Experiment How shy or socially anxious or bad at social skills are you? (EVERYONE GTFIH)
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@Jerek
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i just have no access to friends
Hey. I think i have neither.
The only thing that blocked me in my life is that i know my looks do not allow me to do specific stuff (going to parties/etc.)
I'm working from home since the last year and, since my voice is kinda nice (it's literally the only good thing i have), a lot of foid coworkers just want to interact with me. Maybe i'll show my face sooner or later, so they'll stop pestering me
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It sounds like when you’re sub3 it affects your social skills negatively. That’s the impression I have from your post
Decent enough to mantain a conversation, however, I lack experience talking to people my age so possibly below average. Got rid of anxiousness long ago.
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i now have social anxiety
I think I come across as boring and having few interesting experiences/relationships so mostly just remain silent
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@Lonelycel
listening to dr k improved my social skills ded srs
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Who’s that?
Never had problems like social anxiety or phobia. Maybe I am a bit introvert but I have never experienced any lack of social life or friends. As I firmly say everytime my inceldom is due of my ridicolous, grotesque and disgusting appearance.
Sort of. I’d call myself a good speaker but certain situations are alien to me.
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@Lonelycel
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@slimshady
You should join a call center. Work from home maybe as a credit caller trying to collect on unpaid bills. You end up making foids cry since they are single mothers who are poor.
It might help you train your dark triad traits from the comfort of your own home and you get to be talkative. Just work on at least sounding like a normie.
talkative with dark triad traits might not make you neurotypical but it would make you act less like a pussy. Your voicemight will actually make people react (angry, sad, guilt) which helps develop your internal self-esteem regarding your voice.
i already work a help desk so I train the opposite and practice empathy. I'd rather be a credit collection instead. The clients I call just abuse me over the phone for issues I can't control. I get less angry now since their bullshit yelling and accusations just roll off me like water on duck feathers. No need for external sympathy from others. They're all trash in my eyes. I still have to lie to them. So convincing other of a lie that the issue is minor and will be fixed soon etc even if our company is going to be slow to fix it.
It might help you train your dark triad traits from the comfort of your own home and you get to be talkative. Just work on at least sounding like a normie.
talkative with dark triad traits might not make you neurotypical but it would make you act less like a pussy. Your voice
i already work a help desk so I train the opposite and practice empathy. I'd rather be a credit collection instead. The clients I call just abuse me over the phone for issues I can't control. I get less angry now since their bullshit yelling and accusations just roll off me like water on duck feathers. No need for external sympathy from others. They're all trash in my eyes. I still have to lie to them. So convincing other of a lie that the issue is minor and will be fixed soon etc even if our company is going to be slow to fix it.
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@vulcanknowsbest
I forgot to mention that everyone loves talking about things they hate. Find a common thing to hate. Better if you find both a common thing to like and common thing to hate. Just don't go into a full aspir rage mode. Just hate it and laugh about it.
It's common normie technique to start conversation.
Similarity chasing is another. So say you meet a soldier during war. You ask about each other's backgrounds until you find a weak tie. You end up bonding randomly because you are from the same city but in a different part of the world. Then you are willing to save this guy during a gun battle a bit more than the others. Do that on a smaller scale like finding out you both attended the same school and had the same bully or teacher.
the above might still get blown out because of your looks. You'll need to find people who are used to interacting with people of your looks level. Book clubs, larp cosplayers, chess, history simulations, ww2 and war enthusiasts, board gaming, rc racing and bot engineering, etc. The less attention seeking foids the better.
once you have that head start,steal other people's discussion ideas. Also Modern version of this is forwarding memes to each other. Or talking about normie news. You basically find people who have low information and feed them interesting stuff. Not too much or you end up being a jester. Just enough to get them giving back too
It's common normie technique to start conversation.
Similarity chasing is another. So say you meet a soldier during war. You ask about each other's backgrounds until you find a weak tie. You end up bonding randomly because you are from the same city but in a different part of the world. Then you are willing to save this guy during a gun battle a bit more than the others. Do that on a smaller scale like finding out you both attended the same school and had the same bully or teacher.
the above might still get blown out because of your looks. You'll need to find people who are used to interacting with people of your looks level. Book clubs, larp cosplayers, chess, history simulations, ww2 and war enthusiasts, board gaming, rc racing and bot engineering, etc. The less attention seeking foids the better.
once you have that head start,steal other people's discussion ideas. Also Modern version of this is forwarding memes to each other. Or talking about normie news. You basically find people who have low information and feed them interesting stuff. Not too much or you end up being a jester. Just enough to get them giving back too
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@UninspiredGuy1
Yes, I did have a lot of Social Anxiety and I Still severely lack social skills. I can't even smile at people and when I have to smile, my face becomes weird. I talk in a very robotic way. But most of this happens because of our upbringing and ugliness. People don't want to talk to you anyway then how would you develop such skills. If you are ugly then your own family will not talk to you as happily as they talk to better looking kids, and it was proven in some study cited in this forum. But in Social Media, I am very Extroverted and many people like my personality. So it just shows that our ugliness really inhibits us and even if it doesn't, it causes other people to hate us which inhibits us anyway. Parents also have a great deal of responsibility in creating kids with Social anxiety. So its your ugliness and upbringing both.
Just recently I and my friends were doing a conversation and looking at that, I realised that no one actually wants to talk to me. They call each other's names and talk to each other. But will only talk to me as a reply to what I say to them. Also I have to take their name and talk so that they actually listen. And here I was not socially anxious at all, I was talking pretty well. Its just that they won't talk to me. Also there was a foid within the group and she was trying to compeletely ignore me
Just recently I and my friends were doing a conversation and looking at that, I realised that no one actually wants to talk to me. They call each other's names and talk to each other. But will only talk to me as a reply to what I say to them. Also I have to take their name and talk so that they actually listen. And here I was not socially anxious at all, I was talking pretty well. Its just that they won't talk to me. Also there was a foid within the group and she was trying to compeletely ignore me
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@Jon_Thicc @MountainGorilla @Bleachcel
I have pretty good social skills yet that doesn't help you when all your friends are assholes who end up moving or visa versa etc. Life can hand you the short end of the stick regardless! People from work are not friends either so you're pretty much screwed as far as friends go after school. Literally all my friends moved or got married or both because they're bluepilled cucks
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@Alone75
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My social skills are shit, whenever I'm in a conversation I just don't know what to say. Only once it ends and i replay it in my mind do I realise what I could've said to make the conversation better or more funny
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I’m a mentalcel
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@Ellsworth
Yes I have always been shy. And have issues with anxiety. At times crippling anxiety. I have had to quit several jobs due to anxiety; and it sucks because I have to make up some bs excuse to quit. If I was a woman I could say I am having issues with anxiety and would be granted time off to work on it and such, but because I’m an ugly male they would just scoff at my mental illness and insist i man up and do the job or they will find someone else that will.
I am extremely shy and am terrified of people.
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@Hate_my_life
Why do your threads get so many views?
I get very very anxious when it comes to social situations.
I am very adverse when it comes to social situations.
I am also very shy.
I can "come out" and be social in very very very limited situations, but only in small groups and with people who I know.
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do you have autism?
My mum who's a nurse thinks I do, but I've never been tested for it. I dont know.
Was diagnosed with avoidant personality disorder. Tried all shticks you can think of. All a meme.
I have no social skills at all, I dont talk with anyone and when is awkward as fuck
Extreme anxiety: I feel like I'm about to choke, causing me to pace and fidget for minutes to mentally prepare myself to make a conversation with someone, every mistake in social encounters replays in my head for hours, tormenting me almost without end, my eyes twitch and eardrums become overwhelmed and make these irritating banging sounds in the worst cases, and I have panic attacks around large groups of people.
I have zero social skills because my schizo mother locked me at home for most of my childhood because of her paranoid delusions of strangers on the street and getting bullied and excluded constantly for being obese (97th BMI percentile), very short curry at school with zero friends when I was younger.
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I have zero social skills because my schizo mother locked me at home for most of my childhood because of her paranoid delusions of strangers on the street and getting bullied and excluded constantly for being obese (97th BMI percentile), very short curry at school with zero friends when I was younger.
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I went to the mall before fall started with my father and there was a giant crowd of people talking and shopping everywhere; I couldn't take it, the atmosphere was going to suffocate me, and I had to grip my father's arm tightly the entire time like a little boy when I'm almost a grown man, I'll...
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