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Serious I have legit never seen anyone ever receive an IOI

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I've never even seen it happen when observing how good looking guys talk with women. Usually, they just smile a lot to be nice, and because it's a social norm, but other than that nothing, twirling hair? never seen it happen, staring for a long time? well, it's considered a social norm to hold eye contact, so obviously they do, but looking at another male when they're not engaged in a conversation? honestly never seen it happen, i even try to autistically observe these things but they just never happen, even to good looking or above average guys

i legit think only the most top-tier chads receive these type of things, if they ever even happen. I honestly don't even feel bad anymore that no woman has ever glanced in my general direction, I think most males experience the same. Gonna be observing this some more but as of right now it's looking grim
 
Ive seen it with my brother.

:feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
They're more subtle than you think. Could be as simple as a girl noticing you when you enter a room, girls touching their hair, arching their backs, making eye contact more than once, putting their hand on their hip, etc. Basically any detectable change in behavior (that isn't disgust) is an IOI
 
IOIs don't exist. Women will let you know if they find you attractive.

If a woman hasn't initiated conversation and pivoted to hanging out...well boyo.....
 
I've never even seen it happen when observing how good looking guys talk with women. Usually, they just smile a lot to be nice, and because it's a social norm, but other than that nothing, twirling hair? never seen it happen, staring for a long time? well, it's considered a social norm to hold eye contact, so obviously they do, but looking at another male when they're not engaged in a conversation? honestly never seen it happen, i even try to autistically observe these things but they just never happen, even to good looking or above average guys

i legit think only the most top-tier chads receive these type of things, if they ever even happen. I honestly don't even feel bad anymore that no woman has ever glanced in my general direction, I think most males experience the same. Gonna be observing this some more but as of right now it's looking grim

same.

I ONLY saw them if girls were drunk as fuck and in a bar.
 
You don't go outside enough then. I've literally witnessed women in nightclubs tell guys that they want to take them home.
 
I have seen so much iois in my gym where the white tall guys receive from the bitches. Literally that bitch was interrupting him every set just giggling lol
 
They're more subtle than you think. Could be as simple as a girl noticing you when you enter a room, girls touching their hair, arching their backs, making eye contact more than once, putting their hand on their hip, etc. Basically any detectable change in behavior (that isn't disgust) is an IOI

lol it's not subtle. None of those signs mean anything.
 
You don't go outside enough then. I've literally witnessed women in nightclubs tell guys that they want to take them home.

i go to college every day and have never seen one happen, ever. i try to observe every single social interaction between males and females

the fucking below average males are literally as invisible as the average and above average males. it's actually funny as fuck
 
Seen it happen many times, all for the same guy too. Pretended like he was oblivious too, probably gave it to them in private though.
 
same.

I ONLY saw them if girls were drunk as fuck and in a bar.

so, they only happen to 7/10+ psl males, but ONLY if the girl is drunk.

Gotcha

just lol, why do any of us here have hope?
 
For most TRPers it's just their delusion. Women rarely give IOIs but when they do, it's usually a hint of availability. The only IOI I got in my 35 years on this planet is when 9 years ago in the gym some cardio bunny put her hand on my bicep for half a second when asking me a question. By the time I realized what had happened, she already lost whatever interest she may have had.
 
They're more subtle than you think. Could be as simple as a girl noticing you when you enter a room, girls touching their hair, arching their backs, making eye contact more than once, putting their hand on their hip, etc. Basically any detectable change in behavior (that isn't disgust) is an IOI
Most of that is pseudoscience. I mean, just put yourself in the position of the female, or if you're so inclined, a male being approached by a female. I mean, the notion that looking at someone insinuates attraction is retarded. If that's the case everyone would be walking around with their heads down. Women fidget with their fucking hair all the time, just like I fidget with my facial hair. I used to walk the halls in high school and women would look at me, but it was because they hated me. I had known history with said people; it's like seeing someone you know who you hate in your presence.

For fuck's sake, this whole female "might be attracted to me" bullshit is gigacope and should be stopped. If a woman ACTUALLY likes you, she will not only instigate personal conversation, but she will also ask you out. This happens to chad all the time, and since women aren't settling for anything below Chad, then if that shit isn't happening to you you're not getting any, especially if you're an incel.
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so, they only happen to 7/10+ psl males, but ONLY if the girl is drunk.

Gotcha

just lol, why do any of us here have hope?
We shouldn't have hope. We need to get revenge against the roastie.
 
I have seen my friend getting 2 iois, fuck this.
 
i go to college every day and have never seen one happen, ever. i try to observe every single social interaction between males and females

Probably because what you seem to think is an IOI is just cope.

Women go up and talk to guys they like and introduce themselves, ask for their number etc.
 
I was walking down the street with my Chadullah friend and three girls were eyefucking him but he was not paying them attention.
 
I was walking down the street with my Chadullah friend and three girls were eyefucking him but he was not paying them attention.
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Probably because what you seem to think is an IOI is just cope.

Women go up and talk to guys they like and introduce themselves, ask for their number etc.

lmao everyone in my area must be a total subhuman then.
 
Ok Mr expert on female body language, care to present your credentials?

Women glance at everyone when they enter a room. Everyone does. It's human instinct to pay basic attention to your surroundings. Women play with their hair, put their hands on their hips and arch their backs all the time, plus you never know who she could be doing it it for if there are multiple guys around. She could be looking at you for any reason.

See my post above. Women go up and talk to guys they like.
 
IOIs are definitely real, some of you have lethal autism
 
IOIs are definitely real, some of you have lethal autism

tbh im not even autistic, i lied about that. im just a shy faggot who spends all his time on the computer.
 
IOIs are definitely real, some of you have lethal autism
Not being able to pick up on social cues is a classic indicator of being on the spectrum.

IOIs exist, honestly if a woman is making prolonged eye contact more than once time that's an IOI, unless there is an explicit look of disgust.
 
Most of that is pseudoscience. I mean, just put yourself in the position of the female, or if you're so inclined, a male being approached by a female. I mean, the notion that looking at someone insinuates attraction is retarded. If that's the case everyone would be walking around with their heads down. Women fidget with their fucking hair all the time, just like I fidget with my facial hair. I used to walk the halls in high school and women would look at me, but it was because they hated me. I had known history with said people; it's like seeing someone you know who you hate in your presence.

For fuck's sake, this whole female "might be attracted to me" bullshit is gigacope and should be stopped. If a woman ACTUALLY likes you, she will not only instigate personal conversation, but she will also ask you out. This happens to chad all the time, and since women aren't settling for anything below Chad, then if that shit isn't happening to you you're not getting any, especially if you're an incel.
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We shouldn't have hope. We need to get revenge against the roastie.


High IQ post
 
Women glance at everyone when they enter a room. Everyone does. It's human instinct to pay basic attention to your surroundings. Women play with their hair, put their hands on their hips and arch their backs all the time, plus you never know who she could be doing it it for if there are multiple guys around. She could be looking at you for any reason.

See my post above. Women go up and talk to guys they like.

so what does this mean if a woman has never even glanced in your direction before, for ANY of those reasons

lol:feelsbadman:
 
Not being able to pick up on social cues is a classic indicator of being on the spectrum.

IOIs exist, honestly if a woman is making prolonged eye contact more than once time that's an IOI, unless there is an explicit look of disgust.
I agree. I think lots of people also deny it because they're too pussy to approach, which is understandable.
 
Not being able to pick up on social cues is a classic indicator of being on the spectrum.

IOIs exist, honestly if a woman is making prolonged eye contact more than once time that's an IOI, unless there is an explicit look of disgust.

i agree with you but i've literally never seen this eye contact thing happen. maybe those with chad friends have, idk.
 
Most of that is pseudoscience. I mean, just put yourself in the position of the female, or if you're so inclined, a male being approached by a female. I mean, the notion that looking at someone insinuates attraction is retarded. If that's the case everyone would be walking around with their heads down. Women fidget with their fucking hair all the time, just like I fidget with my facial hair. I used to walk the halls in high school and women would look at me, but it was because they hated me. I had known history with said people; it's like seeing someone you know who you hate in your presence.

For fuck's sake, this whole female "might be attracted to me" bullshit is gigacope and should be stopped. If a woman ACTUALLY likes you, she will not only instigate personal conversation, but she will also ask you out. This happens to chad all the time, and since women aren't settling for anything below Chad, then if that shit isn't happening to you you're not getting any, especially if you're an incel.
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We shouldn't have hope. We need to get revenge against the roastie.
You can't be serious. How deep in the spectrum are you buddy?
 
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Same. I rarely see girls checking out random guys on the street whether they are good looking or not.
 
tbh im not even autistic, i lied about that. im just a shy faggot who spends all his time on the computer.
I kno, and I believe you. Most girls keep their eyes glued to their phones these days
 
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ive seen females give IOI's to normies and chads, never had any indicators myself.

suicidefuel everytime.
 
Same. I rarely see girls checking out random guys on the street whether they are good looking or not.
Exactly. I've seen good looking guys get zero attention.
 
so what does this mean if a woman has never even glanced in your direction before, for ANY of those reasons

lol:feelsbadman:
It means you're a slightly luckier incel. Better to not interact with the female than to get shamed, bullied, harassed, and broken down by their evil ways.
 
so what does this mean if a woman has never even glanced in your direction before, for ANY of those reasons

lol:feelsbadman:

It means there's nothing that stands out about you good or bad.

People also might stare because you look like someone they know. It's happened to me.
 
anybody wanna explain what the fuck an IOI is?
 
This can't be real. How deep in the spectrum are you buddy?
Explain to me how it isn't. Females lack a true sex drive, I suppose an actual IOI would be one of those social experiments where the chad drives up in a Bugatti, lures the female in then it turns out his car was a corolla.

Regardless of the looks of the chad, the female always leaves or bitches in anger. Women are not sexually attracted to most men, they only have a slight semblance of it because that's how the female has adapted in nature, to carry the child and reproduce. That's why in other populations of animals, the only male that gets it is the alpha, because he's in the 99th percentile of attractiveness, leads the pack, has the most biological capital, and therefore is most fit to reproduce. In humans it is much the same except religion and developed society repressed those feelings through religion, government, and moral codes. Thanks to our new progressive society, all of those forces have been destroyed, and women can now freely fuck the alpha male once again.

And I'll say it once again, IOI=cope. Unless you are being actively courted by a female, or know you're chad or have a lot of financial capital, then you're just making it up in your head. When she looks at you, maybe she's looking at a picture behind you, or watching where to walk. I mean, does anyone here actually think that a woman is looking for sex if she's asking you where the bathrooms are in a restaurant? No, and if you do, then you're unironically on the spectrum.
 
I was walking down the street with my Chadullah friend and three girls were eyefucking him but he was not paying them attention.
Chadullah masallah, Allah blessed him with elite looks and he still lower his gaze and ignore iois a true good believer
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anybody wanna explain what the fuck an IOI is?
Indication of interest
 
And I'll say it once again, IOI=cope. Unless you are being actively courted by a female, or know you're chad or have a lot of financial capital, then you're just making it up in your head. When she looks at you, maybe she's looking at a picture behind you, or watching where to walk. I mean, does anyone here actually think that a woman is looking for sex if she's asking you where the bathrooms are in a restaurant? No, and if you do, then you're unironically on the spectrum.
 
Chadullah masallah, Allah blessed him with elite looks and he still lower his gaze and ignore iois a true good believer
Masha'Allah indeed, he is a humble person and prays everyday.
 
They're more subtle than you think. Could be as simple as a girl noticing you when you enter a room, girls touching their hair, arching their backs, making eye contact more than once, putting their hand on their hip, etc. Basically any detectable change in behavior (that isn't disgust) is an IOI
its over for noioicels
 
Females lack a true sex drive.

@Reddit_is_for_cucks
@catfishman23

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Dependingnon the girl. One girl plays faster with her hair than the other one.
 
Consider yourself lucky then.
Ive seen good looking guys get ioi's while I was ignored ( or rejected if I tried approaching)
 
anybody wanna explain what the fuck an IOI is?

I thought it was lol at first.

Me, I had an online friend of mine say she had a crush on me. That was before she actually saw me then subsequently seemed to forget she said that, lol. We were just chat room friends for several years. We still talk every now and then but we had a political argument that made me realize she's hardcore SJW so it killed the mental attraction for me.

Another woman I met on a chat room convinced me she was actually interested for a while, idk maybe she even was, but then she saw my autism on cam and quickly came up with other reasons to E-dump me. On cam at first she was twirling her hair and shit, but I think she was just proficient in the ways of cam-whoring. She basically just admitted she wanted attention later on, she was like 9/10 not someone I would even go for normally, wouldn't even consider anyone above average. She liked my sense of humor and wanted to be friends but also the added attention from camwhoring, at least that's now what I think was going on. But she acted genuinely interested and flirted non-stop and reeled me in. I have little to no experience so wasn't really prepared for any sort of female attention like that. Basically ghosted me but it fucked me up for a good year or so. Looking back this was the type of relationship most men have but earlier in life, and mine was online which is pretty pathetic.


After looksmaxxing and getting out of NEET mode I'm going to go try and talk to women IRL but it's scary. I'm so pathetic, I'm too old to have this level of social anxiety and the clock keeps ticking.
 
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Fuckin' aye man, I haven't either. Independent confirmations of this make me hopeful that I'm not that far gone. I'm outside way, way too often, but I also don't frequent bars, meetups, or whateverthefuck context in which you might expect the foidaloids to be a bit more forward. But as far as walking down the street, I pass my eyes over every hole I cross and take stock of their interactions with others out of the corner of my eye. The only things I ever see them looking at are their windowpane reflections, phones, or whichever friend/orbiter/boyfriend they might be stringing along.

Same. I rarely see girls checking out random guys on the street whether they are good looking or not.

Never had it happen, never seen it happen.
 

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