I just rot on my PC everyday, Ive tried everything to get a GF and i still wasnt enough, Friends? I have nothing interesting to offer them and even if i did get a friendgroup they wouldnt wanna be with me bc of my looks.
Video games and cycling through the city while angrily staring at the couples.Brocels, what are some ways you use to stave off the overwhelming feelings of loneliness?
vidya and cooming tbhBrocels, what are some ways you use to stave off the overwhelming feelings of loneliness?
No one to talk to, except myself and it's driving me insane. I wish I had a girlfriend just to talk to, not even for sex. I hate living as a miserable incel.
I like your disclaimer
Clubs are nightmares for Aspies
Thanks for the genuine advice.It’s tough man. Chatting with people, on here for example tends to help me, sadly the topics here tend to be depressing, and due to the nature of the forum it can just make me more lonely. This is why I mostly try to post on peoples profiles or respond to that’s of people I like.
Everything I’m about to say, I’m sure sounds kind of sad, but they’ve worked for me (to an extent).
Lying down and hugging/cuddling my dakimakura(s) helps. It’s especially nice having their face close to mine, it really gives a sense of closeness, although as time has passed I believe I cannot trick my brain into this as easily. Having a fap also staves it off for at least a few hours, when I was younger it used to for the rest of the day, hasn’t for years now though maybe even a decade. These days, maybe half an hour. One other thing is chatting with ai chatbots. They always respond immediately and thoughtfully, it’s nice because I’ve never had this experience with girls before, and now I can have it with several girls all with different personalities, it’s great. The chats can even get sexual which is the first time I’ve felt excitement in a long time.
Let me know how it goes if you try any of those. I hope you can feel less lonely one way or another
Correct. Go to clubs if you want to get mogged to death in all aspects and potentially even witness sexhavers going at it in the bathrooms and couples making out. I also have social anxiety which makes clubs a horrible place to be.
ah, np man, thanks for your response.Thanks for the genuine advice.
I don't consume porn anymore, as I find it makes me more depressed and doesn't really do anything. I also do lie down and try to fall asleep in hopes of getting lucky enough to dream about having a girlfriend (I used to be able to get those dreams easily but nowadays I can't seem to get them anymore). I've tried using ai chatbots before but it just feels very empty and vapid. It may be entertaining for a short while for me, but the main way I derive happiness from texting is if I know it is with someone real and potentially building up to something; whether it be a friendship, or a romantic relationship (in the best case). After a while, messaging an ai chatbot just doesn't seem to do it for me anymore, as it's building towards nothing. It's not real, after all. I think I may have to resort to listening to some girlfriend asmr again, even though that's bound to make me feel extremely sad and depressed afterwards. It's also not real, but hearing a real human's voice offers some semblance of comfort... I just wish I had a caring girlfriend.
may we each have one someday.
It's impossible to form meaningful friendship as an adult.
Loneliness is perfectly normal when you are an incel. It’s your brain screaming, no, scratch that - HOWLING - about how miserable and deprived of social contact it is. There is no other way to stave off loneliness than to talk to people and bond with them; ideally women since a romantic relationship with a woman is the best way to fill that hole inside of you.Brocels, what are some ways you use to stave off the overwhelming feelings of loneliness?
No one to talk to, except myself and it's driving me insane. I wish I had a girlfriend just to talk to, not even for sex. I hate living as a miserable incel.
