BlkPillPres
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1. This was before I graduated to go on to university. I used to think of myself as someone who was pretty smart, in fact I took pride in it, I took pride in being known as one of the "top smart guys" in class, well my pride in my intelligence was destroyed in two phases, the first I didn't even notice because I ignored it, the 2nd was undeniable and it kind of killed all of my academic motivation
1.1 - I studied really hard to get to the top of the class only to be beaten by a guy who barely studied at all (based on his own words) because he had photographic memory (I think this is one of my most significant experiences about the unfairness of genetics)
1.2 - After the first year or so at university I started to realize how average I was, over time tbh my motivation began to dwindle and others seemed to be able to carry on and pass exams like it was nothing, probably because they had social lives, but still, there were a lot of smart guys there and I started to realize that if I kept competing in the realm of intelligence and didn't seek out alternatives or loopholes I'd be stuck never getting anything I want
2. I used to think I had a chance at dating, when I arrived at university I decided to "make a change", I went all out, I was more outgoing, I did a lot of approaching, etc. IT DID NOT MATTER, I am literally cringing right now writing this shit because I always flash back to the memories of the shit I did JFL
The last straw was when I started trying to court this girl who was below my looks league at the time (started to feel the cringe again), she seemed autistic too, even more so than me, things were going alright and I tried to make a move and she flinched, she pulled away, that shit hit me hard, because at that moment it truly sunk in for me, that even if I tried to date really low down I'd still fail, all motivation to approach was killed for me after that, I just stopped trying, my academic performance went down from there too
3. One of my friends fucking killed himself, and he was somewhat of a normie that dated and had sex, that was the last fucking straw for me, because I realized that nothing in my life that I planned was secure, he was part of a trio of friends (myself included) and I always thought it was going to be the three of us (the other one was attending the same university with me, the friend that killed himself was about to start that year, we'd be together again like the old times)
I think it was then that I realized that there are no rules, everything I was told about life was a lie, all of these experiences together showed me this, and one of the most important lessons from this one specifically, is that YOU CANNOT PLAN YOUR LIFE AROUND OTHERS, YOU CAN ONLY PLAN YOUR LIFE AROUND YOURSELF
Making plans based on your expectations of others is a huge flaw, you are the only constant, everything else is a variable, only make plans FOR YOU that are dependent on ONLY YOUR PARTICIPATION, then decide if you are going to let others "come along for the ride" (if even at all)
Those three things together ended my life as a normie, there are a lot more experiences compounded together that black pilled me, but those three in particular I think truly shaped me, they left me no room to cope
I completely abandoned any sense of pride as I realized how useless it would be to someone like me who could only derive pain and shame from having an ego, I just let it go, the same way that someone with cancer would just let that shit go if they could simply will it out of existence
Once you let go of your ego, so too does your morality go along with it over time, because morality is rooted to ones ego, all moralfags are egoists, that's not a coincidence, morality is inherently an egotistical position, because it requires you to believe in a "higher standard" and to value yourself based on how well you adhere to it, and devalue others as beneath you based on them not adhering to it
Any sense of morality I had the first few months after all that shit, gone, it just faded away, I seriously didn't even have to try, once your perspective changes, and you stop seeing yourself as "a person" and rather as just the consciousness inhabiting your body, a collective force of wants and desires that can perceive existence, morality doesn't matter, nothing matters, all that exists is your consciousness and what pleases it, and that's all you need to seek out, everything else is a distraction
I seriously believe that anyone who hasn't abandoned their ego yet just hasn't truly been black pilled yet, there are still aspects of their "humanity" that they are holding onto because they just haven't faced the "trauma" necessary for them to stop accepting certain lies
As men raised in this modern era, we all have certain lies that we all accept as truth because we were raised to, but not only that, these lies are comfortable lies, they make existence seem more "magical" and "meaningful"
Once you've been fully black pilled, you'll notice that you no longer cling to any of the things you were raised to think, you are a completely different "person" to your blue pilled self, in fact its like you aren't even a "person" anymore, you're no longer chained to the concepts of "personage" that once bound you
A lot of you might read this and think of it as a sad story, but TBH I'm glad these events happened, they stopped me from becoming someone that my current self would truly resent, I can see clearly the path I was heading on, I would have definitely ended up some loser betabuxx, no doubt about it, working a dead end low pay job too
The black pill saved me, but boy was it a brutal awakening, I was left no room to cope, its kind of ridiculous, I had no pride to fall back on to cope, and one of my friends offed himself around the same time (some months after) as my rejection from the girl beneath my looks league (well she was at the time), its like I was left no option but to accept the black pill, I had nowhere to retreat to mentally, I even started to think God was directly fucking with me JFL (if he exists maybe he was)
1.1 - I studied really hard to get to the top of the class only to be beaten by a guy who barely studied at all (based on his own words) because he had photographic memory (I think this is one of my most significant experiences about the unfairness of genetics)
1.2 - After the first year or so at university I started to realize how average I was, over time tbh my motivation began to dwindle and others seemed to be able to carry on and pass exams like it was nothing, probably because they had social lives, but still, there were a lot of smart guys there and I started to realize that if I kept competing in the realm of intelligence and didn't seek out alternatives or loopholes I'd be stuck never getting anything I want
2. I used to think I had a chance at dating, when I arrived at university I decided to "make a change", I went all out, I was more outgoing, I did a lot of approaching, etc. IT DID NOT MATTER, I am literally cringing right now writing this shit because I always flash back to the memories of the shit I did JFL
The last straw was when I started trying to court this girl who was below my looks league at the time (started to feel the cringe again), she seemed autistic too, even more so than me, things were going alright and I tried to make a move and she flinched, she pulled away, that shit hit me hard, because at that moment it truly sunk in for me, that even if I tried to date really low down I'd still fail, all motivation to approach was killed for me after that, I just stopped trying, my academic performance went down from there too
3. One of my friends fucking killed himself, and he was somewhat of a normie that dated and had sex, that was the last fucking straw for me, because I realized that nothing in my life that I planned was secure, he was part of a trio of friends (myself included) and I always thought it was going to be the three of us (the other one was attending the same university with me, the friend that killed himself was about to start that year, we'd be together again like the old times)
I think it was then that I realized that there are no rules, everything I was told about life was a lie, all of these experiences together showed me this, and one of the most important lessons from this one specifically, is that YOU CANNOT PLAN YOUR LIFE AROUND OTHERS, YOU CAN ONLY PLAN YOUR LIFE AROUND YOURSELF
Making plans based on your expectations of others is a huge flaw, you are the only constant, everything else is a variable, only make plans FOR YOU that are dependent on ONLY YOUR PARTICIPATION, then decide if you are going to let others "come along for the ride" (if even at all)
Those three things together ended my life as a normie, there are a lot more experiences compounded together that black pilled me, but those three in particular I think truly shaped me, they left me no room to cope
I completely abandoned any sense of pride as I realized how useless it would be to someone like me who could only derive pain and shame from having an ego, I just let it go, the same way that someone with cancer would just let that shit go if they could simply will it out of existence
Once you let go of your ego, so too does your morality go along with it over time, because morality is rooted to ones ego, all moralfags are egoists, that's not a coincidence, morality is inherently an egotistical position, because it requires you to believe in a "higher standard" and to value yourself based on how well you adhere to it, and devalue others as beneath you based on them not adhering to it
Any sense of morality I had the first few months after all that shit, gone, it just faded away, I seriously didn't even have to try, once your perspective changes, and you stop seeing yourself as "a person" and rather as just the consciousness inhabiting your body, a collective force of wants and desires that can perceive existence, morality doesn't matter, nothing matters, all that exists is your consciousness and what pleases it, and that's all you need to seek out, everything else is a distraction
I seriously believe that anyone who hasn't abandoned their ego yet just hasn't truly been black pilled yet, there are still aspects of their "humanity" that they are holding onto because they just haven't faced the "trauma" necessary for them to stop accepting certain lies
As men raised in this modern era, we all have certain lies that we all accept as truth because we were raised to, but not only that, these lies are comfortable lies, they make existence seem more "magical" and "meaningful"
Once you've been fully black pilled, you'll notice that you no longer cling to any of the things you were raised to think, you are a completely different "person" to your blue pilled self, in fact its like you aren't even a "person" anymore, you're no longer chained to the concepts of "personage" that once bound you
A lot of you might read this and think of it as a sad story, but TBH I'm glad these events happened, they stopped me from becoming someone that my current self would truly resent, I can see clearly the path I was heading on, I would have definitely ended up some loser betabuxx, no doubt about it, working a dead end low pay job too
The black pill saved me, but boy was it a brutal awakening, I was left no room to cope, its kind of ridiculous, I had no pride to fall back on to cope, and one of my friends offed himself around the same time (some months after) as my rejection from the girl beneath my looks league (well she was at the time), its like I was left no option but to accept the black pill, I had nowhere to retreat to mentally, I even started to think God was directly fucking with me JFL (if he exists maybe he was)
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