You can't kill your ego. It's the modern age "enlightenment" cope made by psychedelic junkies.
I'm assuming when you say ego you mean simply having a "sense of self", I doubt he is speaking about "ego" in that context, notice he even said "get over envy and accept ones inferiority"
He is speaking about ego in the sense of "pride" and how it makes you think and act (this is the kind of "ego" that I'm talking about when I say "ego", not merely having a sense of self)
For example, a large majority of incels say they will never pay for sex because of pride alone, because paying means there is no "validation" and they aren't "desired", that's the kind of "ego" that you can kill
Nobody is talking about anything that has to do with "enlightenment", were talking about being limited by your own pride (and I will say once again as I always have, it is very ironic that so many incels are so prideful despite going all over the forum and referring to themselves as "subhuman")
You need a purpose, without ego you'd have no strength to follow the steps.
The only thing one needs in life to "have strength" is desire and yearning, "purpose" is not required, "purpose" is a man made concept
I'm pretty sure you ate food today and also drank water, you'd do those things regardless of "purpose" because its what you body desires/yearns for, so its what you desire/yearn for
One merely needs to acknowledge their desires and pursue them, but that brings us back to the problem of ego
Its ironically your ego that might keep you from pursuing a desire because you feel like the only means you have to claim that desire isn't something that is "prideful" (like in the example I spoke about above)
So your ego may actually end up taking away your strength, because you will limit your thoughts and actions and life because of your pride
I'd bet my life that all the LDAR guys on this forum are egoists, talk to any of them and you'll see, everything comes down to pride
"Why should I have to do X, when Chad can do Y, I deserve Y too"
"Might as well LDAR all day, I'll never get Y"
They simply can't accept that they will never get Y and move on and accept that its their lot in life to get X instead
There are people born not being able to ever walk due to some condition, imagine how stupid it would sound if they said "Why should I have to use a wheelchair when other people can walk, I refuse, I'll just lie in bed all day"
He doesn’t jfl. He cries in his pillow every night like many of us. He is just larping the cool and cold dude here. This is the internet.
I don't even know how people sleep on pillows, it always fucks my neck up, stopped years ago, also keep coping and keep projecting lol
He always seems to think he knows things better
I'm confused, is one not supposed to think that their beliefs are true?
If you have no faith in your own beliefs, then why would you even believe in them?
Also I don't "always" think so, I'm just more vocal about my beliefs than others
Isn't it a greater indicator of being egotistical that you don't even think your beliefs need to be argued or defended, and you can just ignore any and all criticism and assert to yourself that you're right?
@BlkPillPres I saw these and read them in the past. Has some good points. However easier said then done lol. I think the ENVY aspect is one of the most difficult aspect for us to get over due to seeing others succeeding while we fail. (ie educated high tier normies holding hands on a friday night in my area).
You need to simply focus more on what you want rather than what others have, there's always someone who has more than you. I'm more angry everyday by what I don't have than getting angry about what someone else has
There's really no point in being envious in a world that is so inherently unjust and unfair
As envious as you are of others, there's someone who would even envy you
As unlucky as we all are, there was still some luck on our side to not be born with extreme physical and/or mental disabilities
Imagine being born with some condition that leaves your face looking grotesque and deformed, you would not even be able to pay for sex, no whore would fuck you, I'm sure such a man exists, I would have killed myself by now under such conditions
I would say its also a waste of time for you to try and stop feeling envious, there's no reason for you to stop in such an unnatural fashion. Envy should stop when it you are satisfied with your life, its not something you are supposed to "actively do", its something that comes about by getting the things you want in life
You'll feel less bad about what other people have when you gain more of the things that you wanted
For you that may be harder based on your criteria, for me my only criteria is money and resources
I've already noticed from my time spent here that I don't have the same mental limitations as most users because I don't desire a lot of the sentimental things they do
The things most incels desire
REQUIRES OTHER PEOPLES CO-OPERATION
The things incels like me desire
REQUIRES ONLY OUR OWN EFFORT
If you want to be "loved", or "desired", or "respected", then I do feel sorry for you, because all those things require that other people cooperate and go along with your "fantasy".
All people like me want is the money and resources required to buy whatever we want in life to satisfy our physical needs
*how in particular would I/we deal with this particular aspect?
*how would we deal with peers (or in my case) parents who love me but can clearly see they are dissapointed in me not being able to achieve their expectations. (knowing most likely I would NEVER be able to achieve it due to various bio/situational/environmental factors working against me.
-stuck between a rock and a hard place
I don't think I can properly advise most people here because a lot of the things you guys want out of life I don't want, so a lot of the problems you have do not exist for me, I would not know a solution because to me not having the problem is the solution
What my parents think of me is no issue to me at all because I've always been a loner and I plan on leaving my current life behind completely
One day I'm going to change my name, leave my country, delete all of my contacts, and never go back (and I'm not contacting anyone from my past life again either)
So you see the problem, what you are speaking about would never be an issue to someone like me
I live for my own sake, I live for my own desires, I stopped concerning myself with what the "people in my life" think about me long ago, because for me, my perfect life is a life in which I don't have "people in my life"
I feel most comfortable and free when I'm alone and having my needs met
Nothing makes me feel more calm than to be in a room alone by myself, watching a show and eating some good food. When that silence is broken by the voice of someone else I sometimes get really annoyed lol
The entire concept of "loneliness" that I see so many incels complain about is something I can't relate to, because I really just want to live on my own and not be bothered by anyone else or even having to "socialize"
I don't want a family, or children, and I don't want friends either, I prefer associates
I don't want to have other peoples problems to worry about, people and problems go hand in hand, so long as you associate with normies they will leech off of your success and complicate your life with their problems, because they don't want simple lives, they want drama and "excitement"