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Theory Incels will never be satisfied

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I have a theory about guys like us, incels.

Let’s say you’re not a good-looking man — a sub5.

Would you date your looks match? Would you really be satisfied with a sub5 woman?

I often see guys with overweight, unattractive women. It’s really disgusting, and I feel zero envy toward them.

So here’s the real question: Be honest — would you feel satisfied with a woman who isn’t attractive?

Today in a park, as always, I saw couples. One of them was an overweight couple — both obese. The woman was acting very needy, kissing his neck and so on.

When he saw me looking, he pushed her hands away. He seemed pissed off — and I know why.

> "Why can’t I just have a whale as a woman? If she wasn’t a whale, she wouldn’t be with me. I know it deep down — that whale is disgusting, and it’s all I can have in this life."



Call me a volcel, but I’ve realized that even if I met a woman who’s my looks match or below — and even if she genuinely loved me (yeah, let’s use our imagination lol) — I would still be deeply unsatisfied, especially when I see other men with better-looking women.

Being an incel means being deprived for so long that you destroy your brain with porn and fantasy for years. You become unable to feel satisfied. Some guys might still be able to — but I know I’m not one of them, and I’m pretty sure many here are like me.

We’ve seen, through the internet, what real love looks like. We’ve seen too many attractive women to ever be satisfied with below-average women.

I’m not saying incels want a 10/10 Stacy — we all do — but most of us would be fine with an average woman.

But if we think about it: if we’re sub5 and our looks match is a sub5 woman, satisfaction will never come.
 
baiT?? you an IT infiltrator??
 
Fat whores are still whores. If you smell really bad I can't be around anyway
 
Try to actually blend in.
 
Would you date your looks match? Would you really be satisfied with a sub5 woman?
Yes.

I often see guys with overweight, unattractive women. It’s really disgusting, and I feel zero envy toward them.
I do envy them, because they have affectionate relationships with my looksmatches.

So here’s the real question: Be honest — would you feel satisfied with a woman who isn’t attractive?
Yes.

Call me a volcel,
If you insist.

but I’ve realized that even if I met a woman who’s my looks match or below — and even if she genuinely loved me (yeah, let’s use our imagination lol) — I would still be deeply unsatisfied, especially when I see other men with better-looking women.
Eh, I wouldn't, I just want someone to genuinely love me:cryfeels:.

Also, I never really understood this kinda mindset. Like, 99% of men can see men in relationships with better-looking women than their girlfriends/wives as long as they simply use public transport and look at the people they pass by, that doesn't mean that 99% of men are unhappy in their relationships.

Being an incel means being deprived for so long that you destroy your brain with porn and fantasy for years.
Porn being "harmful" to brains is just a common fantasy of rightwingers and radical feminists. You can tell by the fact that they never say that to women despite a lot of women happily consuming porn as well:feelshaha:.

You become unable to feel satisfied.
Nah.

We’ve seen, through the internet, what real love looks like. We’ve seen too many attractive women to ever be satisfied with below-average women
I would.

But if we think about it: if we’re sub5 and our looks match is a sub5 woman, satisfaction will never come.
It would.
 
Why is this getting hate? He's right and that's the true blackpill. Your sub5 self and your sub5 wife would, after some years, begin to resent each other. It will be constant nagging, bickering, retarded attitudes. Sure it's better than complete isolation, it's still pure misery. It's like giving a homeless guy 100 bucks. Ugly women are still always going to crave attractive men.
You are not actually attracted to these sub5 women, you are just touch starved and projecting your image of a perfect obedient wife onto them, when they're mostly nastier than good looking women.
Hypergamy sucks but it isn't your main issue. If you are ugly, you won't be happy, it's just that hopeless and cutthroat.
 
I would, but it would not work the other way around. How could I, as an incel, still have standards? Beggars can’t be choosers. But the opposite does not apply. Suppose I’m a two out of ten, with a looksmatch who is also two out of ten. The male party will be satisfied because he is fulfilling his biological imperative to reproduce. But the female party will be unsatisfied due to the fact that he is her looksmatch. It does not work both ways. She will want something attractive, by her nature, thus leading to an unsatisfactory relationship.
 
You are not actually attracted to these sub5 women, you are just touch starved and projecting your image of a perfect obedient wife onto them, when they're mostly nastier than good looking women.
She only needs to stay fuckable. Which for myself, and most men, just don't be fat.
 
She only needs to stay fuckable. Which for myself, and most men, just don't be fat.
Just get a sex doll at that point. There is no love without physical attraction.
 
Lack of teen love is why I'll never be able to be satisfied, even if I got a woman she'd be a used up whore because of the legal age being excessively high and I'll still be pissed off about all the years spent being alone and being denied experiences.
 
My friends say my oneitis is a 4.
So yes.
 
So here’s the real question: Be honest — would you feel satisfied with a woman who isn’t attractive?
Yes, if she con love me for who I am and not for my money or for my utility in the household then I'd be perfectly contempt with a landwhale.
 
Why is this getting hate? He's right and that's the true blackpill. Your sub5 self and your sub5 wife would, after some years, begin to resent each other. It will be constant nagging, bickering, retarded attitudes. Sure it's better than complete isolation, it's still pure misery. It's like giving a homeless guy 100 bucks. Ugly women are still always going to crave attractive men.
You are not actually attracted to these sub5 women, you are just touch starved and projecting your image of a perfect obedient wife onto them, when they're mostly nastier than good looking women.
Hypergamy sucks but it isn't your main issue. If you are ugly, you won't be happy, it's just that hopeless and cutthroat.
At least someone understand my post.

This is really the ultimate blackpill, to realize that we as Incel are not better than shallow women in the end of the day, we all desire to be with someone at least average attractive.
Most guys will understand if they get a ugly girlfriend once the post nut clarity kicks in, it's going to be wild.
 
Yes, if she con love me for who I am and not for my money or for my utility in the household then I'd be perfectly contempt with a landwhale.
But do you realize that many women are expert in fake love, even landwhale ?
Most whale would leave their husband if they loose all the weight lol
 
I am not sure.

I am already 41, and many of these sorts of things might be too little, too late by now. Plus, there might be the expectation of marriage as many women are desperate to marry by their 30s and I do not believe in marriage as an institution.

I am a middle-aged man with no sexual or romantic experience and even if the latter were rectified, it would still not make up for the fact that I missed out on all of this right at the time when most other people have settled down by now or have to contend with all of the single mothers flooding my already-shallow dating pool.
 
Would you date your looks match? Would you really be satisfied with a sub5 woman?
Yes I would. I don't require from my GF anything I don't fulfil myself (except, obviously, everything directly related to being a man VS woman)
 
I can be with a women with her whole face burnt but not with a wale. You can change being a whale and I perceive it like a masculine feature
 
Speak for yourself. I would be more than happy to date down. Just as long as she wouldn't cheat on me.
 
Your right I'm a volcel would never go out with a whale what so ever
 
Speak for yourself. I would be more than happy to date down. Just as long as she wouldn't cheat on me.
Dating down is really a bad idea from my point of view, because i have seen WAY TO MUCH men dating bellow their league just to have the right to have a sex life and they endup miserable with a woman that is ugly and do not even have sex with them lol

Imagine becoming a betabuxx for a 3/10 woman, i have seen it and men just look miserable.
 
you sacrifice dignity if youre willing to fuck an obese woman (not counting chubby girls)
 
infiltrator + dnr + fakecel + yes i would + no i wouldn't date a fat hog no matter what
 
But if we think about it: if we’re sub5 and our looks match is a sub5 woman, satisfaction will never come.
You "guys" from IT think the issue is that we don't take care of ourselves or go outside. I work hard, everytime I fall I get up, and you expect us to beg for attention from whales who know nothing but gluttony lol.
Yes, I'd date a girl uglier than me who **takes care of herself, has values, and isn't a chad-worshipping whore**. Most of us are here because nowadays, those basic things are too much to ask for.
 
I would be satisfied with my exact looksmatch.
 
im sub1 so i get cheated on no matter what
 
Call me a volcel, but I’ve realized that even if I met a woman who’s my looks match or below — and even if she genuinely loved me (yeah, let’s use our imagination lol) — I would still be deeply unsatisfied, especially when I see other men with better-looking women.
Lads, I think I just found the world's first male 'femcel'
 
Lads, I think I just found the world's first male 'femcel'
It’s simple, bro, a lifetime of rejection inevitably leads to deep dissatisfaction, especially after years of witnessing what life could have been, like the lifestyle guys like Chad get to enjoy. There’s a reason why so many in the blackpill community are filled with rage over things like teen love, not because we’re ignorant of it, but because we know it exists, and we’ve been denied it from the start.
 
I don't care about my looks match or even getting pussy at all. I am ashamed of my appearance and hate my life, sex doesn't make you a Chad.

I won't be satisfied unless I evolve to be The Overhuman like Uncle ZaraNietzsche wants me to. Total liberation of my people, physical and actual transcendence over the genetic hierarchy. Those are what operational success parameters look like to me. That is the bare minimum to satisfy me.
 
As i get old my standards drop to almost non-existence, if no one else was around i would mouth fuck a landwhale probably and cum over her face. But even landwhales now can get laid with chads so it's not like i have any options.
 
I only care about my Oneitis i dont care for other women the sad part is that i will never have my Oneitis
 

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