested in directly. And no they cannot tell im an "incel" from my messages or how i talk irl and either way it couldn't possibly have any impact on whether or not she likes me back because again, i have never treated a women badly directly in any kind of way or even mentioned any incel related topic. I have even let a normie friend who has a girlfriend tell me what to write and i did exactly as he said and it still failed in the end. I literally essentially used his "non incel" personality directly and it still did not work. IT. CAN. NOT. BE. MY. PERSONALITY. And the only reason i ever wrote any hateful messages on here or anywhere else was for this exact reason, because no matter what i possibly tried, none of them ever gave me a real chance. Being hateful when you are treated unfairly is a completely normal human emotion and if you want to tell me that you would be nice to the people that would wrongfully imprison you, despite you knowing you are innocent, then you must have a fetish to be treated like shit because i can see no other way how you could be nice to the people that treat you unfairly. I'm personally autistic which always gave me an extreme sense for fairness and anyone being treated unfairly in the slightest always made me upset. (And no my autism is not the reason i can't get a girlfriend, and if it is, then do i deserve to die alone because i happen to be born with it?) Literally all it takes for me to be happy, not hateful and nice to people in general is me having a girlfriend and i certainly DO NOT have high expectations of her, especially not her looks. I literally give zero shits about how she looks, the only thing i want is her to love me and to be nice to me just like i would be to her. Even if she doesn't love me nearly as much as i love her, literally any signs of affection and i would be fine and i would do my best to try and keep her on this level of affection, ideally to get more everyday. And if she really decides to hate me more everyday or break up with me then yes i indeed blame her and not myself because i would rather break my legs than to purposely do anything that would possible make her hate me. And if all my possible relationships would end like that quickly then yeah, i would truely spent the rest of my days on this forum shitting on women because then i can know for sure that they do deserve it. And i'm not talking about one relationship, not like i would ever get 20 relationships going, but if they ALL end like that, then yeah it must be THEM and not ME. And this retarded assumption that it MUST indeed be my fault and that society has literally no flaws is in itself proof that society as a whole has flaws if you seriously assume that it does not. You can talk shit about me all you want but i know that i would never treat her badly, literally why would i? That is like assuming i could win a billion dollars if i was just nice to a person for one month and you assume i wouldn't do my absolute best to be as nice as i could possibly can. And an actually, really loving and nice girlfriend would be for sure my pick over a billion dollars so the only thing you could ever blame me for is being to nice to her which she doesn't like for whatever reason. If i ever get the chance to have a girlfriend for more than 3 days i can already see that she will break up with me either for being too nice or because im not successful enough in life. Because thats the only real reason you can blame me for. I just work as a programmer with a decent salary so if that isnt enough to impress a girl or whatever then just tell me so i can just rope already because i can't bear living like this anymore and i'm only 22. Can't imagine being 30 and still not even being hugged by a girl once. I would trade one month with a nice girl for the rest of my depressing life expectancy any fucking day. Literally my only hope in life is either there being a nice afterlife or me living long enough to experience technology that gives me a robot waifu or a brain implant to put me in a simulation where i can do whatever i want. In the meantime im just doing drugs once a week to cope. Honestly the hope for that kind of technology just makes me suffer more because i'm semi forced to stay alive because of it when it will probably never happen. Idk what to fucking do. I know i will eventually have to pay a hooker but its just not the same if she doesn't love you and what really bugs me is that i just have an internal drive to protect or make a depressed girl happy or something. Maybe its cuz im also depressed but the ideal girlfriend would be as depressed as i am so we can make each other happy and i actually know she appreciates me. Not some normie girl who already had 30 boyfriends and if i date her or not doesn't actually mean anything to her. And no im not saying i want a virgin girl or anything, just one that needs me as much as i need her. Sorry for sounding like a soyboy faggot im probably gonna get shit on but just felt like typing this. Maybe someone can relate nonetheless. Not like anyone will read through this wall of text anyway.
Best emote btw ->