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SuicideFuel I just don't understand how others initiate sex

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Like I'm genuinley unaware. How does someone go from just talking to a foid, to making out, then sex? Do they ask, like "would you mind if I did [this]?", and gradually escalate the situation? I couldn't ask a foid to do something as simple as hold hands. Last time I did that, they said no. Do I ask for sex? No chance that's happening, I'm way too high inhib when it comes to that kind of stuff. Asking for sex sounds extremely awkward too.

So seeing others describing their sexual encounters is legit suicidefuel. I hate how they have it so easy.

It's like we're a different species. I feel so worthless as a result, I sometimes think of suicide. :feelsrope:
 
I'm no expert, but I feel the women would have to be mutually interested/involved for it to work (especially in modern hookup culture).
So think of it like the initiation would come more naturally I guess. If they haven't made it obvious, it probably won't work out from what I've observed.

I sometimes imagine it and how it would go, but the thought is so vague it may as well be a dream. Would we be sleeping in bed? Would we be cuddling together on the couch? Who knows, but I don't worry about it much, as I don't have the female in the first place. If that opportunity arises then the headspace may have changed, and it will be more apparent.
 
When a foid is attracted to you, you can just do whatever you want. You can give her a compliment on her nails then just reach out and grab her hands to get a closer look. If you are Chad, she won't mind and she'll be happy that you touched her. If you are sub5, there is a high chance that she will report you for assault or claim you graped her. But Chad can just grab, touch, kiss, invite her to his place, fuck, and creampie with little to no effort :feelsbadman:

You can read redpill forums to get an idea of how it works. "Escalation" is what they call the process of getting more intimate with a foid (hand holding -> kissing -> sex). Be warned that it's giga suifuel and ragefuel for incels, so be careful if you decide to go there :fuk:

 
They say "it just happens" and that's true for normies. It comes naturally. The community they come up in facilitates their access into sex.
 
So relatable. NTpill strikes again. You know it never began when your brain isn't even wired for it.
 
I do not either , guys here never kissed a girl in the first place , escort do not learn you to actually go from talk to sex.

Incels are stuck in a situation where if the girl isn't trying hard to get your dick, you will never smash her pussy, also for guys here, initiatie sex with a woman might be a VERY dangerous thing to do, sub5 trying to kiss a woman is sexual assault.
 
Like I'm genuinley unaware. How does someone go from just talking to a foid, to making out, then sex? Do they ask, like "would you mind if I did [this]?", and gradually escalate the situation? I couldn't ask a foid to do something as simple as hold hands. Last time I did that, they said no. Do I ask for sex? No chance that's happening, I'm way too high inhib when it comes to that kind of stuff. Asking for sex sounds extremely awkward too.

So seeing others describing their sexual encounters is legit suicidefuel. I hate how they have it so easy.

It's like we're a different species. I feel so worthless as a result, I sometimes think of suicide. :feelsrope:
I know right? Recently I was lying in bed and I couldn't believe that people actually get naked and have sex together. That's so far outside of my experience. It seems SO awkward to get naked with another person in the same bed and have sex. Like I can't even imagine doing that. I've never ever done anything like that with another person. That's what 40+ years of KHHV does to a dude.

It just seems like knowledge normies just automatically know somehow from age 11 on, "How to have sex with someone" and "where to get weed."

I would have no idea where to even get weed, and I've never known.

At any given second of any day, anywhere from 2 to 45 million people worldwide are having sex according to ChatGPT. Think about that.
 
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I've seen so many of my normy friends just making out with girls while at parties. I turned around one second and they were making out, I have no idea how they did it. I've never gotten an explenation from them either, just 'We started making out' that's it.
 
Like I'm genuinley unaware. How does someone go from just talking to a foid, to making out, then sex? Do they ask, like "would you mind if I did [this]?", and gradually escalate the situation? I couldn't ask a foid to do something as simple as hold hands. Last time I did that, they said no. Do I ask for sex? No chance that's happening, I'm way too high inhib when it comes to that kind of stuff. Asking for sex sounds extremely awkward too.

So seeing others describing their sexual encounters is legit suicidefuel. I hate how they have it so easy.

It's like we're a different species. I feel so worthless as a result, I sometimes think of suicide. :feelsrope:
brutal autism pill I relate, can't even picture starting sex in my head I literally only know of the act itself from porn and hentai but everything that comes prior? nope.
 
At any given second of any day, anywhere from 2 to 45 million people worldwide are having sex according to ChatGPT. Think about that.

I would rather not. :feelsrope:
 
I am also absolutely clueless on this.
 
This is gonna hurt, but in most cases all htn+ have to do is look at the foid in the eyes and grab their hand, the foid will be all over them. Iโ€™m not even kidding, itโ€™s like their presence just activates them. As long as the htn doesnโ€™t show any hesitation, the foid will go along with anything and even initiate further. :society: We will never experience this.
 
Do not worry about it :feelsokman:

The only way for subhuman truecels to initiate sex is after they pay a prostitute :feelsokman:
 
I've seen so many of my normy friends just making out with girls while at parties. I turned around one second and they were making out, I have no idea how they did it. I've never gotten an explenation from them either, just 'We started making out' that's it.
How many normie friends do you have? :chad:

But yeah it's like normies have an inbuilt radar and they know when the opposite sex is turned on and ready to make out, and they just start making out. They both know they want that dopamine hit and they go for it. There isn't any thinking or hesitation involved. @SlayerSlayer
 
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