Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

I am so grateful for this forum. Nowhere else can I vent and speak my mind like here. Inceldom is so mentally and physically draining

Ranny

Ranny

toasty roasties ;-)
★★★★★
Joined
Mar 23, 2021
Posts
499
Online
10d 17h 40m
Long, personal story ahead. TLDR below!!!


I don’t know where it all went wrong. As a little, I was shy but nice. The tall, mean boys bullied me and didn’t want me to play with them. These same boys have had relationships from the age of 9 years.

Still, I thought, I was young and someday, a girl would fall in love with me. I dreamt of hugging her and laughing, going on trips, kissing.

High school: All the 13 yo boys are already having sex. Fine, I thought. I still have time. I tried very had during High School - but it never worked out. I graduated High Sc

You should know, I live in Luxembourg. Located in Western Europe. Citizen count: 500.000 people. Almost 50 % are portuguese/french/german/.

Most guys here had gf's or had no problem to be able to get one. Short portuguese dudes/tall, german chads/normies/incels. Yes, you heard absolutely right: incels had gf's. Hell, even cute ones. I went to middle school and high school on the country side. Most were looksmatched, even.

That was from 2002-2012. I graduated High School.

The year 2012. Tinder. OkCupid. Bumble. Facebook. Smartphones.

I see a change of couples. I see good looking, 18 yo boys with MULTIPLE. girls around them in the cafeteria. Most guys below 4/10 were sitting alone/on their phone or with a group of below 4/10 guys.

I noticed that girls dressed differently - their behavior had changed. The cute, shy, 3/10 girl I had known since middle school was getting bitter. When I tried to talk to her casually, she was very cold towards me. She never was before.

A lot of couples ver not looksmatched anymore. Most 7.5/10 guys had 5/10 gf's. Most 5/10 guys had 3/10 gf's. A lot had changed. I've seen a monopoly - chad's monopoly.

Girls had realized that sharing a handsome man was a better deal than being in a loving relationship with a looksmatched male. They filter the unattractive males and go straight to the 'top men of tinder'. They see what other girls are dating. They, too, want to date these men.

So, they offer their bodies to these me . They think they can become their gf's. At the same time, chad knows that many girls want him - he can sleep around and the girls would be okay with it. The media, female artists and feminists tell young women to be wild.

Meeting a young, hard working man and being in a loving relationship with them, marrying them, having a baby - that is no longer the objective of women today.

Women were told to experience life and have fun during their 20's. Sex is portrayed as something a girl must have a lot of - or be considered low SMV.

Young women on Tik Tok showing their flawless, young bodies. Giga Chads showing their face and bodies on Instagram. Society had changed. Looks/success/admiration took over.

Women suddenly had a device in their hand that would present them with thousands of potential, hot men within their reach. They augmented their standards accordingly.

Men were presented with a device that would compare them to omni-Chads like Chris Hemsworth, the Rock, Sean O'Pry. They hardly had a chance.

These men all have countless women writing them every day. While the average man is staring at his phone while thinking: 'Maybe the black single mother quadriplegic landwhale roast beef foidlet saw my message and is too busy to answer - yeah, that-that must be it!' Buddy boyo, she is writing Chris Hemsworth a message with her fat fingers while you cope.

I graduate college after many attempts of getting into a relationship. I was met with cold, painful rejections. Despite my 5ft2 height, I tried to ask out short girls - most laughed at me and called me 'cute but I wasn’t their type'. At least they were nice. I was well liked throughout my school years.

At 20 yo, I stumbled upon the blackpill. I laughed at it and thought these guys were memeing. I was completely bluepilled up until then. Egg White sitting in his car talking about genetically superior men - I was keking :feelskek:.

I read some more. And it hit me like a train. Brutal. Absolutely BRUTAL. I was blackpilled :feelspuke:. It was all true. These experiences of these men were identical to mine. The rejections, the pain, the bullying.

I tried to follow the advice of incels. 'Looksmaxxing'. It did not work out. Sure, I was fit and bought expensive clothes. But when I asked 'What I am I doing wrong?', incels told me 'You are 5ft2 and ethnic.'


And just like that, it was over. It didn’t matter. The approaches, looksmaxxing. I was held back by my genes, as Egg White and incels were saying for years.

Here I am, 26 years old, a KHHV, mentally and physically drained. I masturbate 3 times a day to forget about wanting to have a loving gf I can cuddle and have sex with.

I probably won’t have children with the girl I love and grow old with her. I open my tinder every day and get ignored. Women hate me or just see through me. My personality never has a chance to shine through.


TLDR: It was over all along. It was over when I was born a 5ft2 ethnic man in the West during the era of Tinder Chad-buffets.
 
Ranny

Ranny

toasty roasties ;-)
★★★★★
Joined
Mar 23, 2021
Posts
499
Online
10d 17h 40m
Brutal ignore-pill :feelsrope:
 
R

rottingricecel

Recruit
★★★
Joined
Sep 8, 2021
Posts
273
Online
9d 11h 16m
too typical isnt it
 
GoyBargainer

GoyBargainer

Just know that if you hide, it doesn't go away
★★★
Joined
Sep 14, 2021
Posts
771
Online
7d 10h 15m
 
Agatha_Chan

Agatha_Chan

THE WORLD WANTS US TO KILL OURSELVES, IT REALLY DO
-
Joined
Apr 8, 2021
Posts
371
Online
7d 14h 39m
RandomBroCel

RandomBroCel

Voicecel
Joined
May 8, 2021
Posts
584
Online
6d 16h 45m
Where is your avi gif from
 
Pixycel

Pixycel

Fiat justitia ruat caelum
★★★★★
Joined
Sep 21, 2020
Posts
6,786
Online
149d 17h 27m
RandomBroCel said:
Where is your avi gif from
I'm like 90% sure it's Tony Sirico from the sopranos
 
RecessedChinCel

RecessedChinCel

Major
★★★★★
Joined
May 19, 2021
Posts
2,445
Online
52d 1h 58m
Incel Tears posters don’t talk about stories like this. They will cherrypick glownigger posts and make fake accounts just to push a narrative.

I’m sorry you had to go through all that OP. People are shit. Foids are shit.

At least take some comfort in knowing none of it was your fault. Don’t ever let yourself become gaslit.
 
Lonelycel

Lonelycel

Captain
★★★★★
Joined
May 2, 2018
Posts
9,675
Online
64d 8h 21m
Fuark, this is brutal man. My condolences to you. Are you really 5'2?
 
Autismus Maximus

Autismus Maximus

Veteran
Joined
Jul 13, 2020
Posts
1,078
Online
22d 1h 4m
Ranny said:
You should know, I live in Luxembourg
That makes two of us. My story is very similar, apart from a good dose of undiagnosed autism perpetually cucking me.

I foresee a massive rise in Inceldom in this country as property prices inflate further. You need to be, what, a millionaire to build a house on a plot of land now? More and more men live with their parents, and foids still cling to their 10000 euro vacation lifestyle. Everyone I know who's in a relationship always talks about how the bitch is nagging and starting fights over not being a homeowner yet. What better idea than to take on crippling debt while the largest construction market in the world, China, is going tits up.

I do find the ever increasing number of landwhales amusing, though.
 
Arabcel9

Arabcel9

No longer human
Joined
Apr 30, 2020
Posts
3,072
Online
7d 15h 27m
damn , an oldcel like you must have been loneley before finding a place like this
 
Ranny

Ranny

toasty roasties ;-)
★★★★★
Joined
Mar 23, 2021
Posts
499
Online
10d 17h 40m
Pixycel said:
I'm like 90% sure it's Tony Sirico from the sopranos
tbh
Arabcel9 said:
damn , an oldcel like you must have been loneley before finding a place like this
I coped on r9k before it was infiltrated by normies
 
Cristo

Cristo

Nothing
★★★
Joined
Aug 30, 2021
Posts
266
Online
3d 17h 0m
It truly never began. In fucking Luxembourg no less.:feelsrope::blackpill:
 
shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape7
shape8
Top