I hate that I can't stop wanting a girlfriend

[slapthatsillywilly]

I hate my biology, I hate that I crave a woman's touch, approval, warmth, and care. And can't have it no matter what I do no matter how many women I approach irl or apps.

Anyone here transcended to not having such a strong longing for a woman any more?

Advice desperately needed.

 

[SocialOutkast95]

Yah, it's called aging and becoming more wise / acceptance through jadedness / depression. The day in / day out, monotony of life itself will eventually make you numb to everything, which, yes... includes the foids. Hell, I'm too fuck'd in the head and too apathetic to even look / deal with the evil foid ever again.

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

I hate my biology, I hate that I crave a woman's touch, approval, warmth, and care. And can't have it no matter what I do no matter how many women I approach irl or apps.

Anyone here transcended to not having such a strong longing for a woman any more?

Advice desperately needed.

You’re always gonna crave it man. Absolutely nothing you can do about it except distract yourself with hobbies. Gotta learn to accept that you have that need and it’s just gonna be brutal.

Anyone saying they learned to be totally fine without it is lying, and the fact they post on an incel forum proves it.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

It’s just a natural instinct, I wish we were more independent creatures to not want women but fuck Mother Nature for creating us this way

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

It’s just a natural instinct, I wish we were more independent creatures to not want women but fuck Mother Nature for creating us this way

Yeah it's brutal and fucked up having these desires we will never be able to fulfill. At least I have this forum of people who understand

 

[YourTypicalLoner]

I just want a Hot bitch that can make me Nutt but nope can't have that.

 

[Myst]

its nature what can you do about it

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

You’re always gonna crave it man. Absolutely nothing you can do about it except distract yourself with hobbies. Gotta learn to accept that you have that need and it’s just gonna be brutal.

Anyone saying they learned to be totally fine without it is lying, and the fact they post on an incel forum proves it.

Thanks. It always helps to be reminded to engage in hobbies instead of ldar.

I thought I was weak because people here say foids suck etc whereas I still want a relationship but I guess we all still want it deep down.

 

[Incline]

I tried to fight this but it's pointless you can't win against your own biology the only thing you can do is kill yourself to escape this feeling or just embrace it and try to maxx urself and see if you can do it if not then gtfo from this world.

 

[faded]

I hate my biology, I hate that I crave a woman's touch, approval, warmth, and care. And can't have it no matter what I do no matter how many women I approach irl or apps.

Anyone here transcended to not having such a strong longing for a woman any more?

Advice desperately needed.

Faggot

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Thanks. It always helps to be reminded to engage in hobbies instead of ldar.

I thought I was weak because people here say foids suck etc whereas I still want a relationship but I guess we all still want it deep down.

Hobbies help. Don’t listen to anyone who says to do nothing all day. If possible, do something enjoyable, instead of LDARing. Sometimes it’s ok to just have a day where you rest and do nothing, but not everyday.

I guarantee basically nobody here is LDARing as bad as they claim. Me personally, I always try to enjoy my car hobby no matter what because it makes me happy.

And you’re not weak for still wanting a relationship. Yes, modern foids do suck, but that doesn’t change the fact you are always gonna have an innate desire for a relationship and sex.

 

[Takuji5]

I hate my biology, I hate that I crave a woman's touch, approval, warmth, and care. And can't have it no matter what I do no matter how many women I approach irl or apps.

Anyone here transcended to not having such a strong longing for a woman any more?

Advice desperately needed.

Me too. I hate how no matter how much they piss me off or how retarded I find them I still just want to love and be loved by them. And I hate how this feeling seems to be completely one sided. God I wish I could just turn it off, they don't deserve this.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

Yeah it's brutal and fucked up having these desires we will never be able to fulfill. At least I have this forum of people who understand

True normies would think we’re just whining and complaining. It can lead to becoming misogynist, even trying to befriend a foid is harder than trying to befriend a guy. I hate their high standards when they say you’re too whatever. Fuck them

 

[Jezzy]

the only thing that helps me is to stay busy.. playing games.. music etc. otherwise i obsess about it all day n night

sux

 

[RechargedSamsung]

If you’re srsly touched starve you could try buying a multiple pillows and put some shirts on top of it to resemble some sort of human it’s probably the closest you can get to touching a human female humanoid body man

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

Hobbies help. Don’t listen to anyone who says to do nothing all day. If possible, do something enjoyable, instead of LDARing. Sometimes it’s ok to just have a day where you rest and do nothing, but not everyday.

I guarantee basically nobody here is LDARing as bad as they claim. Me personally, I always try to enjoy my car hobby no matter what because it makes me happy.

And you’re not weak for still wanting a relationship. Yes, modern foids do suck, but that doesn’t change the fact you are always gonna have an innate desire for a relationship and sex.

Thank you man

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

its nature what can you do about it

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

the only thing that helps me is to stay busy.. playing games.. music etc. otherwise i obsess about it all day n night

sux

What games do you play?

 

[charlieQ009]

I just jerk off and get post nut clarity. Works for me.

 

[CEO of Simps]

you can, its called whitepill

 

[thatwilldoit]

Biology is retarded and sexual urges are a form of torture

 

[Based_Catcel]

Same, I’m tired of being alone

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

: “Let’s unpack this inkwell. Biology isn’t real.”

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

Biology is retarded and sexual urges are a form of torture

100%

 

[Ashton-Il]

I hate my biology, I hate that I crave a woman's touch, approval, warmth, and care. And can't have it no matter what I do no matter how many women I approach irl or apps.

Anyone here transcended to not having such a strong longing for a woman any more?

Advice desperately needed.

Same here. I've been in the incel-sphere for 15 years. I'm in my mid 30's and have had hundreds of rejections, some of them incredibly cruel. I can tell you that things might get better when you die inside at some point and start to not feel much. Such was the case with me.. either Inceldom kills you or you just wither away and feel nothing. That is about the best you can hope for.. Even then the longing never fully leaves you.

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

Same here. I've been in the incel-sphere for 15 years. I'm in my mid 30's and have had hundreds of rejections, some of them incredibly cruel. I can tell you that things might get better when you die inside at some point and start to not feel much. Such was the case with me.. either Inceldom kills you or you just wither away and feel nothing. That is about the best you can hope for.. Even then the longing never fully leaves you.

Fuck I'm sorry I'm 30s also and have also been brutally rejected with women saying eww as if when I talked to them. I'm sorry you're also dealing with this hell man I'm glad for .is not sure how I coped before this lol