
BlkPillPres
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1. You have to learn to stop thinking of yourself or anyone else for that matter, as someone who is "deserving of X"
The entire concept of ego revolves around you thinking that you DESERVE something, once you acknowledge that you don't deserve anything and nobody deserves anything, your ego will fade away with time
Of course that's going to be hard for most incels, because the majority of incels I've met on this site are ironically the stereotypical "entitled" incel normies like to talk about and use as an excuse as to why we all can't get women
They all think they DESERVE a virgin GF/Wife as if reality itself owes them this by virtue of existing, and that's why they have these standards and cravings for "female affection" and "feeling desired", because they think that's what they are owed from life
How can I put it, they bought a game called "Life", and they didn't realize that the "love and companionship" addon was a DLC they had to randomly get from the games RNG algorithm, or buy it from the game store, the addon doesn't come with the game, its something ADDITIONAL to the game, nobody is just "supposed" to get it
"Love" (well what people think love is) is not something anyone is owed, just because you see other people with it, and they get it easily, doesn't mean its "part of the package", our egos delude us into thinking that it is, and some injustice took place because we can't get it
2. You need to also think like a realist, become more of a nihilist, you have to understand that what you want from life may not be what life has to offer in this current era, a lot of what many of you want, no longer exists, you were born too late and too early, I realized that long ago so I stopped chasing ghosts, as long as you have this stubborn optimist mindset of "I want X I'll keep waiting around for it" you'll never find any satisfaction in life
A lot of people are optimists without even realizing it, and even in the cases when they aren't they are just being stubborn like a child, basically saying - "well if I can't get this, I'll have nothing then"............ ok, you are really just punishing yourself, you can't "harm life/existence" by virtue of you refusing any options available to you, its just you losing out, you can't spite society/reality by you denying yourself alternatives
Ascension is a waste of time, well with the paths many want to pursue, many could probably ascend if they move to a poorer more traditional country and never leave but they don't want to make any sacrifices. For the most part thought, its a complete waste, but most incels don't want anything but ascension, so they endlessly chase that dream
3. It isn't a coincidence that a lot of the people who think like this are moralfags
Morality is just another aspect of ones ego, you adhere to a "higher standard" and by virtue of that you see yourself as a "higher being" and those that don't adhere to it as "beneath you" in some sense, abandoning conventional morality is another step in killing your ego
Not only that, the most important benefit of doing this is that it opens of more paths for you to pursue in life, many of which you would have rejected for moral reasons, when you are no longer restricted by morality, everyone else is basically playing against you with a handicap, because there are things you would do, especially in a life and death situation that they would not, and you'll survive because of it while they'll die
In Summary:
1. Stop thinking of yourself as someone who is deserving, stop thinking of yourself as "a person", as "somebody", you are nobody, nothing, you are the sum of your wants and desires just like any other living creature on the planet
2. Stop having an optimists perspective of "it'll happen" or "its out there" and/or stop being stubborn and refusing all paths as if trying to spite society/reality
3. Stop abiding by conventional morality, think of all humans around you as nothing, just as you think of yourself as nothing, be open to pursuing paths that others wouldn't because it isn't "the right thing"
An ego is only a positive/beneficial thing when you have the means and opportunity to feed and stroke it, if you don't have that, you are just pointlessly carrying around a burden, a craving that will never be satisfied
The entire concept of ego revolves around you thinking that you DESERVE something, once you acknowledge that you don't deserve anything and nobody deserves anything, your ego will fade away with time
Of course that's going to be hard for most incels, because the majority of incels I've met on this site are ironically the stereotypical "entitled" incel normies like to talk about and use as an excuse as to why we all can't get women
They all think they DESERVE a virgin GF/Wife as if reality itself owes them this by virtue of existing, and that's why they have these standards and cravings for "female affection" and "feeling desired", because they think that's what they are owed from life
How can I put it, they bought a game called "Life", and they didn't realize that the "love and companionship" addon was a DLC they had to randomly get from the games RNG algorithm, or buy it from the game store, the addon doesn't come with the game, its something ADDITIONAL to the game, nobody is just "supposed" to get it
"Love" (well what people think love is) is not something anyone is owed, just because you see other people with it, and they get it easily, doesn't mean its "part of the package", our egos delude us into thinking that it is, and some injustice took place because we can't get it
2. You need to also think like a realist, become more of a nihilist, you have to understand that what you want from life may not be what life has to offer in this current era, a lot of what many of you want, no longer exists, you were born too late and too early, I realized that long ago so I stopped chasing ghosts, as long as you have this stubborn optimist mindset of "I want X I'll keep waiting around for it" you'll never find any satisfaction in life
A lot of people are optimists without even realizing it, and even in the cases when they aren't they are just being stubborn like a child, basically saying - "well if I can't get this, I'll have nothing then"............ ok, you are really just punishing yourself, you can't "harm life/existence" by virtue of you refusing any options available to you, its just you losing out, you can't spite society/reality by you denying yourself alternatives
Ascension is a waste of time, well with the paths many want to pursue, many could probably ascend if they move to a poorer more traditional country and never leave but they don't want to make any sacrifices. For the most part thought, its a complete waste, but most incels don't want anything but ascension, so they endlessly chase that dream
3. It isn't a coincidence that a lot of the people who think like this are moralfags
Morality is just another aspect of ones ego, you adhere to a "higher standard" and by virtue of that you see yourself as a "higher being" and those that don't adhere to it as "beneath you" in some sense, abandoning conventional morality is another step in killing your ego
Not only that, the most important benefit of doing this is that it opens of more paths for you to pursue in life, many of which you would have rejected for moral reasons, when you are no longer restricted by morality, everyone else is basically playing against you with a handicap, because there are things you would do, especially in a life and death situation that they would not, and you'll survive because of it while they'll die
In Summary:
1. Stop thinking of yourself as someone who is deserving, stop thinking of yourself as "a person", as "somebody", you are nobody, nothing, you are the sum of your wants and desires just like any other living creature on the planet
2. Stop having an optimists perspective of "it'll happen" or "its out there" and/or stop being stubborn and refusing all paths as if trying to spite society/reality
3. Stop abiding by conventional morality, think of all humans around you as nothing, just as you think of yourself as nothing, be open to pursuing paths that others wouldn't because it isn't "the right thing"
An ego is only a positive/beneficial thing when you have the means and opportunity to feed and stroke it, if you don't have that, you are just pointlessly carrying around a burden, a craving that will never be satisfied
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