Interesting. So no hand jobs and no playing with tits. Got it. Thanks.
I'm not saying "no playing with tits", all I'm saying is that's not going to be "best part" of it, unless you are playing with the tits using your dick
When you are a "porn head", and your only frame of reference for sex comes from masturbating to porn
The first time you have sex it is going to feel weird and surreal, because you are going to notice this weird "disconnect" between visuals and stimuli
I'm more of an ass guy but I've definitely a breasts guy too, but here's the thing, I'm used to jerking off while i'm seeing tits and watching someone elses hands on tits, so when I finally saw the tits myself and held it in my head, it literally felt weird, like something was lacking, because the pleasure (stimulation to my penis) did not coincide with that experience
So a lot of us are literally going to have to retrain our fucking brains to feel "normal" having sex
The entire experience felt "lacking" and in that moment I knew why, because I was associating the pleasure I felt while masturbating with the acts I saw that coincided with that pleasure, so when It was finally me just sucking on titties and groping them, it felt weird to "feel nothing" (as in no pleasure) while it was happening, but when you think about it YOU SHOULD NOT EXPECT TO FEEL PLEASURE IN YOUR PELVIC AREA JUST BECAUSE YOU GRABBED SOME BREASTS
So porn has really fucked my shit up, I can say that for a fact lol
What I'm telling you is that don't go into this expecting some life changing experience that will be on par with porn
The handjob isn't going to feel that great, and what kind of angle do you expect the bitch to be at if she's jerking you off and her tits are facing down at you, are you fucking a contortionist lol?
All I'm telling you is that its going to feel weird and "lacking" because your only frame of reference is porn
Not just that, but you've gotten yourself used to being aroused by your own hand, and also not being touched by someone else whilst doing a sex act, it is going to feel all round weird, one of the weirdest things was the feeling of her hands on my body
It is seriously going to take a lot of us a few months of fucking whores to get to any sense of normalcy, we've been deprived of sex for so long that something which should be natural to us is weird and uncomfortable
That's what also confuses me about all these incels who think they are just going to "ascend" if they get a girlfriend, they don't realize how weird sex is going to be for them for their first time, they are going to feel very uncomfortable, you are going to have to untrain your brain from everything you've taught it by masturbating to porn for years
I'll say it again, your brain literally thinks that just from you seeing and holding titties you should feel pleasure, because when you see stuff like that you are jerking off, whereas with normal people sex starts off as "foreplay" and stuff like that is done before any penetration even takes place, so for a man who has had a normal sex life, not feeling instant pleasure and direct stimulation whilst doing foreplay feels normal, but to a guy who has been sex starved his entire life and has masturbated, you are literally going to feel this weird kind of "disconnect" and "lacking" feeling, because the visual stimuli and physical stimuli doesn't match up
Everything feels "out of sync"
Think I'll make this into a thread, I've never seen any incels talk about this
I want to ask you what (if anything) do you think women have to offer?
That's a very vague question
The question isn't what anyone thinks or claims someone has to off (that's just too subjective and personal)
The question is, what do you "want" or "need" from women
For me, its just sex, it doesn't matter what else a woman has to offer because all I want from a woman is sex